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dissaproveing family and friends
ok so i am with this girl we have been dating for a while now and things are absoloutly amazing i love her so much.... so whats the problem? well ok i am 15 years old ill be 16 on june 22 but my gf is.... 13 and in seventh grade i dont see whats so wrong with that but my dad hates it and no one approves not even my best friend... but i love her so much plese help someone idk what to do.....
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Dont worry about what your family and friends think of her. just cause they're not happy doesnt mean anything. cuz in the end, if you end up dumping her, all you did was made everyone else happy, besides yourself. and how you feel is what truely matters. i think you should just tell your friends and family that you love her and they're gonna have to get over the fact that shes younger. if they cant accept it, then they're gonna have to deal with it.
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I think you should just live your life for you. Its not their desision. Its yours and I say if you love her and she loves you than just go with it and tell you friends and family if they really love you than they will accept and respect your desision....Trust me don't break her heart just because a couple of people don't like her. Atleast give her a chance to meet your friends and family. Work things out and hopefully things will work for the best!!
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A 2 years difference in age isn't a big deal.
They are probably more concerned with her
maturity than anything. She may be an exception
but most 13 year old girls are a bit ditsy
and immature. No offense to you 13 year old
girls out there.
You are not 18 so it isn't "illegal". By the
time you reach 18, she will be 15/16. If it
lasts that long, I think parents would realize
the relationship was more than just a passing
thing.
I advise that you continue the relationship
if you really care for her. Keeping in mind
that down deep she is more of a child than
you are right now. Don't get involved with
her sexually until she is more mature.
She hasn't reached the age of consent until
she is at least 16...long time to have to
wait,but I'm sure her parents could make
your life hell should she end up pregnant.
Be smart about it if you care. :)
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Sweetheart, you could be confusing 'love' with infatuation. You may like a HUGE amount, but not LOVE! And many people confuse the two together, it is natural. Your dad probably thinks it's 'puppy-love' and not real love, so be understanding and understand the fact that he doesn't know how you truly feel about your girl. The two of you, you and your girlfriend have really good chemistry and that is good to hear, give it some time, give your friends and family some time. You never know what may hapen in the future, they could accept your relationship after some time, they probably are just new to it. :D
So basically, don't do anything, let them judge or whatever, give it some time and see what happens... ;)
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