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how to act when someone asks you out
so theres this guy that i like and it turns out he likes me back and he is supposed to ask me out in person tomorrow morning at church. Hes kind of shy and i want him to feel as comfortable as possible, so i was wondering is there anything i can do to make him feel less nervous and what should i do or say when he asks me out? please help! thanks :)
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I would just be calm and cool about it. Just act nice and he should feel more comfortable and less nervous. I mean since you like him, I'm assuming you're going to say yes. Just say yes then make plans to hang out.
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if he asks you out, just be cool about it. say something like "yes, id love to" and not make a big deal. you dont want to pressure him or make things awkward. i suggest just ask if he wants to hang out, go bowling or to the beach. someplace where you guys can just really get to know eachother, and be yourselves. he will eventually relax, and lighten up on you, making things much easier because you will both be comfortable. then get into going on dates and hanging out a little more in less populated areas. just take it nice and easy, and go with the flow :)
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Since you like him, if he askes, you say Yes, I'd love to spend some time with you. Then try to set a date right then, otherwise he may be too shy to make the next step. So make suggestions, "Would you like to meet me at my house to go for a walk, bike riding(depending on where you live since its winter) come over for a movie and some popcorn, this afternoon is open. If hes not available, then ask him what day he'd like to get together and ask him to call to plan where you'll go.
If he is so nervous and shy, its possible he may chicken out and it never happens. Do you suppose he feels adamant that a guy has to ask the girl or do you think he'd be okay with you asking him? Just a thought in case it gets to the last point possible for him to ask before you both are headed home and he's said nothing yet.
If this happens, just say, "Hey, this is kinda off the cuff
(like the thought just occurred to you and this is not something you planned)
but I enjoy your friendship at church, and I wondered if you like to hang out with me, go somewhere or do something, like a date. He may be relieved he didnt have to say something first and accept.
Good luck dear
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