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15/f
I just recently got a boyfriend, and it's been about a month. I'm pretty close with my parents and I want to tell them but I don't really know the right way to bring it up. Every time I think about it it seems pretty awkward. Any advice?! (link)
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be very casual about it. when you want to hang out with your boyfriend simply say "parental unit, can so-and-so come over?" or "parental unit, can i go out with so-and-so tonight?" and when your parental unit asks "who's so-and-so?" you say "so-and-so is my new boyfriend." good luck.
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Ok, so 16m
What are some ways to get a girl to like you?
And what are some ways to see if a girl is in to you? (link)
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there are plenty of ways to get a girl to like you. first of all, be yourself. girls don't like when boys are fake to them. if she likes you, you want to know that she likes you for who you are. next, send her signals. when you talk to her, look into her eyes. find ways to touch her or make her laugh. get to know her. most importantly, do not lie to her and do not be mean to her. the hard-to-get thing doesn't work on girls. good luck!
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14/f.
ok, so all my friends always say "the big o" and i was wondernig what tht meant? i know i should know this becasue im 14 but i dont!!! (link)
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"the big o" means orgasm.
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when you go to an open casting call, do you need to have a resume or headshot? (link)
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you could. you should bring a head shot and resume to every audition you have. you should always be prepared. good luck.
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How do you make-out? (link)
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you start by kissing someone. then you slightly open your mouth and they'll open their mouth. and you take turns putting your tongues in the other's mouths. don't only use tongue, though. use more lips than tongue. good luck!
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i want to make a valentine's day video for my girlfriend..i was just wondering what is a good/romantic song i could sing to her for the video? thanks! (link)
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bella luna by jason mraz is absolutely the most beautiful, romantic song i have ever heard. actually, all jason mraz songs are beautiful. but bella luna is probably the most romantic. if my boyfriend sang bella luna to me i would absolutely die. in a good way! hah. i'd say go with jason mraz. every girl loves him. good luck!
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hi MP95, I AM REALLY REALLY DEPRESSED!! PLEASE HELP ME!
MY STORY: well in childhood i had a mild problem in urinating which was latter corrected, now at the age of 25 my penis though well developed still is small in length!!!!!! yes to add to it recently my doc said that I CANNOT FATHER A CHILD!!!!!! since i dont have enough sperms!!!! However he did say that the size though small was adequate for me to satisfy. I AM SHATTERED FRIENDS AND I M REALLY DEPRESSED!!! I M TRULY IN LOVE WITH A GIRL AND WE HAVE BEEN GOING AROUND FROM PAST 10 Years and i will definately tel her every thing!!!! but idont know WHY ME WHY??????? I HAVE STOPPED CONCENTRATING ON MY WORK, MY PERSONAL LIFE IS AFFECTED, you know how being able to father a child is treated as masculine in our world!! i dont know what to do. HOWEVER I AM SURE THAT I CAN KEEP MY GIRL HAPPY AND SATISFIED AND WE DID GET PHYSICAL SOME TIME AROUND AND WE HAVE GOOD CHEMISTRY BUT SOMEHOW I DONT KNOw HOW SHE WILL TAKE THIS NEWS??!!!! OH GOD PLEASE HELP!! AND YOU FRIENDS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I AM REALLY DOWN.......PLEASE ADVICE (link)
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the best you can do is tell her the truth. i'm sure she will understand, she loves you. it is not your fault that you have this problem, and she will know that. if you really want to have a child with her, then talk to your doctor. there are many options, like invitro, sperm donors, ect. i'm sure your girlfriend will understand. for your depression, you can meet with a therapist or take medication that will help. talk to your doctor. good luck!
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14/f
freshman
okay so im 160 and 5'4
i know thats overweight but im seriously working on it and improving. i honestly dont think im ugly,but i know im not beautiful. i get a lot of comments on my green eyes. so thats good. oh and i have brown and (with a cute haircut:). okay so my problem is last year in eighth grade i had 2 bestfriends and we stopped being friends for whatever reason i dont even know. so this year im stuck with very few friends. and i really want more, a lot more. but the thing is im super quiet and shy unless i get to know you then i cant shut up. so my first question is how can i get more friends and be less quiet and shy?!?!?
alright my second problem is i dont have ANY guy friends and i want a boyfriend SO BAD! you dont even know... so like how can i get guy friends or even boyfriends?!?! like the only guys numbers i have are reletives.. and im 14! thats rediculus...
well the only time guys talk to me is to ask me a question on school work or something because they think im smart just cuz i have glasses. but im getting clear contacts in march(:
so i mean its hard because i want all of this so bad! what do i do. and i cant talk to my mom because i dont live with her, and im a total daddys girl. and he will like chop me up and eat me for breakfast if i even mention dating (well i think) cuz he thinks im a super good girl.
sooooooo ya please help me, im desperate!! (link)
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you sound just like me in ninth grade. except i have blonde hair. haha. anyway, i was really shy and quiet, but since then(i'm a junior now) i've come out of my shell a lot. my advice to you is just to talk more. that's pretty much all you can do. when you see a guy you like or just want to be friends with, talk to him. make a witty remark about something that happened at school that day or something you notice that you two have in common. pretty soon you'll get closer and closer, and beofre you know it you'll have plenty of guy friends! good luck!
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i have been asked to sing at a wedding!
i am only a young teen and have no idea what to sing.
They was like heyy do you wanna sing at my wedding;
you pick a song!
and i just do not know what to sing ?
any advice?
what song was at your wedding (if your married)
what songs do you want at your wedding ?
you get the jist ?
thankss ! xx (link)
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i'd recomend ave maria. however, if the couple is not religious, i'd recomend at last. or all the way by frank sinatra, oh my love by the beatles, everything by michael buble. good luck!
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What are some ways to get over an ex boyfreind?
I have spent six months trying to get over my ex and I just cant do it. I dont even ever see him but I just always think about him and wish he would take me back.
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first, you need some moping time. sit around in your most comfortable sweats and watch movies for a few days. give yourself a week at most. then, get a distraction. start a hobby, focus on school, ect. then move on. find someone else! flirt around! pretty soon you'll forget all about your ex. and most importantly, always rememember: every girl is too special not to be loved completly by a boy :)
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ok so i need some kissing tips some really good ones
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close your eyes. open-eyed kissing is mad awkward. also, don't use to much tongue. tongue isn't always necessary. if you just open your mouth slightly and use a LITTLE tongue, it'll be a lot better than if you force your tongue down their throat. also, when you kiss, run your fingers through his or her hair, then down their neck and chest to their waist. when you're done, slightly bite his or her bottom lip for a fraction of a second. it leaves them wanting more. good luck!
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what are some good opera songs? (link)
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for females:
summertime-porgy and bess
glitter and be gay-candide
or sai chi l'onore-don giovanni
donde lieta usci-la boheme
for males:
che gelida manina-la boheme
cortigiani, vil razza dinata-rigoletto
il mio tesoro-don giovanni
era la notte-otello
good luck!
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how do they get their hair like this? and dont say a curler becuase ive tried it and it looks no where near the same thing.
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there's a hair styler called a waver. it works like a straightener but instead of flat metal its crooked. you can adjust the space between waves, if you want it more crimpy or more wavy. you can get it at pretty much any cosmetic store. like ulta. or even cvs. i know conair makes them.
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I am an alto singer and would like to try out for my school's production of Into the Woods. We are not allowed to try out using a song from the musical and starting this year we must sing an entire song, not just the usual 15 bars. The past two years Ive sang the bars from Home- beauty and the beast, and popular- wicked. The problem is I cannot sing all of home and Im not confident in my voice for all of popular. I tried Fine Fine line- avenue q, but it is also too high by the third line. I could sing Not that girl- wicked. but its a tad boring. Help! (link)
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into the woods is a great show! some good alto auditions songs are all that jazz-chicago, as long as he needs me-oliver, i get a kick out of you-anything goes, america-west side story, ect. try stageagent.com. it's veeeery helpful. good luck!
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what should i sing when i audition for the play "little shop of horrors" any tips. songs? (link)
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little shop of horrors is great show. there's very belty music in this show, so i'd recomend singing something that shows off your chest voice. if you're a female, if you want to sing something from the show, i'd say suddenly seymour. however, there are plenty of songs from other shows to sing. part of your world fro mthe little mermaid would be a good audition song. if you're a male, i'd recommed singing something from the show as well. skid row would be a good selection. also, stageagent.com is an excellent source for all your theater needs. it can help you finf audition songs, monologues, shows, ect. good luck!
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been having trouble lately. We broke it off for a bit because we thought it would be best. But now we're talking again. You see, he wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. I mean, he's a great guy...he's loyal and truthful and he really does love me (and I also love him)...but he never did that stuff boyfriends do, all the little things. All the sweet little gestures that let you know he cares. Is that asking for too much? He told me he's gonna try to do some of that, but he can't change his whole personality. Should I stay with him and see if it works? (link)
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i think that if he's loyal, truthful and really loves you, then he's a great boyfriend. sweet little gestures are nice, but its very rare that you find someone who cares about so much. if you really want him to act more "boyfriendy" tell him. or act more "girlfriendy" to him. you should give him a chance and stay with him. lacking sweet gestures doesn't sound like a very valid reason to break up. good luck!
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Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?! (link)
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well this guys sounds like an ass. forget about him. if it hasn't been an issue until this guy, don't worry about it. he's stupid. don't get worked up about someone who means nothing. its not the best idea to kiss random guys, but hey-what's done is done. don't worry. he's a loser.
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well this kid i know snorts oxycotin, and i really dont know about that drug. can he die from it? (link)
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oxycotin is soooo dangerous. it pretty much takes ice cream scoops out of your brain. do not mess with oxycotin.
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So it was recently Christmas, and I had no idea what to get my boyfriend. I knew anything I got him would not be special enough, and I looked and looked and time just kind of slipped by and I didn't end up getting him anything. He got me something really nice. He was really hurt that I didn't get him anything. I regret it now, but I can't change that, so please don't bug me about it.
Question: What can I surprise him with that would make him really happy? (If any of you suggest sex I will rate you badly) (link)
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give him something personal that he will know means a lot. like something involving an inside joke between the two of you. build-a-bear is always a good idea. or if you've been dating for a while, it would be really sweet to make a scrapbook of pictures of you together. or if you want to go all out, a scrapbook of reasons why you love him. good luck!
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Can anyone tell me how to tell if a guy friend is a boyfriend or just a friend? Or...if he's neither or a little bit of both, what do you call that? (link)
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there is a very little difference between a boyfriend and a friend that's a boy. with a boyfriend, you tell him everything, you're close to him, you laugh with him, have a good time with him, and you love him. if you think about it, that's what you do with a best guy friend too. if he is "neither or a little bit of both" you can call him your friend. or your aquaintance. but who knows, things can change. with a little more talking and hanging out you guys could really hit it off! good luck!
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