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kissing
ok so i need some kissing tips some really good ones
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close your eyes. open-eyed kissing is mad awkward. also, don't use to much tongue. tongue isn't always necessary. if you just open your mouth slightly and use a LITTLE tongue, it'll be a lot better than if you force your tongue down their throat. also, when you kiss, run your fingers through his or her hair, then down their neck and chest to their waist. when you're done, slightly bite his or her bottom lip for a fraction of a second. it leaves them wanting more. good luck!
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
Honestly, you could read a book about it, and you'd probably forget everything once you went in for the kiss.
Explore. Do what feels right. Make it fun, playful, romantic, whatever you want it to be. Don't make it all about jamming your tongue down his throat, and try not to drool all over him, because it's generally less than desireable to do so.
If you come off as confident it'll be a lot more fun. If all evening you're thinking "Oh my gosh, this is going to be bad" you won't enjoy yourself. Follow his lead at first, if you're truly that nervous.
And really, it's almost impossible to find a truly bad kisser. If anything, they might do something you're not used to; give it a chance before you hate it. Who knows, he might be thinking the same thing right now about you!
Over time, you'll develop your own personal style of kissing/making out, and that's not a bad thing. Do whatever feels good/right to you, and gets a positive reaction. For example, some people love a gentle, or less than gentle, bite of the lip, "necking", and other techniques. Like I already said, experiment & make it fun!
From personal experience I'd advise that you brush your teeth and floss, and have some mild mints with you, like TicTacs. Fruity is usually good, and less overpowering. If you're at a party, don't worry too much about what you're eating if you're both eating the same things, but a huge plate of hummus & extra garlic is a bad choice right before kissing =P. That's where mints come in handy for both of you. Casually offer him one if he's been gorging on something stinky.
--Jack
(17/m)
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if this is your first kiss DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS its simple u start of by sqeezing your lips together with his or hers and then if he or she opens his or hers mouth then stick your toung in and it will jus move on and happen from there and if you do tounge kiss try messages his toung with yours and twisting his toung around with his but not too much
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-if its your first kiss, go for the bottom lip for a girl, top for the boy, give a light squeeze and pull away
-when you are pullng your tounges back into your mouth, twirl the tip of your tounge around the tip of theirs
-chew orbit or trident fruity gum, liked more than mint
-wear a basic minty lip gloss, not too much-to avoid dry lips or residue from lip gloss
-try wikihow.com for tips
-close your eyes just before your lips meet, not too early though
-google kissing tips for more
hope i helped<3
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