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well i do it bout every week would it still effect?

No it shouldnt have any effect on your sex drive.

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does masterbation effect ur performance in bed? like u wont be as good in bed as a person dat has'nt masterbated be4?

I wouldnt think so but it depends on how often you do it.

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hi there i live in Calgary Alberta and i was just wondering if someone is trying to get pregent, when would be a good time to try and have sex??

The best time is about 14 days after the start of your period, this is known as the prime time for a woman to be fertile. Good luck!!!

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i've only been going out with this guy for a month and a few weeks. well the other night when were messing around (not sex, which we haven't had) he told me he loved me. well i didn't say anything back cause i don't love him, just like him. well after he left he texted me and said that he meant what he said and i told him i like being with him but i dont love him. he said that's good enough for him. well this all happened sunday night and that's the last time we hung out. he's called me and always asks how my day is going but it seems like he's always making up excuses to not hang out now.
it's spring break and he is always at baseball but tomorrow he has the whole day off and i don't have to work so perfect chance to hang out right? well, no he's going to be with his friends. which is totally fine but don't you think he could take out like an hour of the day to at least like eat or something with his girlfriend?? are these signs to a break up? i sound pathetic.

To me it sounds like you broke up with him when you told him you didnt love just liked him, give him a chance and call up and ask hey I'm going so and so would you like to go? Or asking him out for a soda.

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15/f

for english i have to do an i-journey project. it's basically a research narrative and we have to go on a journey somewhere and write as if we've already been on the journey. we have to make a map too. like some were a famous chef who goes around the world trying famous cuisines, going back in time and trying to catch a serial killer, being in iraq from a soldiers point of view, etc. [can't use any of those]

so does anyone have any ideas? something interesting and something i can do a lot of research on. i don't know much about anything and i'm open to any ideas.

thank you soo much!

Dont know if you can use this. But how about the life for a woman in the wild west the hardships and the things they did?

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I'm completely miserable and pretty much want to die now. I can't stand the winter weather anymore. I can't sleep anymore. I'm really sick with a sore throat and fever that won't go away. Things with my boyfriend which were going perfectly, my family loved him and he was living at my house are totally ruined because my dad walked in on us having sex and kicked him out and he's "not welcome in our home anymore". So things are awkward between me and my whole family and him now. I'm doing badly in school and still fighting with my sister. I hate my job. I'm completely miserable. So should I just say f*** it and like kill myself or something?

GET TO A Dr. NOW thinking of suicide is not a good sign tell some one anyone! I know you think life is over but its not trust me. Life has lots of ups and downs (trust me I ve lost 5 people close to me in the last month) and this is just a down point. But PLEASE get to a dr or someone you can trust!

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I just got a male betta fish, and was wondering what size tank is best for them?

I got a kit that includes a 1/2 gallon aquarium, food, water conditioner, and gravel. I think that should be okay, but I've read mixed things about tank size.

Any information on caring for Betta fish is appreciated.

Another name for the Beta Fish is a Japenese Fighting fis They get their name for wanting to fight other males. Follow the directions that came with the tank. Another good idea is to place a mirror behind the tank and watch as he tries to fight his image, congratulations on getting a beautiful fish.

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Hi! I have been crossdressing for some time now and have had wonderful success in passing as a genetic woman (men are always "hitting" on me when I am dressed). I haven't shaved my legs until just recently (I've always worn pants and/or long dreses)and now that I AM shaving my legs I have discovered that I end up with small bumps on my skin when I shave what would be my bikini line. I find these pesky little things to be annoying and definitely not conducive to my wearing a womans bathing suit, thongs, and other skimpy little things. Is this normal and, if so, how can get rid of them and avoid them in the future? I never had this problem until I started shaving down there. I would like to keep shaving my legs as it feels soooo good when I'm wearing pants and I think my legs look A LOT better shaved than when they are all hairy. Thanks.

Are you using a mans shaving cream? If so go to the store and purchase and shaving cream for women with aloe and lanolin also try using a razor with a conditioner on it. Hope this helps! And thank you for asking me!

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My little sister is being picked on by these preps because she is a tomboy. Her and her best friend (who is goth) stand up for her. But the preps still come back. My sister is a very tough girl. When ever her birthday comes around the preps get her make up and pink butterfly shirts. She gave the make up to me and cut the butterfly shirt in half and sewed it onto a half of our dads shirt and went as half boy half girl for halloween (she makes alot of her own clothes.) What should I (or she) do about the preps they are so anoying to her. Mom and dad wont do anything about it and we dont think its serius eanough to go to the princable. So what im asking here is what should we do about this. All answers aprecated.

try talking to the principal or a counseler some one who can make them stop because in my state bulling is a big huge NO-NO! beside it sounds like your sister and her friend are very comfortable being exactly who they are. think about it if everyone looked the same how boring is that?

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Do they still exist??

Where can I find REAL jeans..not stretch??

I really dont like the stretch jeans because they dont suck anything in..they just show EVERY little flaw about your bottom half!!

yes you can still find "real" jeans try your local Walmart or Kmart the tags should say if they are strech or not. ( I agrre on the flaws on the bottom half) it sucks dont it?

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I have a son that is in the eighth grade and he is having such a hard time in algebra...i wanted to know if anyone could give me any feedback on kumon...

You can try to use this site www.math.com and see if that helps rather then use Kumon or anything else of that type until it gets to bad or doesnt seem to help.

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okay. so i just got my period and it's likeeeeee whatever. ANYWAYS. i'm using a tampon. it's tampax sportttt but i keep leaking. like i have to wear a pad w. my tampon. weird. i know i'm putting it up high enough, but idk. should i do something before or after i put it in? is it a bad brand?

thanks!

Some time when you have your period you bleed heavily for the first few days. To solve your problem try buying a super tampon or just stepping up a level.

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Okay. so i have short and thin hair, and i really want it to grow to be down to about my middle back. right now its at my shoulders, and im just so tired of it being short.
i had really short hair in 5th grade, and then it grew to be the lenght it is now. Its been four years and my hair still hasnt grown longer than yet. I do get it trimmed, but it still will not grow past my shoulers

DOES ANYBODY KN0W OF A GOOD HAIR PRODUCT THAT WILL MAKE YOUR HAIR GROW BECAUSE I WANT IT TO BE LONG, BUT I DONT WANT WEAVE OR EXTENSITIONS

thank you so much :]

i use the walmart brand of pantene and it seems to work but then again ive had long hair for 18 years and its only to mid of my back

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i got nauseating for 2 days and now it all better? what wrong with that?

You probably just ate something that didn't agree with you or had a touch of the stomach flu

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i was on the pill and missed one.. i took it as soon as i realised that day but it was more than 12 hours later. the box said to take the pill for the next 7 days (7 day rule) so I did. tho my pack ended on the 7th day of the rule but i had taken all 7 pills .. so is contraception still effective?
(the pills name is Dianette)

yes its still effective

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The other day before an English lesson, the whole class was waiting outside the room for the teacher to arrive.
I was standing there and then the guy I liked walked past so I said hey, and he stayed there talking to me.
We were about a meter away from everyone else and then he kissed me...like we were making out for aagggeesss (but it was amazing, and the best ''kiss'' of my life :) :) )
Suddenly there's like an awkward cough and we break it off and look and it's my English teacher standing there with a slightly amused look on his face and a raised eyebrow.
He said '' (my name here) you know..you're about 15 minutes late for my lesson...and...'' he doesn't finish his sentence.
I suddenly realised that I had been making out for 15 or so minutes, and my hand was playing around the front of the guys trouser waistband..and he had a hand up my shirt..(not like on my boob)
He kissed me on the cheek and said ''ill wait for you after''and walked off to his lesson.

The thing is that my teacher is quite old....but he doesn't really care what we do. He never gets pissed off and always makes rude jokes and whatnot.
I'm just wondering what I could've said to him.
After the guy walked off I said ''I'm really sorry Mr._____...I didn't realize..we got kind of carried away...''
he just replied ''you don't need to explain'' and he walked into the classroom.
Now I always go red when I see him in the corridors and I had a double English lesson today with him. I used to be like one of the more outgoing students and I always made jokes with him..now he kind of avoids me and I get embarassed.
Should I say something to him?

Thanks!! He's honestly my favorite teacher!

15/f

dont bring it up and go on and continue to try to be your normal out going self after all your teacher was at one time 15 LOL ;)

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Hello. I was wondering if anyone knows the name of the melody that's played before a horse race? If anyone knows please answer asap. Thank you!

Its simply called "call to post" i should know as i work at a race track

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Today I bought 2 pregnancy tests. I took one of them tonight.

This is what the instructions said:

- A blue line will appear in the oval window to show that the test has worked.
- Read your result in the square window, if there is no blue line in the square window you are not pregnant.

Ok so i took the test as you do, and only half a blue line appeared in the oval window, and it was fairly faint, not really faint but it wasnt to dark a line. Nothing appeared in the square window.

I am going to be taking the second test tomorrow morning for sure. But I just want to know..

Because of the line being half, and faint, do you think I should just completely forget about this tests results as its not full result? Or do you think it is still a dependable, accurate result?

Do you think I may have done it wrong? (Ive never taken a test before)

If I shouldnt trust this test I will also purchase another test, I would like to have 2 for sure answers rather than just the one I shall be taking in the morning.

take another one to be sure or go to your local Health Dept. those are the most accurate

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does anybody know any multiplayer games like cry wolf?

cry wolf was an online murder mystery and me and my friends loved it because it was scary and fun. But it recently got deleted, is there another game like that?

try www.kingdomofloathing.com its a great game ive been playing off and on for 2-3 years now

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im just curious buttt ;
what are your new years traditions. i know everyone does something different. i'm having a small party and i need some ideas. no drinkingg and all that cause none of my friends are into it. ideas?

How about renting Videos and ordering pizzas and things like that . theres alot of ways to have a New Years party without booze.

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