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Getting him Back?
I had a boyfriend and he ment alot to me, more than any other guy I've dated. I have a friend whose a guy and me and him are close friends and he had a friend over. To make a long story short I made out with the friend. My boyfriend was drunk one night, and that's when it slipped that we kissed. I lied and said he got on top of me and kissed me. He totally freaked but we stayed together for a month after. We just recently broke up because he just sort of stopped caring, and was obsessed with doing other things. It changed, and we broke up. I'm really upset now, and my friend talked to him, and he said he still wasn't over me, but he doesn't know if it's best to date again later on. And he refuses to talk to me, but he told my friend he would when he thinks he's grown up enough? But anyway I want him bad very bad, how do I get him back? I apologized a trillion times for the kid I cheated with, and he said that's the reason he stopped caring so much, and he told my friend maybe she'll learn from it and won't do with her next boyfriend.
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My best advise is to never give up. If he isn't over you than there is a chance you can get him alone and force him to talk to you about the issue. You can never lie in relationships cause they will just screw everything up. If he's not gonna talk to you then some time in your life your gonna have to move on.
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Hey. It's hard in a situation like this because after apoligizing, there really isn't much that can be done on your part besides proving that your not going to slip up and make the same mistake again. The problem with guys is that they're all about ego. If you crush a guys ego, its a big deal. If he says he's not over you, then try to believe him and give him sometime to cool off. Try calling him and if he hangs up on you, wait until you can leave him a message or send him an email or IM so even if he fakes it, you know he'll still read it and have something to think about. Cheating is really complicated because it really messes up the whole trust thing. But if you can prove to this guy you're going to stay loyal, then the trust can most likely be earned back. Don't be afraid to do something crazy to get him back. Guys like a girl who'll take a risk. No matter what, don't stop trying. Chances are when you least expect it, this guy will call you and try to make things right. Most guys are big softies at heart. Good luck and let me know how it turns out. ♥ fabulous
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wOW. gIRL I'VE DONE tHE saME dANG. i was with a guy and we were going together for a good while. But then i met this guy at this party and we were having a lot of fun and then we just went 2 a back room and I cheated on my boyfriend and i felt terrible about it. Then my bestfriend told my boyfriend about what we did but we stayed together for awhile but later broke up. And now i miss him, and he misses me, but we just realized we could find somebody else to chill with for awhile, and when we were both ready we'd promise 2 call eachother and talk about it.
Hope This helps.
Take some time to yourself and let Life figure out whats in the future for love.
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