I'm sorry if this is long but I've had this is my system for awhile and i need to get it out.
I met this guy "B" this summer when we were both attending summer school. He is 3 years older than me and we are both in high school. I started liking him, and then we started talking to each other through myspace and then on the phone (texting.) Then we started talking more and the first time we hung out , we made out. We kept hooking up and hanging out constantly and we still are, but not as much as we used to. The problem is that he doesn't really talk to me in school, even if we have a class together,yet he always stares at me. He constantly comes to visit me at my house and i don't think hes embarrassed of me because all his friends know about me. He kept me that he was really confused about something and that it was a complicated situation. Then he admitted to my friends that he liked me but didn't want to ask me out because he was confused about something. A few weeks later. I found out that while he was hooking up with me, he was also hooking up with this other girl. That really made me break down. That's why he was confused ! I've been trying to confront him about this, but i can't seem to do it. It's really hard for me to do, so my question is how should i bring it up and do you think he really does like me or is just playing games?
Additional info, added Monday November 12 2007, 10:54 am: He sometimes goes without talking to me for a few days and then he talks to me everyday after that. I really don't know if I should get over him, or try to make things better. This has been going on since July, so it's not something that has recently happened.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Pebbles88 answered Tuesday November 13 2007, 8:03 pm: if you really wanna know whats goin on you cant go through friends you have to go to him if you cant do it face to face try over the phone or textin but to see if he really like you fall back from him make him think your not into him like that and i bet he come runnin... [ Pebbles88's advice column | Ask Pebbles88 A Question ]
ANdREANAxMARiE answered Tuesday November 13 2007, 1:59 pm: I think you should just tell him that you don't want to just keep hooking up because that's not what you want. & tell him you like him but you don't want him to be hooking up with other girls. Either he can have you or the other girl and make him choose and if he picks the other girl then let it be like that , have him make a decision. [ ANdREANAxMARiE's advice column | Ask ANdREANAxMARiE A Question ]
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