so i have this best friend and he is a guy. we've been friends for around 7 years. over the course of our friendship we have grown closer. and after five years we started liking each other. the thing is its always been him for me. we have a complex relationship and mixed emotions about each other. right now we are on a break, but we both feel a little something. the thing is we've both been hurt by each other so many times we don't know what to do. i was pretty miserable after the relationship ended, but one thing i did realize is that i love him. im f/17, but i don't think he "loves" me. i feel this emotional bond we have and we can basically tell each other everything, but i think he prefers someone prettier, smarter, less complex, more confident. what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cam27 answered Monday June 2 2008, 12:04 pm: Girl if you love him than go with him, but keep your eyes wide open for him. Make sure you know whats going on at all times. He obviously has a problem with being with you. So you and him need to look deep inside each other and find the problem because it sounds to me that you are selling yourself short. You are worth being with him you just have to have the confidence to show it!! Be smart and just go with it and see how everything plays out!! Much Love,
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mhm answered Wednesday May 28 2008, 10:26 am: For right now i think you should take a little time off for yourself. You dont want to be hurt again by him, or by your emotions.
If he dosent love you for you, then dont waste your time on someone who will look down on the unique person you are. Continue to be best friends, and grow in your friendship, but i would find someone who will value you for you. [ mhm's advice column | Ask mhm A Question ]
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