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Member Since: February 17, 2014
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I am a selfish jerk and a cheat. i have no skill sets to get a job. everybody around me is very judegemental so i cant tell truth about what is going on in my life. i just want to end it. please suggest me ways to kill myself. Dont try to talk me out of it. (link)
Hey! I know how you feel, I really do. I was in the same situation and you are not alone, but you shouldn't kill yourself. Just think, you don't need money to be happy. You can re-purpose your life. Use it for good. Something good ALWAYS comes out of something bad, I want you to know that. You'll get over this and someday look back from your successful life and say,"I am so glad I didn't kill myself." Just don't do it. I know that you'll say "You don't understand." You're right, I don't completely understand. Maybe the circumstances seem inescapable, but I assure you that if you just rest and take care of yourself, you will be so much happier. Good luck.


Me and boyfriend have been dating for four months today. We are both Jrs in highschool.
Recently I feel unimportant because he has been neglecting to make plans with me or see me. Throughout the relationship, he has avoided being able to come to events that are important to me or to stay a little while after school, telling me he has plans or has to do homework.
Until now I have had no problems with this, I want to give him as much space as possible! :)
But I feel like he just doesn't want to see me? I asked him to make plans on a non-school day, and he says he has homework. I don't know how he could have twelve hours worth of homework, or why he didnt make an effort to have some of it done so that we could hang out. But no problem, school comes first right?
But when I texted him this morning to tell him something funny that happened, he was hanging out with friends.
This happens all the time, and I feel like I'm not a priority.
When I brought it up and told him how I felt, he just said 'you know hw always comes first!'
I havnt seen him outside of school in three weeks, other than valentines day.
He also has made a habit of leaving when he is hanging out with me to go meet other people. (Once even another girl to 'study'... But that is resolved)
I communicate about how I feel but he doesn't seem to see a problem. It's a pattern. I love him but...
If you want more background info, I'm probably out of his league, but we are both very mature for our age.
In the past I have had problems with him moving to fast physically, and my parents and him quietly don't get along, if that makes sense.
Should I end it? I'm a loyal person, and staying longer may just make life a lot harder for me. (link)
Hey! I know how you feel. My friends complain about this sometimes. Anyway, the thing you have to do is let him know what he is doing. Girls are often afraid to tell their boyfriends that they don't spend enough time together because they will see them as "clingy", but it usually helps. Good luck!


At first I honestly didn't care when I got news that my bowl was lost because it wasn't a big deal. But now my pair of school shoes are lost this morning as well.

I always keep my shoes either in my shoe cupboard or the floor near it, so I doubt it would've gone anywhere else. Even my mom couldn't find it.

Same here for the bowl, although my mom hinted my dad could've accidentally broke it/trashed it etc. Then she quickly said not to assume that. I don't know if I believe her or not, but you can't just accidentally break a wooden bowl.

At most it would be cracked, but not broken if dropped on the floor. I last saw my shoes last Friday, and now it's Monday. I'm usually the last to go to bed, so I don't think whoever did it did it late night. I doubt it was my sister because when she pranks other people it's obvious. And I doubt my parents would hide my school shoes.

Anyone have an idea who did it? (or what) (link)
Hey! I know how you feel. My stuff is always disappearing too. My school shoes are always missing and on Monday morning I'll look for them, and I can find them so I have to wear another pair. When I get home, I look for them and they are usually under my bed. I know, I know, a bit cliche, so you could also try the garage, the mud room, the closet, and under the couch. Good luck!


i am 12 and i need to know some good teen films for when i go on holiday i am a girl so i like teen flicks i already have
pitch perfect
mean girls (1&2)
st trinians
wild child
plz help asap (link)
If I were you, I would definitely bring a movie like the proposal (funny, great movie!), and probably titanic. Those are my favorites. Good luck!


Last semester I barely received a C but I want to change levels this semester for this science class. I am becoming very stressed and I am always catching up with the rest of peers, even understanding targets the night before a test, that is if I understand it. I know I'm going to fail this semester because I am already doing bad and already too late to catch up with the rest of the class. Should I not be in an honors class? The pressure is too much and it is causing me to not be myself in everyday activities, including my behavior with my family and/or friends. I know it is better for college, to be in an honors class and persevere rather than change to a regular class but it is becoming too much for me to handle. (link)
Hey! I know exactly how you feel. I was in an honors English class, and it was really hard. So, I got bad grades. Eventually I got a C - and then I went to a regular English class and couldn't be happier. Looking back on it, honors wasn't even worth all the trouble. I felt stupid at first but when you get to a regular class, the material is so much easier and you'll probably have a better/easier understanding of the material because of the experience in an honors class. Good luck!




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