Question Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 7:49 pm
everytime i tell my friends who i'm into, they always make it akward for me. they let on hints to the person so hard, and pretty much confess my love to them. its happened before, and will probably happen again. they dont know who im into right now, but they're getting pretty close to figuring it out. they keep bothering me about it. and to make it even better, its the kid my friend kinda likes (but could never have a chance with.) but i'm pretty sure i have a better chance than her. should i just keep this to myself? or do you think they could somehow help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? queenhearts answered Thursday November 8 2007, 6:06 pm: Keep it to yourself. You handle your own love life. Putting it in the hands of somebody else, usually screws things up. Don't tell your friends at all because I doubt they will give you actual help, considering your other friend likes the same person too.
Most likely, your friend will get mad at you and refuse to help. So it's best to keep these things to yourself unless you are very close with your friends.. to the point where you can trust them to keep their mouth shut. Which hasn't happened.
Don't try telling one friend because that one might tell the other. If the person you like is showing no interest with your friend, then go for it. If your friend is making no moves, then you can go after the guy. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
Pebbles88 answered Thursday November 8 2007, 5:49 pm: for right now i would keep it to my self but if you and this boy get serious than you should tell your friend especially the friend who wanted him before because that can become a huge problem within itself...good luck..pebb [ Pebbles88's advice column | Ask Pebbles88 A Question ]
adverb answered Thursday November 8 2007, 5:39 pm: if they keep doing that, tell them you don't like it or just don't tell them who you're into anymore.
i know it can be embarassing sometimes when your friends tell a person that you like them.
if you think you have a better chance than her, don't tell her. if you like the kid, go for it. if you don't, try to keep your friend from liking the too much. [ adverb's advice column | Ask adverb A Question ]
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