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lifes crazy
so i went out with this kid for 4 and a half months, and he broke up with me cause he didnt know if he wanted a girlfriend, and he was moving (he was moving in 3 months), we thought we'd be going out until he moved, and maybe even longer, but before he left i wrote him a letter saying how im glad were still friends, and he told me how breaking up with me was a mistake and everything, but now he kinda likes my friend. and he came back to visit and they are awfully close, and my friends talked to me about it, and i told her i can't control what she does, but i dont know, lately i've felt like giving up on myself because i feel like now that im starting high school im fading as a person, it seems that nothing is going right and i am losing people, nothings ever drama free anymore. i was talking to him for like an hour on IM, and he was telling me how he remembered everything he said to me the day he asked me out, and at the end of the conversation he told me he loved me. Then i just saw him this past weekend and he still had the letter i wrote him in his wallet but i didn't get to talk to him that much, i just felt out of place whenever i'm around people anymore. i hate that feeling of change. I just want the past and i want things back to normal. I want to be happy but i feel like i'm never given a chance
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Hey, well for starters high school is full of drama there is nothing you can do about that. If this guy told you he loves you and he still has the letter you wrote him i honestly think you will be okay. As you grow older you're going to realize that things are going to change. If you have a strong feeling in your gut that he loves you and you love him just tell him and get back together. Just do it before it's to late. I hope this helps.
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Im sorry you had to go through this, Ive been there, different senario but anyways. If he remembers everything you all said and still has your letter then he really does love you. I dont know him but if he says he likes your bestfriend then he doesnt know what he wants or just wants to see if it would work with her. Time is key, patience is all you can have, Im sorry if Im off at all just email me!! barbiexxrules@aim.com
I really hope this works out for you
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That's how life is, youre growing up and starting high school and you go through a lot of drama and boys. It seems like this guy really likes you,he said he made a mistake by breaking up with you, I mean he even told you he loved you. You should talk to him more about it because obviously not being with him is hurting you and you should tell him how you feel.
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