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Ok this is kinda weird, but i really need help. so ok im 17 male. ok i lost my virginity when i was 14. i have had sex with only two people. i have been in love with this girl when i was 15 but she really, really hurt me. after that i was never the same, i felt like i couldn't trust and i wanted to date but i also didn't. Im not a sex addict or anything. but now i finally starting letting people in, but yet everytime we go to have sex, i dont' get turned on By ANYONE. its like i lost all interest in sex. is that Normal? whats wrong with me? i feel like i can never have sex..cause im never turned on anymore. can someone PLEASE HELP ME!?
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I think your still inlove with your ex and need some closer. Maybe you should talk to her and see if you can work things out. Find out what your problem is before you turn down the one that was meant for you. Its never too late!! Talk to your ex. Tell her your situation and make her talk to you so that you can love again trust me it'll be ok!! Just tell her how you feel and whats been going on!!
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Well my guess is that you're worried that you'll get hurt again. Because that happened last time you let someone in.
My best advice [which might suck, or might help you] is to try and move on from your past. Sure, she hurt you wicked bad. But be strong, and learn from it. Try to realize that not everyone's going to treat you like that. And a decent girl will respect that you got hurt in the past. Once you're comfortable around a girl again, that "spark" will be there, and you'll know it. I doubt there's anything wrong with you, besides maybe "loss of faith in others" syndrome.
And keep in mind that I'm a girl. I will never get entirely how guys think, but I know how girls think, so I tried =]
Hope I helped you.
-LM
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