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what should i do about him?
Hey my names Morgan i am 15, i am really sorry this is so long but its pretty detailed which should help I think. Ive had a problem with this guy named David for awhile, but when we started talking he told me that he didn’t want to date because my ex wasn’t over me. Which happened to be his really good friend. A didn't talk to him for while after that. All of a sudden the day before Christmas break he grabbed my phone and put his number in it. We started talking over the break almost 24/7. He was sweet and would always leave messages for me in the morning and other things. Then I had brought up going to the movies with family for Christmas, and he asked me If I was trying to get him to go? And I told him that wasn’t my intentions but that would be nice some other time if he wanted to. A few days later we hung out at his house and we never set a grounded name for our relationship he just told me not to worry about any other guys but him, I asked him what about him and he said he doesn’t know. After that I was a little upset, but I just put it in the back of my mind. It happened that when I went over there his sisters best friend was his ex-girlfriend. When he wasn’t around we exchanged numbers and talked a little. She told me she was over him, I asked out of curiosity cause I didn’t want to get hurt if he was just gonna play me or cheat. She said hes not that type of guy hes really sweet and stuff. So we made it clear she was over him and she had a new bf and she told me to go for it as in me and David boyfriend and girlfriend. So later that day I found out his mom was really strict and he wasn't aloud to date. It seemed to me he would only kiss me when his mom and his ex-girlfriend wasn’t around and they both went to the store and we started making out after they left. When I went home we made plans for new years which was Thursday night to friday, he came over and spent the night cause neither of our parents wanted to come get him or drive him home so late. So when he was over we almost had sex and basically did everything except for sex. When my mom took him home he stopped talking to me. So of course I felt used. But I kind of set myself up for that, but I really liked him and my mom always told me if its what I want then do it so if I want to have sex and not care then okay. Well that Monday at school he wasn’t there and my so called best friend came to me and said that David had asked this girl named amber out that Sunday. But amber told him no she didn’t like him. so I believed them because I really didn’t think someone would lie about someone asking them out, especially if they said no. that night he finally texted me and he asked me if I was mad at him I told him yea I am. And he asked what he did? And I told him that maybe he should as amber and he just said what did she say. And I just told him forget it I don’t want to talk to him this is stupid. Well a few days ago he came up to me like there was nothing wrong and he was trying to hug me and talk. I let him. He started texting me today and I brought up I still had feelings for him and I really would like to forget whatever happened and he was like okay well… I was like never mind you don’t really care about me. And he asked me how do I know how he feels. I told him that he wouldn’t of done what he did if he cared. He said just tell me what I did please. I told him that my best friend told me he asked amber out a few days after what we did and I felt used. And he told me that he honestly didn’t ask her out and that he got really busy and that was why he couldn’t talk all weekend which I believe for the most part because I he got kicked out of his house. He said he was sorry for everything and I told him lets just forget what happened. And now he started flirting with me again I really want him back but this time actually labeled as my “boyfriend” But I don’t know if he truly did just play me and hes just gonna do it again. Or is my friend and amber telling the truth. I don’t know how to fix this could someone help please and thanks and if I do decide to stay fix things how should I do that?
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i no you dont wan to hear this but it sounds like he doesnt feel the same wat and just trying to get in your pants if he really liked you he wouldnt have to prove he didnt ask amber out. i think you need to take a break from him and try someone eles if you take this break and he still trys to get with you than give him a chance that means he really likes you for you. if you take this brek and he doesnet talk to you or try to get with you that means he dosent care. and if you stay with him dont fall in love with him if you no its a posbilty you will get hurt.
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You shouldn't have to deal with any lies, deceit, or whatever his issue is. There's obviously some issue he has to sort out on his own. Tell him how you feel, and if he truly doesn't respond with his ACTIONS (actions speak louder than any words)you can conclude he doesn't really feel the same way about you.
There are so many other fish in the sea. If you find you're already having issues with this guy, so soon, move on!
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