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Hi, i am 17 going on 18 and i had a baby in march 2008 and i need help on getting rid of stretch marks on my stomic i used that mederma cream for stretch marks it worked a little but i can still see them i want to get rid of them before this summer i really want to wear a bathing suit this summer to go swimming i havent went swimming in public sense before i had my baby and it really sucks somebody out there please help. thanks (link)
hey i got streach marks on my legs not my belly but i heard coco butter works and i know this might sound wierd but i love babies and i think its beatiful having a kid at 17 im pregnatre myself but you think you could help me though this im 13


I'm crying pretty damn hard right now, i keep thinking about bush getting on that helicopter to texas. it's seriously so, so sad i can't stop crying

i didn't even know him or pay attention to the politics

but i love him
and i miss him :( (link)
I DONT HAVE ANY SYMPHTY FOR YOU AT ALL how could you miss bush so much and we have a new and bettr president. barock obama is the first black president and first hawinan president of the united states this an important time in history and you need to get over bush im not going to say he was a bad man or president but the country has moved on to bigger and better things,OBAMA


Hey my names Morgan i am 15, i am really sorry this is so long but its pretty detailed which should help I think. Ive had a problem with this guy named David for awhile, but when we started talking he told me that he didn’t want to date because my ex wasn’t over me. Which happened to be his really good friend. A didn't talk to him for while after that. All of a sudden the day before Christmas break he grabbed my phone and put his number in it. We started talking over the break almost 24/7. He was sweet and would always leave messages for me in the morning and other things. Then I had brought up going to the movies with family for Christmas, and he asked me If I was trying to get him to go? And I told him that wasn’t my intentions but that would be nice some other time if he wanted to. A few days later we hung out at his house and we never set a grounded name for our relationship he just told me not to worry about any other guys but him, I asked him what about him and he said he doesn’t know. After that I was a little upset, but I just put it in the back of my mind. It happened that when I went over there his sisters best friend was his ex-girlfriend. When he wasn’t around we exchanged numbers and talked a little. She told me she was over him, I asked out of curiosity cause I didn’t want to get hurt if he was just gonna play me or cheat. She said hes not that type of guy hes really sweet and stuff. So we made it clear she was over him and she had a new bf and she told me to go for it as in me and David boyfriend and girlfriend. So later that day I found out his mom was really strict and he wasn't aloud to date. It seemed to me he would only kiss me when his mom and his ex-girlfriend wasn’t around and they both went to the store and we started making out after they left. When I went home we made plans for new years which was Thursday night to friday, he came over and spent the night cause neither of our parents wanted to come get him or drive him home so late. So when he was over we almost had sex and basically did everything except for sex. When my mom took him home he stopped talking to me. So of course I felt used. But I kind of set myself up for that, but I really liked him and my mom always told me if its what I want then do it so if I want to have sex and not care then okay. Well that Monday at school he wasn’t there and my so called best friend came to me and said that David had asked this girl named amber out that Sunday. But amber told him no she didn’t like him. so I believed them because I really didn’t think someone would lie about someone asking them out, especially if they said no. that night he finally texted me and he asked me if I was mad at him I told him yea I am. And he asked what he did? And I told him that maybe he should as amber and he just said what did she say. And I just told him forget it I don’t want to talk to him this is stupid. Well a few days ago he came up to me like there was nothing wrong and he was trying to hug me and talk. I let him. He started texting me today and I brought up I still had feelings for him and I really would like to forget whatever happened and he was like okay well… I was like never mind you don’t really care about me. And he asked me how do I know how he feels. I told him that he wouldn’t of done what he did if he cared. He said just tell me what I did please. I told him that my best friend told me he asked amber out a few days after what we did and I felt used. And he told me that he honestly didn’t ask her out and that he got really busy and that was why he couldn’t talk all weekend which I believe for the most part because I he got kicked out of his house. He said he was sorry for everything and I told him lets just forget what happened. And now he started flirting with me again I really want him back but this time actually labeled as my “boyfriend” But I don’t know if he truly did just play me and hes just gonna do it again. Or is my friend and amber telling the truth. I don’t know how to fix this could someone help please and thanks and if I do decide to stay fix things how should I do that? (link)
i no you dont wan to hear this but it sounds like he doesnt feel the same wat and just trying to get in your pants if he really liked you he wouldnt have to prove he didnt ask amber out. i think you need to take a break from him and try someone eles if you take this break and he still trys to get with you than give him a chance that means he really likes you for you. if you take this brek and he doesnet talk to you or try to get with you that means he dosent care. and if you stay with him dont fall in love with him if you no its a posbilty you will get hurt.


Okay, so im a blonde. i have some pretty big lips.
how do i make cute faces with my lips without it looking bad?[ for pictures ]
i useally end up with duck lips bc there so big.
please help. (link)
well if you mean pics with your friends on a digatal camra or something than you can poke your lips out just a lil and make that kinda of flirty bad girl face or pics in a mall or at skool or somthing than just smile showing your teeth they wont look that big


yesterday i had went outside and i was in the builtding and some guy came out of no where and throw me on the wall and started touching me i was so tight and i don't know what to do i heard that he rip a girl (link)
this sounds personal i no it mite be hard but u need to talk to someone about it do you know who he is can you report him if so then tell someone that5 can help if you need help im always online sum pep say i give great advice i no the advice i just gave you was kinda corny and i no you prob heard it before but i can still help you


i want to die, i am having no interest to live, i tried my level best to die but i didnt get success. All doors closed for me i am not in position to live. my proffession is not successful my love is big failure. I am having no interest to live please help me (link)
ok calm down and please dont kill your self your just going though a rough path right now i no people probally say that alot but even though i dont know you i dont want you to die and im sure your family and friends dont either. trust me im a love expert i been though it all i no love is hard but you just gota get though it and move on and i no theres something out there that your good at and that you will succed in. every door isnt closed theres always a new open door behind a closed old one


okay so my boyfriend is a marine and we've been going out for almost 2 years. he is being deployed soon out to afganistan. but i can still send him stuff for his birthday and the holidays. besides the fact i dont know what to buy a guy in general, i dont know what to get him that would last over sea shipping, and show him i love him.

help (link)
this is a question that you can only ask your self you know him better than almost anyone eles a idea to give you is write him a poem and buy him a teddybear. i know it sounds corny but its true its shows him you dont have to spend money to show your love to him and a poem is always sweet.


i dont know what to do. i really like this guy but he has a gf named Kayla and i have my 1st hour with him and we play around and giggle and he tickles me sumtimes. but he gave me a ride home one day(the first time) and he asked for me to give him head. and i told him no but since then he has been acting differ but he says he still likes me and that it was juss a reason for him to break up with his gf to be with me.
but then he wrote me a note 2 days ago saying that he doesnt know about if we would work out cause he thinks im not over my ex but yet im COMPLETELY over him. i REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLy like him alot still.

what should i do?

-->AShlEY(: (link)
hes telling a story he really did want the head good job not giving it to him. I know you really like him but apperntly hes not the one for you, you sholud stay away from him so you could stop liking him. i no how it feels to like someone whos not right for u and im teeling you hes not right for you but trust mr you will be ok.


ok so i need some kissing tips some really good ones
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if this is your first kiss DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS its simple u start of by sqeezing your lips together with his or hers and then if he or she opens his or hers mouth then stick your toung in and it will jus move on and happen from there and if you do tounge kiss try messages his toung with yours and twisting his toung around with his but not too much


alright so, i've been thinking about trying to start talking to my ex again. I'm just not sure how to start about a conversation, i could use all the advice i can get.
thanks ^_^ (link)
if you want to start a conversation with your ex you should do it in person because he wont tell how much u want to get back with him say hey wats up and start it from there and if it goes good than maybe he will call you or you can call him byut make sure hes single first u dont want to emberise yourself


hi! 18/f
lately i've been having some yellow-ish discharge. now i just started taking a new birth control this month and i'm suppose to get my period next week but i'm not sure if the yellow-ish color is normal? its not always yellow, sometimes it'll be clear but i'm just worried now i have some kind of infection or something down there. should i get it checked out or am i okay? and if i did get it checked out to see if i had an infection how exactly do they check? do they have to stick something up there or do you have to pee haha sorry i just think it may be awkward going to the doctor to see if i have an infection down there. by the way i'm still a virgin and not sexually active. well thanks! (link)
well its normal to have that color discharge nothings wrong but why are you takang brith control if your a virgan i hope no ones rushing you into anything because your virganty is a very sceret and betiful thing be sure and ready when you decide to have sex, oh and when they check they will just take a peek and feel around with their hand or a stick it feels very awkard my mama thought i was having sex and made me get checked out




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