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Boys.. Cant live with them; or without them
Okay so I've been dating this guy for 9 months. Its been pretty bumpy && up && down. But, just last week we saw eachother everyday && it was great. Then I got supper busy recently so hes been hanging out with his friends alot, && thats all cool with me but that isnt my problem. He just started playing video games && I cant get him away from them. I've talked to him once in a week I call && text him but i only get short answers and conversations and we bicker alot. It frusrates me so I cant stand to stay on the phone && text(i dont like eithier in the first place) Last time we talked we got in a huge fight. He made me feel unimportant and said some things I think he should regret. But I cant help but think about it. What should i do?? He always goes through these stages until it comes down to breaking up then he changes for a week or two && goes straight back to it. I dont think I really deserve it. But Im lost && confused with what to do. Please help me
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I personally feel that breaks in relationships aren't always the answer because it is very unlikely the problems you had in the first place wont return and affect your relationhip again.
If he can't act like an adult and be stable, make you feel unimportant and not a big deal, because everyone is a big deal, and if he doesn't see it or treat you like you are one, then he really isn't worth your time. There are guys out there that will treat you like you're a true diamond and that is what you should be heading to. Staying with this guy that has iregular emotions, don't bring you ANY closer to the one that will! Playing vidoe games shows how immature he is and not ready for a relationship, or any responsibility, which a relationship is!
If you can't talk to him and share your feelings then what is the point of having a relationship?! A relationship is where the 2 people can and will, with NO problems whatsoever, communicate and let each other know about how they feel. So if he can't talk then let him walk! Don't waste your time, a guy out there is waiting for you, as cheesy as it may sound, it is true!
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If he keeps acting like this regularly and he hasn't changed, he probably won't ever change no matter how many times you get to the breaking up stage. If its not working between you two you should have a break, just see how you go without each other for a few weeks or months. This will give you time to figure out if you still like him enough to continue the relationship. And it will also show him that you are beimg serious and won't put up with his on and off attitude anymore, and that he may lose you if he doesn't change.
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