hi. im here to help :]
and im good at it.
i usually help with teens because my goal is to be a high school social worker or adolescent theropist.
thats what im good at.
im really helpful with making your feel good about your desicions and just yourself in general.
i joined this website for practice and to test my skills.
if you think your problem is within my reach...feel more then welcomed to write me.
i can be the most helpful sorce and im always here.
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i will be checking daily and i will try my best to help you any way i can.
im not good at solving my own problems
but solving other peoples problems is my passion, and i will always go out of my to prove that to you.
HAVE A GOOD DAY, AND REMEMBER ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE :]
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How are you able to deal with new faces at school especially if your afraid that lets say a new pretty girl snatches the guy you have a major crush on or that your best guy friend likes another new pretty girl and you secretly like your best guy friend but he dosen't know it and you don't really want him to know..is this confusing? im just stressing because i just learned that we will be getting new people starting next week...im not ready for that because i know everyone at my school already and yes iam afraid...mostly because what if my best guy friend ends up liking a new girl??? please help any advice would be PERFECT!!! thanks a million (link)
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welll sounds a little selfish if you ask me
you dont want to have him but you dont want any one else to have him?
i understand where your coming from but it doesnt make it right
but i kno you dont want change
your afraid of change im guessing
its ok change isnt bad...not one bit.
you both will meet new ppl
and you dont wanna lose your best friend
but if hes true then hell always be your best friend
annnnd to make you feel better
in all movies....
the guy is always inlove with his best friend
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you let him know or let him go
dont be selfish
hes probably waiting for you to speak up anyways..
good luck =]
keep me posted
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Alrighty, well... My friend and I were talking on IM about lacy panties for some reason. And I told her that they were pointless. Who's gonna see them anyway unless you go around flashing people? Well, she said maybe your bf or husband may wanna see them soon. I thought that was yucky. Well, as the conversation ended, it made me think about my body. My butt is like, huge. It's from sitting from front of a computer for the past two years. 0o; Well, that and my face has a lot of blemishes from scars and pimples. Then, my hair feels like a mop that you put out in the sun to dry. -.- Well, I told my friend that my body wasn't built for that stuff. She offered a make over, but it scared me so I denied, but secretly I wouldn't mind. I mean, looks aren't as important to me as computer time, but... Now it's bothering me. I know that if I ever wore those lacy kinky panties or any lolita, that I would probably even scare the devil away! >< Does anybody know what I can do to change this? Something simple? I must tell you that I am VERY lazy and... I am in love with the computer. -.- I practically worship it... So... I'm begging for help here, please! ToT
Thank you! ♥
If you have a site, send me the link, please. ^^ (link)
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go for it.
it sounds like you want it
yess computers make great buddies
but it wudnt hurt to feel pretty
im wayyyy lazy too
so i kno how it feels but lil things go a long way
tell your friend that your interested shes not gonna laugh or anything
all she wants to do is help
and lacy underwear? my boyfriend goes crazy over it
and i think im not the cutest in it
but he still go crazy
no one sees the inperfections we see in the mirror trust me
go for it. :] change is good.
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hi there, okay so my boyfriend of a year and 4 months is at a crossroads in his life. he has the choice of staying here and going to university here and being with me, or going to school out of the country and living with his parents. he hasnt lived with his parents for about 3 years now because of their out of the country jobs. either way, hes going to get a good education and so his inability to make a choice isnt because of school. i know he loves me with all his heart, which is why its hard for him to leave me, and i know its because of me that hes confused about his choice. hes a very simple guy and he wouldnt mind living anywhere really, its just the fact that i guess it means leaving his parents once again or me. he doesnt really tell me much about what hes feeling about all this, but my question is what should i tell him to make him feel better? and how do you think i should react to all this? im so confused and i love him very much and i have no idea what to do or say to help him with his decision, because obviously i want him to stay with all my heart, but i will definately understand if he decides to go because i dont want him to have any regrets. what would you do if you were in this situation? (link)
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looks like you know exactly what to tell him.
tell him how your feeling about this.
your right you must be understanding and supportive.
im sure he loves you with all his heart
but his desicion cannot and i mean CANNOT be based on that
tell him to ask his self
what are his goals in life?
for sum ppl there goal in life is find the love of there life and settle down
sum its to be a doctor
whats his goal
whats gonna complete him
make him feel better about himself
this is his life..hes gotta complete it..
do not guilt him by secretly giving him hints that you want him to stay
tell him that you wud love it if he stayed and that yo ulove him with all your hr=eart
but if he left youd understand 150%
tell him to do whatever makes him happy in the end =]
and youd be ok with whatever he decides.
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is it better to have sex with lights on or off? dont give me the "it depends, or either" just sayy wich is better. lights on, or lights off. (link)
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are you comfortable with your body?
are you comfortable with him?
alot of people are very self conscience in that case it might be more enjoyable with lights off
it really does depend.
maybe dimm the lights???
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:[ my bestfriend holly dumped me for her old friend. I mean she still likes me and all but not as much as she used to. I know that she still likes me because she said she did and i trust her. Every time I try to have alone time with Holllly her friend always takes her away!And hollys friend is secretly mean to me! HOW DO I WIN HOLLY BACK? I miss my friend. please help! (link)
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have you talked to holly about this?
usually everyone has a lack of communication.
have you tried telling holly that youi miss your best friend
i know id go insane without my bestfriend by my side
and if shes your bestfriend shell understand
maybe try talking to her new friend
if you guys can put aside your differences
and all three of you guys can be friends.
you cant win a person.
they are always and should always do what they want
dont guilt her into spending more time with you
that will push her away and make her other friend look better.
and its pityy.
i think you should sit holly down and talk to her. lik i said if shes truly your bff then shell fix everything. =]
& if she doesnt care
well then that doesnt sound like a best friend to me.
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hey i need some help here
ok my boyfreind is really freaking me out we've only been dating two months and he already wants to Marry me?? plus he argues and treats me like shit
but i dont have the heart to dump him. im not one to break peoples hearts
so i wanna get him to dump me unpainfully to him
any ideas (link)
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the only real way is honesty
i know it sounds cleche
but honesty is the key and i know its true
but are you sure you want to dump him just yet?
maybe you can talk to him and let him know that you need to slow down and take things at a slower pace
and i know boys are wayy hard to talk too
trust me i have the most stubburn boyfriend in the world
but when you guys start arguing
defend yourself
let him know why you think hes wrong
and if he gets mad whats the worst that can happen he breaks up with you?
whatever you do make sure you dont yell
it escalates the fight.
but if he doesnt respect you .. and treats you like shit.. then thats not a good sign.
all i can say is talk to him.. hes your boyfriend for a reason.
TALK TO HIM...
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