Question Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 6:59 pm
i met this guy and known him since school started. i like him alot and i cannot figure out if he likes me. one time he asked me to go driving around with him and i did. i text him afterwards and said thanks and he said it was fun and that we should hang out more often. and if i mention another guy he kind of gets protective? and he compliments me sometimes, and other people think it is obvious that he likes me. but the thing is the other night i asked him if he wanted to go somewhere and he made it sound like we were going to do it, but then he said it was too late... i didn't know if he really wanted to do it or not and also if i want to talk i have to be the one who sends him a text or i.m. first. am i just analizing the whole situation too much? do you think he likes me?
-plus, when i texted him the other night when he said it was too late to hang out he kept talking about how bored he was and then randomely, out of the blue he said, "man, i really need a girlfriend or something."
Pebbles88 answered Thursday November 8 2007, 5:56 pm: i think he likes you wait i know but boys there so complicated he problem wating on you to give him hints that yoy like him cause he dont wanna make that move and get rejected..he made that random comment because he wanted you to know he wanted a girl and he wants it to be you so if you like him than u might hve to make that first move...good luck ..pebb [ Pebbles88's advice column | Ask Pebbles88 A Question ]
adverb answered Thursday November 8 2007, 5:14 pm: i think he likes you, and i think you are kind of analyzing it too much. try not to take every little thing he says (like "it's too late") too personally or think it's always a negative thing. [ adverb's advice column | Ask adverb A Question ]
Ignatz answered Thursday November 8 2007, 4:57 pm: I'd say he likes you. He's sending up flares, hiring skywriters, doing everything but ask you out directly. Guys are incredibly afraid of rejection and of making mistakes. So he's playing coy and dropping hints everywhere in hopes that you'll make the first move. He may have been putting up a little barrier the other night so as not to seem too desperate, but I wouldn't worry about it too much.
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