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what is 0^0? 1 or 0?

the answer is niether. it is undefined.

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ok so instead of having a SMART computer that warns you AS SOON AS IT SPOTS THE TINIEST VIRUS, my computer just decided to tell me the other day that i have 2,989 VIRUS'S ON IT.

its making it really difficult to type, do anything online, or just anything general. this laptop is now basically useless unless i find a way to get these damn virus's off of it. problem is, my family is kind of tight on money right now? and so i dont want to wait 5 days for some cheap software to come in the mail. i tried restoring it, putting up a firewall, and installing this antivirus thing, but nothing works.

so my question is this: does anyone know of any good antivirus program that i can download for free online? much appreciated.

If you reinstall everything on your computer that usually helps. It should have came with a cd that allows you to do that. good luck

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I always thought guys got boners really fast but my bf doesn't. He's the first and only guy i've ever touched DOWN THERE and when he finally does get an erection it takes like , forever for him to ... you know what. Any idea what is a normal amount of time it should take and do you think he is just nervious?

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Gina-14

All guys are different, some can get hard fast and others cant. There isnt a normal amount of time. But taking a long time to come is a good thing during sex because that means he can last longer. Try doing stuff he likes and see if he gets hard faster that way. Different guys like different things so you should play around and see what he likes. go0d luck

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i had sex for the first time, 2 days ago. it was everything i expected it to be: pain. he didnt mean to hurt me, but he couldnt help it, you know? anyways. we didnt really get to finish, because his niece likes to just waltz in whenever she wants to and ask if she can get on his computer. luckily, his door was blocked by a speaker.

we're going to do it again soon. but thats not gonna be the last time. i just want to know when the pain is finally going to go away. it gets so bad, it hurts afterwards for almost an hour. i hate having him think that hes hurting me, because thats the last thing he wants to do. but i also hate getting no pleasure out of it. it even hurts when hes fingering me. i might go to his house on thursday or friday so we can have sex again and i dont want the pain to come back, but i do want to have sex with him. we've gone too far in this relationship to just stop because of a few pains.

any advice? thanks. :)

DO you get wet when you guys are having sex or when he's fingering you? If you dont that might be why it hurts because getting wet is like a lubricant your body makes so that he can put himself in you easily. if you dont than you can go buy lubricant so it wouldnt hurt. good luck

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I have a child with my boyfriend (been together 3 years with an almost 2 year old). I love him, but I am not "in love" with him...like I don't feel deep down and really don't miss him when he's away, and recently have not even been sexually attracted to him. I have been in love with someone else for 8 years and I believe in my heart that one day we will find eachother again...but it could be a very long time from now. Recently I have decided that I am ready to expand my family (have another baby) and settle down, purchase a home. My boyfriend wants to move to alaska and buy a home together and have another child. I just don't know if I should wait for my true love, or pursue my other dreams with the man I already have...like the song that goes, "If you can't have the one you love, love the one your with". thanks for the advice

There is also a saying that goes "Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." In your situation the one you like loves you a lot but if you dont feel the same way it is not fair to him because youre giving him false information and its not fair to you because you're just staying with him because hes already there. Honestly you should listen to your heart, do you want to stay with him or are you ready to leave? You can still remain friends if you do break up with him and discuss matters about your child, but why have another child with someone youre not in love with? you should really think about your decision. Good luck

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15/f~~~~
Now, I'm not trying to stereotype here so please don't assume that.
But, I was just wondering:
Would a teenage guy's friends really make fun of him if he was in love with his girlfriend? What I mean is, would his friends mock him for being in love?
I just seem to see it all the time in the media. And yes, I know, you shouldn't believe all that the media tells you. I just wanted to know really if this happens.
Sorry if this is a dumb question. I'm just curious that's all.
And I'd really like to hear from a guy. That's who I'm directing this question to. I don't think it would help much if a girl answered...
Thanks!

Well they would make fun of him sometimes but not seriously because they are friends. A guy is in love with me and none of his friends make fun of him seriously sometimes they'll joke around and say hes "whipped" but thats it. One of my friends was making fun of his friend because hes in love but since theyre friends he doesnt make fun of him to his face he just says if he wasnt my friend i would break them up. since youre 15 guys start gettins mature now and they really wont make fun of another guy for being in love.

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so i went out with this kid for 4 and a half months, and he broke up with me cause he didnt know if he wanted a girlfriend, and he was moving (he was moving in 3 months), we thought we'd be going out until he moved, and maybe even longer, but before he left i wrote him a letter saying how im glad were still friends, and he told me how breaking up with me was a mistake and everything, but now he kinda likes my friend. and he came back to visit and they are awfully close, and my friends talked to me about it, and i told her i can't control what she does, but i dont know, lately i've felt like giving up on myself because i feel like now that im starting high school im fading as a person, it seems that nothing is going right and i am losing people, nothings ever drama free anymore. i was talking to him for like an hour on IM, and he was telling me how he remembered everything he said to me the day he asked me out, and at the end of the conversation he told me he loved me. Then i just saw him this past weekend and he still had the letter i wrote him in his wallet but i didn't get to talk to him that much, i just felt out of place whenever i'm around people anymore. i hate that feeling of change. I just want the past and i want things back to normal. I want to be happy but i feel like i'm never given a chance

That's how life is, youre growing up and starting high school and you go through a lot of drama and boys. It seems like this guy really likes you,he said he made a mistake by breaking up with you, I mean he even told you he loved you. You should talk to him more about it because obviously not being with him is hurting you and you should tell him how you feel.

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Can anyone tell me what shades of eyeshadow, blush, lipgloss/lipstick, mascara, lip liner and eye liner look good on me?

I know how to APPLY makeup, I just do not know what shades look good on me. I am fairskinned, with blond hair and blue eyes. I have full lips, and I wear glasses. My eyes are about average, and I always choose to accentuate my lips, so if using eyeliner would accentuate my eyes as well, then I won't bother with it.

I have searched all over the internet for information on how to properly find your shades, but none of it helped! Thank you soooo much!!

If you accentuate a certain part of your face then the other part should be less intense. FOr example if you do dramatic eyes than your lips should have light lipstick/gloss and if your lipstick is dark your eye make up should be light. if you like your lips accentuated than you could stick with that and for eye make up you can go to cvs where Almay has eye compacts for different eye colors that make your eyes stand out more. you should try that.. good luck

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I'm 17, and I have recently moved out and into my boyfriends house. This decision is for personal matters, so I would appreciate not discussing this in the answer. We live with his mother and his two sisters. His mother says that she wants no financial help from me, just help around the house, so that's good, but I need to get as much money as possible. I'm going to start school again next month so I won't be able to work full-time. I've only had one job, which is my current job, but they only work me 10 hours a week at a rate of $7.25 an hour. It is definitely not enough for me to buy my own things (clothes, personals, school supplies, etc.) and save money up so my boyfriend and I can get an apartment, me to get a car and car/medical insurance, and for me to go to college. I've talked to my manager twice and she can not work me more than 10 hours a week. At the rate I'm at I'm only making around $100 a month after taxes are taken out.

My question is, where can I work part time where I make a good amount of money.
Also, is there any way I can get some of the things I need for free?

Maybe you could try finding a job at a clothing store or something like that, that way you would get a discount for clothes and whatever accessoires they have, im sure they would make you work more than 10 hours a week. By school starts you could have money saved up and just adjust to a part time schedule. GOod Luckk sweetie..

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Hi. Ok, here is the problem. I want to dress more cute than I have been. I wear t-shirts and jeans, mostly, but I'm getting rid of all my t-shirts soon. I like clothes, I just don't care what is in and what is out. We don't have money for things like abercrombie and fitch, or aeropostle. Usually, my mom goes to thrift stores. I do have some cute shirts. I just don't know how to put outfits together to make them cute. Thanks for answering!

Well, sometimes its not just about the clothes, maybe if you accesorize with like matching belts, jewelry and shoes it could really make the outfit stand out more.

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where can i get the airbrush spray thingy 4 my legs
does it rub off when i sit or sumtin

you can get it from cvs. mine never rubbed off unless i wiped it with like tissue or sumthing. everytime i wore skirts i wud use the spray and boyz would be like omg you have nice legs.

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14/f
okay so i've had my belly pierced for about 3 weeks and all and i have a real belly ring in it..some people use ear rings but no way....
well i have a question..is there anything else you could use besides peroxid and vaseline? i know that alcohol dries everything up way to much...but what about just using vitamin E???
well any suggestions are welcome!!thanks!

first of all DO NOT use PEROXIDE or ALCOHOL this will closee the piercing and make healing horrible. best thing to use is antibacterial soap at least twice a day. if you have any ear care antiseptic this could work also. i jus got mine pierced a month ago and it never hurts and i use the ear car antiseptic and the soap, soo good luck.

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it goes:

we could do it in the bathroom;
baby we can do it anywhere.
turn around- grab the sink; let me pull yur hair.

or maybe even on the kitchen floor.
baby girl i know you want some more;
now we headed to the back seat,
windows all fogged up...


thanks

well im assuming its whats your fantasy by ludacris or anywhere by 112.

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how do u get them to be smooth

like i have these little spots on my legs they look like freckles but i know they're not sum of them r little tiny scabs wat can i put on them to make it go away

these are ingrown hair folicals. I HATEE THEMMMM... this is most likely from shaving. soo stop shaving long enough for the hair to grow back and try waxinggg or hair removers. you can also buy airbrush leg spray (its not tan just a spray the same color as your skin tone) they make ur legs FLAWLESS and look very natural. _x.0-(good luck mamii)

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Hey sorry I couldn't figure out which category to put this into..

Ok I leave for spring break March 28th, and I really want to get my belly Button peirced. Does anyone know how long I would have to stay out of the water? Pool Ocean, etc?

you can go in the pool after its pierced but you have to cover it with a waterproof bandage.

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I want to go to Harvard, Yale, or Stanford


--those are my top 3 in order--

I'm 13/f and i'm about to finish 8th grade in June and go to high school in Augest.

what grades do i need to get in high school to get in also what other things do you need to do to get in.

all advice welcome.

people who got in please tell me what grades you got and what extra cariculars you did

thanks in advancee!!

For Harvard you need a 97.66 average and a 2050 on your sat.

FOr Yale you need a 96.90 average and a 2140 on your sat.

For Stanford im not sure what you need but most likely its in the a to a+ range.

also you need a lot of extracurricular activies such as clubs. if you can try to join sport teams, if youre not naturally athletic you can join walk-on teams. good luckk..

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okay so it been like 2 weeks and a hlaf with my cartialge earring and i just change it its not all red or anothoing but it is a red but like OMG no its red and a tiny bit swollen is that normal?


also to clean it with salt watter do i just get water and normal salt adn mix it then put it on??

please answer!

when you get your cartilege pierced youre not suppose to change it for 8 weeks. youre also suppose to clean it with OCEAN salt water, which you would have to purchase. its not regular salt mixed with water. also make sure you DONT clean it with alcohol or peroxide. swelling is normal.

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i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care

it depends on the girl..i dont think they really care..they would probably use it againt you if you piss them off..and sex is usualy better if the boys thing is big..but u can always geta pump 4 that..but you shouldnt be too embarrsed..1

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Alright, so I'm going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time EVER sometime this week, and I'm a little nervous.

1) How long will it take?

2) How do they do it?

3) On a scale one to ten, ten being highest, how bad did it hurt for you the first time?

4) What age did you start getting yours waxed/plucked, etc?

5) How often will I need to get them redone or whatever?

Plz help, I'm a little confused, and really nervous.

1)4 me it feelz like it takes 10 minutes..cuz first they wax and then they pluck the remaining hair..but im sure it probably takes 5-7 minz
2)they put the wax on your eyebrow then put some sort of paper like thing on it..then pull it off
3)the first time it hurt about a 7..and it made me tear
4)i started wen i wuz in 7th grade..about 13
5)it depends on how fast your eyebrowns grow..mine grow reallyy fast so i need it like evry 2 weeks..som ppls last about a month i wud say
GOOD LUCK MAMII
peace1

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I'm asking this question to those who have used or are on the patch. What were some side effects (if any) that you had and would you recommend this to anyone? I'm thinking about getting on the patch because I'm not really good with remembering to take medication and I know the shot causes bone density loss... And the other methods are just not appealing to me.

Thanks :)

my mom use to use the patch but it would make her sick so she switched to the pill..on tv it says the patch can give you heartattacks and strokes...mi mom use 2 feel nausea a lot..you might not have the same symptoms tho..good luck ..1

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