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Q: My friend and I were at the mall the other day, and we saw a diamond ring in the toilet. We asked everyone in the bathroom, and this girl said that it was hers and she had accidentally dropped it, but that she didn't want it after it had been in dirty toilet water.

So my friend and I got to talking and we wondered if the more polite thing to do in a situation is to go to a different stall any ways after the person said that, flush it down before you use the toilet, or go ahead like normal? If you choose to get it out after they say they don't want it, is it ok ethically to pawn it and keep the cash for yourself? We also wondered when the ring stops belonging to the person who dropped it, and who if anyone becomes the owner after the person who dropped it.

We couldn't really come up w/ any answers, so I decided to ask you and see what you think...
Well if its a nice ring and there aint nothing else in the toilet, I woulda went for it. Then washed my hands and the ring a billion times lol :)
But it can be akward just letting a dimond sit in the toilet especially if everyone secretly wants it and is too shy to say anything.
but it comes down to two main people, the person who asked if she wanted it and the person who found it.
you shoulda just been like shit Ill take it.
:) and ran away with it,
lol :)
what happened to it??

Q: so i went out with this kid for 4 and a half months, and he broke up with me cause he didnt know if he wanted a girlfriend, and he was moving (he was moving in 3 months), we thought we'd be going out until he moved, and maybe even longer, but before he left i wrote him a letter saying how im glad were still friends, and he told me how breaking up with me was a mistake and everything, but now he kinda likes my friend. and he came back to visit and they are awfully close, and my friends talked to me about it, and i told her i can't control what she does, but i dont know, lately i've felt like giving up on myself because i feel like now that im starting high school im fading as a person, it seems that nothing is going right and i am losing people, nothings ever drama free anymore. i was talking to him for like an hour on IM, and he was telling me how he remembered everything he said to me the day he asked me out, and at the end of the conversation he told me he loved me. Then i just saw him this past weekend and he still had the letter i wrote him in his wallet but i didn't get to talk to him that much, i just felt out of place whenever i'm around people anymore. i hate that feeling of change. I just want the past and i want things back to normal. I want to be happy but i feel like i'm never given a chance
Im sorry you had to go through this, Ive been there, different senario but anyways. If he remembers everything you all said and still has your letter then he really does love you. I dont know him but if he says he likes your bestfriend then he doesnt know what he wants or just wants to see if it would work with her. Time is key, patience is all you can have, Im sorry if Im off at all just email me!! barbiexxrules@aim.com
I really hope this works out for you

Q: What's that rap song that goes like bouncyy bouncyy get them hoes offff meee.
you can go to AZLYRICS.com and find out I always go there when I have tht problem

Q: Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and a few days ago his friend got on the phone calling me nasty names.

and i figured out my boyfriend got wasted and madeout with another girl.


i love him but i dont trust him.

i am misrable without him. should i give him another chance?
Whats meant to be will be.
Let him go and see if he comes back.
If he does he truley loves you.
Really my personal opinion is it was a drunken thing that wont happen again.
I hope this works out for you.
:)

Q: Here's the deal. I have this HUGE crush on my best friend's brother, but he has a gf. But not only that, all my friends are telling me not to go towards him 'cause he'll break my heart. I don't know if I should believe them or not. He's been really nice to me, but I don't know if he is flirting with me or not. I am not very experienced in this category. Someone please help!
WOW!! We are twins in diguise!!! I never knew someone else had this problem the conditions are different but yes. I talked to this guy HUGEST CRUSH. I think its weird my BESTFRIENDS brother. wow, its crazy!!! The guy had me rate him. He sent pictures to my phone [[[Clean]] =] and then he got a girlfriend. He doesnt talk to me when he is with her. Im very upset cuz I told him tht and he wont talk to me. But anyways Im not meaning to discourage you but without making his girlfriend mad you should ask him if he likes you or if he is bein nice because if you dont find out you will never know. Tht is my best dating advice.
"You never know unless you try." Try before its too late and let me know how it works out =]

Q: why do i never get asked out?

im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.


why is this?
guys dont even see themselves as being complicated they just see us as complicates.
its hard I HATE IT!!! lskgjslk lol =]




Amen, its time us women get some damn answers about these things!!! I agree, It bothers me.
I hope you get a great answer and when you do let me know. thanks =]

Q: hi i'm 14 years old and i like a boy in 10 grade.. he is so cute! but i'm scared to talk to him. he always smiles at me when he passes by me and also he nods at me in the hall. well it's not like he doesn't know who i am! he knows i'm the girl with a crazy grandma who ives up the street from him and who grandma verbally abuses her in dutch. but otherwise that i don't know how to talk to him or formally introduce myself!!!!!
HELP!
This is going to sound wierd but I like doing this, and it works 90% of the time. Just "accidently" bump into him, BAM conversation there you go. You may have to push things along at first but then things will flow better. I know old fashioned. but I use it all the time and LOVE meeting the new guys I meet. =]

Q: Im in 7th grade and 13 yrs old. My little group of friends is, 'bri', 'jay', 'cody', 'AJ', and 'Vance'. My best friend is bri. She is leaving at the end of the year and so i will just hang out with all the other guys in my group. THE PROBLEMOOOO: I like jay. I'm pretty positive jay likes me. i think he sorta thinks i like him, but he is just afraid to ask me out. How do i encourage jay to ask me out? Please dont dont say like try to hint himmm. ive tried that , ireally just want him to ask me out. should i tell? WHAT DO I DO?
I think you should ask him. Plain and simple. Leave him little notes. Anything. If you go around asking people he will find out and no matter what you do your relationship is always changing constantly, so theres no use beating around the bush. I had a bestfriend like this and I finally asked him turns out he didnt like me but were still friends. I hope this works out for you!! =]

Q: so theres this guy and he's kinda my bf i guess and he says that he only wants me and all that stuff but like on his facebook most of his friends are highschool girls with slutty pictures. He's 22 so yeah thats kinda nasty but he says that he just accepts everyone that requests him. And he wants to try a threesome (with another girl) so i don't know i mean i don't think it would really bother me if he was cheating or not i just wanna know if he's lying to me.

any advice?
babe he ant worth yerr time.
Why be with someone, tht would do tht to you.
Just let him chill out for awhile and give him time either he'll come around or youll move on.
=] good luck babe

Q: ok so like sometimes i'll be like "yah i'm kinda slow in the head" if i say something stupid and my bf will be like its ok you're cute. Or i'll ask if he's mad at me and he'll be like you're too cute to be mad at.

Is it just me or does that sound totally mean? like oh your personality sucks but you're physically attractive so i put up with it.
Well most girls would kill for it,
he is just flirting and calling you pretty at the same time. Im pretty sure if he didnt like you he would dump you.

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I was 14 when I made this, times have changed and so have I! I still give GREAT advice. I love helping any way I can. I also love to know how things turn out, dont be too shy to write me an email! Talk to you soon! :)

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