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Should I be worried?
Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?!
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First of all, the "it was shit" is taken out of context. He could have meant that it was just a kiss, so it wan't a big deal.
But....kissing..
I think the most important thing about kissing is you don't want it to get sloppy. You have to take a good swallow every so often. Too much saliva is a turnoff. Some of the best kissers have very little tongue action and a lot of lip action. If you take his top or bottom lip in between your lips (which is also a god time for a swallow), it can be far more sexy than tongue. When you do involve the tongue, keep it slow and don't put it really deep into his mouth. Make him come searching after your tongue. Enjoy the kiss rather than analyzing your performance. If you are focusing your energy on other things, he will feel your hesitence. The best kissers are those who are having a good time enjoying the sensation. Think about nothing else but the way the kiss is feeling at that very moment, and he will do the same. Another thing, your hands...It is sexy when you run your hands through his hair, over the back of his neck, even pull his hair a little if you want to take control.
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well this guys sounds like an ass. forget about him. if it hasn't been an issue until this guy, don't worry about it. he's stupid. don't get worked up about someone who means nothing. its not the best idea to kiss random guys, but hey-what's done is done. don't worry. he's a loser.
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He's a loser and you shouldn't kiss random guys at night clubs. Find someone you actually like the next time you kiss someone...
xoxo,
dottie4
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Don't worry about it! You're fine. If you were
bad at it you would have been told so by others.
The random guy you kissed is an ass. He's
one of those nobody is as good as me types.
Either that or he expected you to chase him
down because he was so great and you didn't,
and he got mad types. Either way he is a jerk.
YOU are fine. :)
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I'd seriously say that this guy is just saying it out of spite. You probable are a very good kisser. Don't go kissing people and asking them if you sucked afterwords. Just have the confidience before you kissed the man who sai you sucked. :D
Have a Wonderful day.. :D becareful who you kiss!
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