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lights on or off
is it better to have sex with lights on or off? dont give me the "it depends, or either" just sayy wich is better. lights on, or lights off.
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I like a bit of light =]
If I'm in my room, I put on my bedside lamp, with a hat on top of it haha, so it's mostly dark... but you can still see everything ;) lol
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i would say lights off.
it's more relaxing and sets the mood better.
also, if you're not tsuper comfortable with your body that could always help.
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Definetley lights off. It relaxes the mood, and calms you down. It also makes you focus on just who you're with, not what's around you. Both are good, but I prefer lights off :P.
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I say lights off. This way you can concentrate more on each other and being caught up in the moment instead of worrying over your body and what it looks like in different positions.
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Contrary to some posts below, the true answer is "It doesnt matter one iota"
Lights on or lights off is usually "Did we even think about the lights before we hit the bed"
Your question is unanswerable. It doesnt matter. Do whatever you want.
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are you comfortable with your body?
are you comfortable with him?
alot of people are very self conscience in that case it might be more enjoyable with lights off
it really does depend.
maybe dimm the lights???
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Despite your request, it REALLY DOES depend on what you're most comfortable with.
Personally I prefer to have the lights on, for me it's so much sexier to be able to see my partner and have him see me. But again, it comes down to what you'd like.
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It's really, honestly, a personal preference, and it does depend on a lot of factors. If you're nervous, lights off hands down. It takes the pressure off looking each other in the eyes, or staring if you don't mean to, etc. If you're comfortable with your lover, leave the lights on so you can see each other. If you don't want it to be a huge shindig, lights on so it's less of a big deal to set the mood, and all that.
Personally, I prefer to have the lights off as much as I can because my room gets pitch black and my favorite sense is touch...lol.
Then again, if you aren't familiar with each others' bodies, lights on might be good so you can see what you're doing.
Y'know? Whatever makes you feel more comfortable. Sex can be awkward, and there's no reason for it to be more so.
-Siren =)
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i'd say off with music on. its usually what people do and thats how it usually is. people dont usually have the lights on unless they are comfortable with each others body or are drunk lol but even then it'd be off. personally my first time was in the day and the lights were off but the sun was on :) so enjoy it if you do it i guess! hope i helped!
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