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my hair is straight and somewhat fine
my face shape is long and oval (link)
okay you wanted the bangs straight across your face right?

I think because of it's texture that it would be great!

I have a class with one girl who has a long oval face. At first I wasn't too keen on the bangs but after a few classes I thought they suited her rather nicely!

=) So ultimately I say GO FOR IT!
and if you don't like it 1. hair grows back or 2. you'll learn to like it =) (everyone told me not to get bangs, I did it anyway and they looked great hehe)


i have a bang trim scheduled on wednesday and i can't decide if i should get bangs or not. right now i have the trendy side swept bangs that sweep across my forehead. i'm thinking of getting regular straight bangs though. do y'all think they are cute/fashionable? what are your thoughts? i have long-ish brown hair. can you give me links to pictures of bangs you like? do you think they would be easy to manage during the summer? anyone with experience? (link)
two questions you need to answer and then I can give you my opinion

what is the texture of your hair? (straight&smooth.. curly etc)

and what is the shape of your face ;}


how do you get it?
how do you know if you have it (all signs)?
how do you get rid of it without doing to the doctor if you can? (link)
when i got it it was from wearing a tampon for too long but there are other ways too

youll know you have it if theres white stuff coming out of you.. smells kinda funny and maybe some small lumps like yeast

you can get rid of it by using some stuff from your local pharmacy (stick with brand names you trust)

when it itches (coz when it's bad it will itch like hell and you'll want to rip your vagina out) my best suggestion is to splash cold water down there (like hop in a shower and put lots of cold water itll numb it a little)..

make sure you wear comfortable white cotton panties too


It's my girlfriends second time giving a bj and the first time i didn't cum, so i didn't masturbate for 4 weeks and we didn't do anything in that time period but she just gave me a good bj and handjob and i still didn't cum? I can do it fine masturbating but it takes soo long if shes doing it and i've never cummed for her...any advice, pleasssee (link)
it takes a looooong time to get someone to cum from a bj .. my suggestions for your lady is use her hands while shes doing it, it adds pressure/stimulation..


me and my boyfriend will be dating for 1 year in a bout 2 weeks so iwanna get started on a gift for him early...i was thinking maybe find a free site online where i can put pictures of him and some of me and then one big one of both of us and framing it. Problem is i need a free site i can do that and print it from. I also need to know if you think a 17 year old guy would like it he's actually pretty emotional sweetest guy ik. i dont want to get him something of his interest cuz that seems like a b-day or christmas present so i want something that just remind him of me and him and our relationship together i was also thinking of putting little quotes of things we've said on it.


my questions are?

-Do you know a site i can put my pictures on and make a collage for free and print it out.
-Do you think he will like it
-what else could i get him to go with it?
-should the frame say anything? or just be plain? im thinking just plain wood to go with his room.


Please help. (link)
I don't know a site for that but photobucket does allow you to edit pics.. i do think he will like it because you said hes the sweet type.. something to go with it? a card filled with lots of love =) my fiance saves all the cards i give him.. and the frame can be plain but sometimes at those specialized card stores they have really nice ones for special occassions so give them a look =)))


i never go to parties because i don't drink. i know it's possible to go and not drink, but the problem is i hate being around drunk people. plus it's virtually impossible in college for me to find a party where there isn't drinking.

it's so different when you ARE drunk then when you're just observing. when you're drunk, it's all fun and games, but when you're observing, people just get stupid and annoying.

anyways, how do i go about this problem? because i really wanna get out more but i don't like drinking. (link)
look into different scenes.. i have the same problem =T usually i just end up inviting some friends over.. i have alcohol in case they want to drink but not enough to get them crapfaced


i have 4 beauty marks. one on my finger, on on my knee, one on my upper, inner left thigh, and one above my left areola. do guys think its gross to have one on my thigh and abouve the areola?? their not like bumps, its just like a spot on the skin.
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Nope they don't (unless they're jerks). In addition, it may become something they like about you especially since it's in such a personal place it's like his secret knowledge of your body =)


does sex lastt? (link)
it depends on a few factors. if it's not lasting though these might be the reasons:

(concerning the males erection)
is he fatigued? lacking sleep or proper nutrition?
is he overly sensitive? (use a condom for less sensitivity)

as far as ladies go.. are you turned on? lubricated properly? fatigued?

these are all factors. generally sex will last as long as both parties are well rested and interested


i just started getting cold like symptoms. could these symptoms be a sign of pregnancy? (if i am pregnant, i'd be about a week in.) the symptoms are headache, runny/stuffy nose, stomach ache. but i only really have a stomach ache when i think about it. i think it's kinda in my head.
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haha well this is the reasoning I've worked out for you..

You're worried you might be pregnant.. this causes your stomach to be upset and you lose sleep over it. From the lack of sleep your immune system is weakened hence you start to get symptoms of having a cold. =)

Like the others said, take a test but otherwise don't let those little things make you think you might be pregnant.


ok this might sound a lil gross but boys wat position do you find makes you ejaculate harder and faster?

girls...which one drives your men crazy?

please dont just give me names if they are not self explanatory i would re appreciate it if you explained how it is done as i am quite new to this lol
thanks...alot (link)
I think it depends on the guy some guys are stimulated by the visual (ahem.. a rearview visual lol) it really depends on the guy the best thing to do is instead of asking.. take the time out of one day to do a little of ANYTHING you can think of i PROMISE he will appreciate it (as long as you're not hurting him lol) You two can experience it together.

oh yeah one more thing.. a guy is more turned on by you being turned on than he is by what position you're in.. so whatever feels good for you will probably drive him nuts ;D


i kinda prefer women who are actually on the pill to answer please

how does the pill work? what exactly goes on in there that makes you not get pregnant?

and how long do you have to wait until it actually starts working?

i've also heard that it can make you gain weight, improve your skin or make it worse, and make you not want to have sex. is that true? has that happened to you?

thanks! (link)
The pill basically works out your hormones so that your egg doesn't accept the sperm (well I'm not hitting the nail on the head but that's more or less it). There are different pills but most pills are once a day for 3 weeks of the month and then during your period you don't have to take anything. It normally takes about a month to kick into gear. It can make you gain weight etc but each person reacts to it differently. In most cases it will cause your period to be regulated for ex: you will always get your period on a wednesday in the morning of the week where you dont have to take pills. Hope I've helped =) ask anything I missed.


okay, so basically my problem is that i have never kissed a guy, and there's a possibility, however it may be slim, that the time will come soon. if that doesn't work out, i want it to happen asap. so i am hoping you can advice me with any tips when it comes to kissing a guy! i am completely clueless and need help! thank you thank you! (link)
regular kissing is simple =) so don't be nervous

I think the best kind of kisses are soft and slow. A LITTLE tongue is good but save that for when you become more experienced. My ex used to SLOBBER on me -_-


i am looking for ways to turn my boyfriend on and i havent been very successful.first off this question is for the guys to ansewer.sorry ladies,but i need a guys opinion.details as many as possible,stories are welcome as well.

15/f
tnx in advance. (link)
I'm not a guy but my fiance says I turn him on plenty sooo here's my advice.. be confident. Nothing is more sexy than confidence (having subtle sexiness always keeps them intrigued). I don't know if you're good at dancing but that's also a quick thing. Guys are very visual ;]


whats the meaning of the music video (link)
the video doesn't have anything to do with the song as far as i can tell it's just about her being in the industry.. she starts out as some girl blowing a bubble in the bus and ends up being famous and pampered? I don't know.. personally I don't like the song or video


Nobody wears long dresses to prom at my school anymore. With that in mind, can I please get some opinions on this dress for prom: http://www.neimanmarcus.com/store/catalog/prod.jhtml;jsessionid=1OI2X5M3P4FV2CQAAKHBACQ?itemId=prod39430031&parentId=cat9360743&masterId=cat9360733&index=0&cmCat=cat000000cat000001cat000111cat000131cat9360733cat9360743

Is it too cheap looking?
Is it not formal/classy enough?

I am 5'8, 120 lbs, so I won't look too much worse than the model (link)
It's not cheap looking but it's also not very classy. It's more of a glam look, but it's not a bad looking dress.


Hey. So I have flat hair, like I can wake up in the morning and it's perfectly straight, which I love. But I want to do beachy waves sometime. Not scrunching it so it looks curly, but light waves. Kinda like these:
http://photobucket.com/image/vanessa%20hudgens/Takutofan15/vanessa.jpg?o=4
or:
http://photobucket.com/image/vanessa%20hudgens/Takutofan15/cool.jpg?o=64
or even:
http://photobucket.com/image/ashley%20tisdale/lolz_moi/ashley.jpg?o=6

now I'm not obsessed with Disney Channel people at all, their just the only people I can think of that have beachy waves. I know that sunsilk has that one shampoo and conditioner called waves of envy, but don't you actualy have to do styling with it?? please help! thanks!!! (link)
I think that braiding it before you go to sleep should do the trick.. it normally leaves my hair wavy.. and to set the style use a little hair spray


there's a guy i like. we dated in 8th grade and we were each others first real relationship. Ever since then i've had feelings for him (11th grade now, i know, pathetic) we've talked on the phone every couple of weeks since then. He's had girlfriends and i've had boyfriends. The thing is, now that we are both single i really would like to pursue a relationship with him seeing as he's the person i care most about. However, he doesn't think having a girlfriend at this age is even worth it since he's been dumped everytime he's gone out with someone. (but he's a REALLY good boyfriend) I want him to consider going back out with me and i asked him out in 9th grade again & he said no. I asked him why and he said he doesnt think going out with someone who broke up with you is right because they just hurt you before..and he's pretty set on those two theories. I really really have feelings for him and we're supposed to talk more about this next weekend when i call him. I really want to tell him how i feel but everytime i try I cant explain how i feel... its like the words just WONT come out. So, any ideas on how i can make myself say the words? AND, any advice on how i can convince him that his thoeries aren't the best in this situation? (link)
hey don't sweat it.. since he's afraid of a girlfriend go on "friend dates" once he sees that you're not going to ditch him ease him into those dating talks again =)


what is fishcamp for incoming freshman at highschool. like where does it itake place wat do you do for how long? (link)
You know what, I hope they feed you to the fish. You have a terribly nasty attitude.


there is this girl i like and i know she likes me but we are both very timid and quiet so its gets awkward sometimes?
wats the best way of getting over this awkwardness afd just getting to know her better? (link)
talk to her! =) it's hard I know!! (I used to be the sameeee way) but if you two have chemistry the awkward feeling will go away soon enough =) ps - maybe you could ask her out on a low - pressure date? (movies dont require much talking.. or maybe something she likes)


ok so me and my boyfriend had sex like 2 weeks ago i dont come on my period yet till da begginig of month.but as me and my bofriend was doing it da second time im not sure if he came in me(he said he didnt) because all of it was on his stomach but we pulled out kinda late.well yesterday i took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. it seems like i get a feeling of something moving around in my stomach can someone tell me what dat means? (link)
that feeling in your stomach has to do with anxiety. pregnancy scares are the worst. anyways try another test later on just to make yourself feel better and next time try to use protection or maybe the pill (since i know it feels better without a condom haha)




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