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Well I am 5'5 I have been told I have really Blue Eye's and I also Love to help people and i hope to help whi;e i am on here! If you have any question please dont be afraid to ask!
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how do you get over a guy that you fell deeply in love with and you can't stop crying about him no matter how many times you tell yourself that he is worthless and to forget about him!!! (link)
You just need time it may seem like you will never get over him but give it a amount of time and yuo will. You could need a a month a year who know's but just give it time and you will move on. Do something to keep your mind off of him. Spend a day shopping or just sitting at home with your best friend anything will help trust me!

Hoped I Helped!ZS


hey I asked a question earlier and you answered it. It was about being a "goody goody." I really liked your advice. Well anyways did you try to do a little more "dangerous" stuff? If you did what did you do? (link)
Well It was just little stuff like you know not doing the homework on time and ignore what the teacher says. Turns out I came to realize that I can't change me you know you were made that way for a reason. You may not know why now but just wait and you will know the reason and stay the goody goody there isnt anything wrong with it I have learned to accept it and just be who I really am and maybe you should try the same. If your friends give you a hard time about it then there not really your friends try to find new ones.

Hoped I Helped ZS!


So I'm pretty much the most good goody you have ever seen. I'm 16/f. I have a 4.0 GPA. I am chosen to be in senior classes even though I am a shophmore. I do everything when I am suppose to do it and how I am supposed to do it. I have never drank, did drugs, or had sex. But I am so sick of being the same old boring me. All of my friends believe in no sex before marrige. Well now I'm starting to think sex before marrige isn't so bad as long as it's with someone you care about. Well I really want to change into someone who has a little more fun. No drugs though. But will I ruin my reputation? Is it worth the risk to ruin something like that? I am really tore. But I know I'm not one of those who wants to go out every night and get wasted. I just want to live some of my high school years in fun. It's not like I'm a dork either. I was prom queen my freshman year. I was homecoming attendant our first year. I'm "popular" I guess you would say. But anyways should I try it? Or should I just stick to the goody goody I am? (link)
Don't change who you are trust me you will find that you are that person and there is nothing you can do to change. I have the same problem as you the only diffrence is I'm am a boy. But I tried little things like slacking off a little in school and it just bugged me a lot. I just came to find that this is me and there isnt anything i can do about it. It's ok to be the goody goody I am every day. If you need a strong support system or more advice from me just message me and I will give u some more info about myself, sense were so much alike.

Hoped I helped! ZS


14/f.
Lastnight me and this guy G were going to go to the movies, he said he would call me. So he never did but i went anyways with my friends, after my movie was over we went outside and i saw him there with some other chick. I looked at him so coldly, then he tried to play everything off like it was cool. His friend was there too, which i also was talking too, but i didn't know they were friends. So I went in the movie with them and then I told G something which had happened that morning involving him, so I sat down on the other side of him since the girl he was with sat where I was. He told me "you can sit down if you want to". At that point i was so pissed that I just left, and he called me this morning. I was asleep but idk if I should call back or what. Any advice on what I should do? (link)
Well I would actually call him back. See what he wanted you know there could be a good reason why he was there you never know! don't assume thing's. So juss give him a call and see what was going on! if he was there with some other gurl cause he liked then u have a reason to get mad!

HOPED I HELPED!! ZS!


Ok I've been dating this guy for 4 months and we've made out every time we see each other and he's eaten me out and whatnot. Well In every other of my relationships when we've made out I always gave them a boner, hell sometimes all I did was brush them and they got a boner. But this entire time my boyfriend have been dating he's never gotten a boner. The only time I think i gave him one was at homecoming because he kept going to the bathroom and he only had one glass of water. And it's not that I haven't been paying attention, cause I've looked and even when I straddle him and hint at anything, nothing happens. So I'm worried that I don't turn him on like he does for me. The only thing I could think of as to why he's never shown it is because he has AMAZING control but there's always a limit to that.


How do I tell without being so blunt I look like a slut? (link)
I would really start to question is sexuality. I mean when you guys do that again ask him it may seem werid and if he say's no then ask him about it. These maybe hard questions but if you don't ask them then who will!! just a suggestion though!!

HOPED THAT HELPED!! ZS!


well my boyfriends parents really liked me and everything but yesterday i was at this carols thing at the park with my friends, and my boyfriend and his family were there. his mum and dad were standing at the top and i was at the bottom and i had 1 sip of beer from a friend then i realised my boyfriends parents saw me ..
i think they hate me now and i dont know what to do..my boyfriend says they will get over it but i cant get over it because i feel really bad . please help :(
thankss (link)
Well you shouldn't have been drinking no matter how much so you have to understand there position. Talk to his parnets about it. Let them know that you don't drink all the time that it was a stupid decision and which i hope you really believe it was and I hope that you don't drink all the time because if you do then you need to tell his parnets and your's!

HOPED I HELPED!! ZS!


so, i met this guy on wednesday at work, and i think i kind of like him.
we like the same type of music, and he's really fun to talk too.
i'm working with him again this weekend.

this week (obviously) is vacation. and i kind of want to hang out with him.

what should i do>? (link)
Well I mean I would Call him up and casually be liek hey I'm bored wanna go do something like watch a movie or something. Or juss come over to your house and watch a movie make it sound like a causal friendship type thing!

HOPE I HELPED!! ZS!


18/f
I went out with this guy for a short period about a year ago,and when i told him i didnt want to date him anymore, he said hopefully we would be able to date again. I love him more now than i ever did then, and I feel like my time has past, but I really would like for him to know how i feel. How do I do that?

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Well I would just tell him. You know sit him down have a serious talk with him and be like hey yeah I know that we went out for a short period but I learned during that period and I would just like to know if my time has come and gone. I mean and that would be totally ok if it is. Because I mean you can't expect a guy to wait for you especially when your the one who broke up with him. (Not to be harsh but it's the truth) Srry.

Hope that helped! ZS!!




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