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How do i kill myself?
I am a selfish jerk and a cheat. i have no skill sets to get a job. everybody around me is very judegemental so i cant tell truth about what is going on in my life. i just want to end it. please suggest me ways to kill myself. Dont try to talk me out of it.
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Well, why the H-E double toothpicks don't you STOP being selfish and STOP being a jerk! Make your apologies like a man then go get some dang job skills,they offer it for free! It's not that hard! Most people don't need someone else to figure out their suicide(now c'mon really?) so if you don't want talked out of it why did you post this? Whatever is going on in your life can be changed but that is up to you. Everyone has two choices in this life. You can be a whiner or be a winner. It takes a heck of a lot more courage to live than it does to die. I don't think you're a coward. If you find the courage to live you just might amaze yourself. If you would see a doctor they could give you medication for depression. A lot of people on the brink of suicide have gone on to live amazing lives after being treated for a chemical imbalance. Just some things to think about buddy, you know you could make good decisions from now on if you wanted to. Good luck!
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I hate to break it to you, but no one on this site is going to help you kill yourself. We simply are not allowed to, and the legal repercussions it could have would be too tremendous of a risk.
What you need to do is seek professional help. Get a therapist and tell them everything you're feeling. They're an unbiased party. They don't know you personally, so they can't really judge you like you fear the people you do know would. If they feel you need medication, they'll probably prescribe you an anti-depressant. If it doesn't work at first, don't get overwhelmed as it sometimes take a few different medications to find the one that works best for you.
Please try to remember that life does get better. I used to be in your position...where I hated myself and thought I was worthless and that everything would be better off if I didn't exist. I was wrong. I got myself better with some medication, and I got new hobbies. I went out, started a new job, made new friends, did new things, and my life is better than ever now. I've never been so happy before, and I know that if I had taken the easy way out, I wouldn't get to see how incredible my life could be. And please know that just because everyone seems caught up in their own life to pay attention to or help you with your problems, it doesn't mean they don't care. They do, but life gets in the way and things happen. I promise you'll be missed and that you affect more people than you think you do.
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I hate to break it to you, but no one on this site is going to help you kill yourself. We simply are not allowed to, and the legal repercussions it could have would be too tremendous of a risk.
What you need to do is seek professional help. Get a therapist and tell them everything you're feeling. They're an unbiased party. They don't know you personally, so they can't really judge you like you fear the people you do know would. If they feel you need medication, they'll probably prescribe you an anti-depressant. If it doesn't work at first, don't get overwhelmed as it sometimes take a few different medications to find the one that works best for you.
Please try to remember that life does get better. I used to be in your position...where I hated myself and thought I was worthless and that everything would be better off if I didn't exist. I was wrong. I got myself better with some medication, and I got new hobbies. I went out, started a new job, made new friends, did new things, and my life is better than ever now. I've never been so happy before, and I know that if I had taken the easy way out, I wouldn't get to see how incredible my life could be. And please know that just because everyone seems caught up in their own life to pay attention to or help you with your problems, it doesn't mean they don't care. They do, but life gets in the way and things happen. I promise you'll be missed and that you affect more people than you think you do.
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i'm not gonna tell you to pray or stop doing this to your self i know how hard your life could be so all i want you to know that you should think a way to solve this instead of giving up ... maybe you should find that person who's gonna make you happy maybe you should change your self help people and they will change the way they look at you
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Well on this site we aren't allowed to tell someone how to commit suicide. It goes against everything we are actually supposed to be doing. So you're not going to get the answer to your question here.
Some advisers below gave you the suicide hotline number and that's a great place to start.
Giving up isn't the solution. Lots of people have been where you are. If you feel like you're selfish, then turn that around and start being selfless. If you feel like you are a cheat, then stop cheating and start being honest.
As for the people around you being judgmental, that's literally everywhere. So many people in this world are judgmental and it sucks, but screw them. We're not here to please people who judge us.
As for no skill sets, there are ways to learn new things. There are job training places and they teach you skills.
There are solutions, you just need to be open to it.
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Hey! I know how you feel, I really do. I was in the same situation and you are not alone, but you shouldn't kill yourself. Just think, you don't need money to be happy. You can re-purpose your life. Use it for good. Something good ALWAYS comes out of something bad, I want you to know that. You'll get over this and someday look back from your successful life and say,"I am so glad I didn't kill myself." Just don't do it. I know that you'll say "You don't understand." You're right, I don't completely understand. Maybe the circumstances seem inescapable, but I assure you that if you just rest and take care of yourself, you will be so much happier. Good luck.
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No one on this site is going to tell you how to kill yourself that is not what we do. We are also strangers to you and therefore we are never judgmental. We try to help fix whatever is wrong making you feel as you do.
All you have told us is you fell you are a selfish Jerk and a cheat. That does not tell us much.
If you like you can write back to anyone of us in a private message as to what is bothering you and we will try and help you. Another way you can get help is with the following help lines.
The kids help phone for kids up to age 20. The number is 1-800-668-6868. What is Kids Help Phone?
• Phone counseling
• Web counseling
• For ages 20 & under
• Free, 24/7
• Anonymous & Confidential
• Non-judgmental
There is also the National Suicide Prevention hot line; 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
No matter what problems you are dealing with, they want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7. Your call is Anonymous & Confidential.
As you can see there are people you can turn to who are not judgmental and who want to help you. You say you have no skill sets to find work with. That is not a reason to kill yourself. These same people I have referred you to call and talk to can referrer you to job training programs.
What you really need is someone to talk to who can help you. There is no problem so large that a fresh set of eyes cannot find a resolution to. Give these people a call and let them help you. I promise you better days will be ahead of you if you let them help you.
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Looking at this logically, maybe you should just change the things around you that are making you feel this way instead of trying to force yourself to fit into a life that obviously does not feel compatible to you.
If you are a selfish cheating jerk--stop cheating and being selfish. That seems like the easiest issue to fix.
If everyone around you is judgmental, then get THEM out of YOUR life instead of trying to remove YOURSELF from THEIRS. Move somewhere new, tell them you need space, or outright end friendships and relationships that are toxic and making you feel this way. Who cares what they think, if they believe that spending their time judging others is worthwhile? You may think that you will feel alone after cutting off relationships but it will make you feel relieved, and like you have the space to do whatever you need to do to better yourself and your situation.
Which brings me to my next point, if you have no skills to get a job--go to school! Once the judgmental relationships are no longer consuming you, you will have the mental space you need to focus on school and learn what you need to in order to market yourself in the workplace. If you're concerned about how long it will take, their are a lot of accelerated certification programs around that don't take as long as a typical degree. If cost is an issue, federal student aid is open to almost everybody and is need-based for this very reason--so that financial limitations do not end up becoming life limitations!
I'm not going to say the stereotypical things people usually say to someone who suggests that suicide is a valid option.
I'm not even going to tell you not to do it because ultimately that is your choice.
I'm just trying to make sure you realize that there ARE other options and suicide is probably not the most intelligent one.
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