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Heyloooo. I'm really not that cool. lol. Ask me anything though! I'm 13 but I'm good at answering love life questions. I can answe ranything you throw at me.
Well anyway, about me.... HmMmMMmmm. My name is Rachel, Rach or Rachee for short. I like the band Yellowcard so0o0o0o much they rock ass. I also like Taking back sunday, The Used, Boys Like Girls andSimple Plan etc.... My favorite books are Hana Kimi ( it's manga. I haven't finished the series so don't tell me what happens!!!!!!!!) I also like Chobits. I am a hugeeeeeee fan of the video game kingdom hearts! I'm in love with Axel!! "Got it memorized?" Lmao! Yeah I'm pretty dorky. I like basket ball. I play a foward, sometimes a guard. I enjoy skateboarding too. I have to teach myself though! Lol I suck at it. (don't take my advice on that lol) I also am praticing to be a catcher for softball. Oh and if you haven't noticed I'm a girl! HAhahahahaaa. Yeah, my 'label' is probably punk or scene. I hate stupid preps who are like I'm emo, meanwhile they are in a f---in' pink miniskirt with their stupid blech blonde hair and obnoxious laugh. Lol. Just don't be something your not around me !! I hate that! Oh yeah and boys-- I'm single!!! jkjkjk lolololol. WEll I am single (=[).... BUT NOT FOR LONG!!!! I've got my eye on someone lolol. Anyway I've been through alot SO ask me anythanggg

I have exprienced:
Being bullied.
Death of a friend(s)/ Family member(s).
Losing friends.
Horrible teahcers.
Crazy Mom.
Crazy Siblings (I have six older ones. I should know.LMFAO)
Peer pressure.
And a bunch of other stuff I just can't think of right now HAHahhahahahahahahaha lol I love you!!
Rachee

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this summer im going on a teen tour and im going to need to stock up on some good summer music because i wont be able to update my ipod :/. i really like alternative music, i have a lot of all time low, jack's mannequin and the rocket summer music, so anything like that would be amazing! schpanksssssssss!

Okay here you go:
-Yellowcard
-System of down
-Bullet for my Valentine
-Fall out boy
-Mindless Self Indulgence
-30 seconds to mars
-Boys like girls
-Simple plan
-Cute is What we aim for
-Avril Lavigne
-The USed
-Taking back Sunday
-Tokio Hotel
-Panic at the disco
-Weezer
-cobra starship
-red jumpsuit apparatus
-flyleaf
-the medic droid
-Green Day
-The killers
-Linkin park
-Paramore

Thats all i can think of! Hope I helped! (=

okay. so heres the deal. for the past couple of years, my brother has just been going "down hill". About 2 years ago, my sister was visting and she found pot in my brothers room. He was punished for a while about it and then it was droped, well, i never believed that he had stopped even though he said that he did. So when he was gone i would go in his room, and find pot laying on the floor. He wasnt even trying to hide it anymore. Well i showed it to my dad and basically didnt do anything and everytime something is found he still doesnt. A couple of weaks ago i found some bottles of cough syrup and cough medicine that was all gone. He had been skipping school, quit his job and everything. Now my dad pays for his gas, and anything else he needs, where as i have to buy everything for myself. Up until yesterday, i would go in there and look for things, basically to try and get him in trouble and prove that he hasnt quit, and because im worried about him. Well yesterday, i went into his room, and underneath his chair i found paper bags and air freshener can, so i think he may be "huffing". But then i looked over and saw a notebook, I read some of what he had wrote, saying about the first time he used pot, and then he asked a girl out, they went out for like a week, and she broke up w/ him for no reason, he was crushed, and never told any of us. Thats when i read that he had started also using cocaine, stealing from my parents, his friends, the school, etc. I am scared for him and his life, he wants to do great things, and i dont want him to ruin his life. I havent told my parents, ill prob. tell my mom tonight, even though she cant do anything, because he doesnt live with her, but my dad, i just dont want him to seem like he doesnt care. please. someone. tell me what i should do. i love my brother, and im afraid that hes gonna end up dead.
sry that its so long.

You should definetly tell someone other than your father. If you find any pot or cocaine in his room take it away. Try to support him like asking how his day went and if there is anything he wants to talk about. Talk to the guidance consueler at his school. Tell the conseuler wants going on but to leave you anonymous, and talk to him. I hope he gets better soon. =)

13/f
I have black hair with red/orange highlights. Though they are going down since my hair is growing. Anyways, I always put my hair into either a high pony tail, half up half down, or 2 pigtails. What else can I do ?
This is sort of a description of me :
- black hair w/ red/orange highlights
- hair is about 1 inch below shoulders
- I am 5'3
- heart shaped face (if thats what you call it)
- I don't wear glasses
- asian

Thanks ! Pictures & directions would help :)

For curly hair here is what I do:

1. Take your shower at night and put your hair in a sloppy bun.
2.Sleep on it.
3. In the morning take it out and let it air dry if its still wet. DONT BRUSH IT, it will make the curls go away.
4. If you can use hairspray and spary just a litle bit so the curls will hold.

You could put it in a side pony, a low ppony hat goes to one side, a sloppy bun, Or just wear it down natrually.

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okay so ive tried using a vibrator and fingering myself and porn but none of it works how can i masturbate to get myself aroused?

i always get horny when i read about people have sex when they go in depth if that helps please help me! im 14/f

Try reading romance stories on FanFiction.com

They go way into detail. (=

Does anyone know the age that you can get your permit and license if you live in Massaschusets?

Thanks in advance!

http://www.mass.gov/rmv/license/5classd.htm

The link tells you everything. [=

i have gotten into that pattern again. its terrible. i go to sleep at four or five in the morning and then i wake up at three pm. its disgusting. i just want to sleep but i can't. all i do is lay in bed and wish i could fall asleep. i've been a bit depressed. i also sleep a lot better when i say goodnight to my boyfriend. is there anything i can do to help me fall asleep?

You can take some medicine to help you fall asleep. You could read a mad boring book (that always helps me fall asleep!) You could start writing in a diary or journal, because maybe the reason you can't sleep is because your stressed. Call or text your BF every night and say goodnight. =] HOPE I HELPED!! =]

Hey, I was just wondering what a Chelsea haircut looks like. My friend explained it to me, but I'm still confused. Does anyone have any pictures of a Chelsea? Or any other off punk hairstyles?

http://www.hairstylescut.com/punk-hairstyles.htm

Hope I helped!

hey i like this boy who is 16. does he likes me. he calls me , he talks to me on the computer. he texts my cell. it doesnt seem he does. he told me he likes me a lil...he wanted me to go to the powerhouse with him but my dad is not letting me go. i told him that and all he said was ok.. but i want to know does he like me ..... i will be on aol if u want to talk...bbj394 is my sn... please help and i will rate u

It sounds like he is interested in you, but not completely convinced. Keep talking to him and flirt,flirt,flirting with him!!!

As for your daddy, explain to him that this kid is very nice and sweet and that your other [girl] friends would be their. That way he might feel more comfortable, if he knows your not going to be alone with a 16 year old boy. =]]]

okay so my sex life is good except one thing
when I'm with my boyfriend having sex i feel so insecure about my body, when he tries to take off my shirt i usually start doing something else so he wont like i feel really fat when im naked im 5'3 and 120 and hes never said anything about my weight but i just feel fat and i never let him take off my shirt and i want to let him to and stuff but i cant get over it.. how do i get over it and just let him?

You just gotta be confident!! I'm positive he loves you and your weight has little to do with his lvoe for you. =] your BMI is 21.3 and that is normal weight. You seem to be very healthy. Just be confident! Pretend like you are the sexiest girl ever and once you convince yourself that you are u should be fine!! =]]]

ok so i love the icons on iconator!! they are so cute!! but, i dont know how to make them and i would really like to start to designing them. so is there some kind of program that you can buy or something? how do you make them? heelp!!

Just sign up for iconators and you can make still and moving ones. It's really easy. =] you could make them in paint and upload them onto the website and then fix the size of them or animate them! My name is Rache3. =]

can you think && tell me of things that ryme with
three?? (: thanks

Abby, acme, acne, baby, teary, me, we, see, flee, bee, glee, gee.

hope i helped! =]

Okay; im Jessica. and theres this boy his name is will, and we went out for a while. but there was no love in there (well for me). we broke up. i wasnt heart broken or nothing. we stayed friends. then we started talking in school and online alotttt.. like a couple days later he told me he was moving to florida. and he left at lunch. hhe pulled me out of the cafeteria and huggedd me tightttly. and he said hes gonna miss me .. then i started crying my eyes out right there. and ever since he left. i cant eat. sleep or nothing. i cry all day idk what to do. =[
help me!

Talk to him on the phone or over the internet, write him letters and maybe convince your parents to let you visit him over the summer! I hope you feel better. =]

f/13

as you guys know , the end of the school year is coming up this week. I will be going to high school.
ANyway... there are these two guys that i like. Sam and Tyler. Tyler has been flirting a lot but has not asked me out. Sam is my friend and he hasn't asked me out either. Oh well. The problem is is that every day on teh bus... Sam sits next seat over and one up so we are diagonal. We will talk a lot intill his friends come on. But when his friend gets on he keeps on looking at me,,,i cant describe it but he looks at me as if he is seeing what i am doing,,, or asking for my approval on what they are talking about.
What should I do?
The school is almost over and I cant stand thinking abotu not seeing them for another 3 months.

Ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you and your friends, tell him he can invite his friends too, and then slowly limit the number of friends... then TA-DA! you've got a bf!

http://store.arrojoproduct.com/graphics/tellhow/hair_creme_girl.jpg
I got my hair cut similar to that last week, but just more a sidey fringe :P

Now I saw this pic and I'm wondering how to get messy waves/curls like that? My hair is straight, and how would I do it like that?
Thankss

Take your shower at night and then put your hair up in a sloppy bun. In the morning take it out and blowdry it so the curls are there. You might want to put some hairspray in to make sure it holds.
=]]]]

What does subscribe-ing do on youtube? Just wondering. Does it cost money? Just what does it do? Are there any advantages of it? Any disadvantages?

When you subscribe to a user, you get updates on when they add a new video. They show up on your page where it says "Subscriptions". It doesn't cost any money and you can subscribe to as many people as you want. =]]]]]

i am a student. i am suppose to finish my study a few years back. i am supose to do some work to finish my study but i kept doing other stuff until now. what i mean with other stuff is i tend to think about my problems and it made me cry. i dont knw why i would cry every time i want to study. am i creazy?

No, it just sounds like your stressed. Stressed because maybe your self-conscience that your not gunna finish your study. If you want you can try to go to a therapist, or try to relax. Schedule in some time for studying. =]]]]]

ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you.

She shouldn't act any different because she is bi. Bi just means you like people of the same and opposite sex. Not that you change. She still could be changing, like getting a different attitude, not because she is bi. =]]]]

i pulled a chair from underneath a guy and he fell and everyone laughed and then he laughed too as he got up. and then he gets up and sits right next to someone else and he barely talked to me when i asked him if he was mad at me.

i later found out he was embarassed? WTF? i wouldn't get embarassed if that happened. whats up with guys? do they really get embarassed that easily?

Believe it or not-- Guys have feelings! lol. I did almost the same thing with my friend. He USED to tuck the front of his shirt in so you could see his belt buckle and I said reallly loud by accident, "Your belt looks really dumb like that." And he doesn't do it anymore and didn't talk to me for the rest of that day! So what I'm trying to say is, Yup guys get embrassed that easily. =]]]]]

so im a 16 m been with my girlfriend for 6 going on 7 years im crazy about her i love her with all my heart but weve been having some probems she makes all the wrongs in my life dissappear she takes my breath away she tells me she loves me but every time she cries i cant help but get upset and bame myself i love her the happiest day of our relatonship was yesterdy i asked her to marry me the other day she said yes we plan to get married after college but the thing is i want more than just love dont get me wrong weve only ever hadsex 4 time which was rcntly about in the last 2 weeks but i want it to be better not just love i want her to need me does that make sense

Yes it does make sense. =] The only reason a girl would say yes to marrying a guy is if she needed him. It's sounds like you have a great relationship and she is probably very very thankful to have you in her life.
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this little girl i was babysitting fell and she hit her head and there was no sign that she was hurt. and I dont know if i should tell her parents about it or not should i? i need advice!!!

Tell the parents when they get home. Say she feel, but wasn't hurt. =]]]]

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