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How do I tell if my bf has a boner or not without being obvi
Ok I've been dating this guy for 4 months and we've made out every time we see each other and he's eaten me out and whatnot. Well In every other of my relationships when we've made out I always gave them a boner, hell sometimes all I did was brush them and they got a boner. But this entire time my boyfriend have been dating he's never gotten a boner. The only time I think i gave him one was at homecoming because he kept going to the bathroom and he only had one glass of water. And it's not that I haven't been paying attention, cause I've looked and even when I straddle him and hint at anything, nothing happens. So I'm worried that I don't turn him on like he does for me. The only thing I could think of as to why he's never shown it is because he has AMAZING control but there's always a limit to that.
How do I tell without being so blunt I look like a slut?
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i had the totally same issue except...i just asked him
he said "boners are embarrasing." he went on to tell me that he tries, so very hard, not to get them when im around, because of that reason. dont feel like a slut, homey, if yall have a good relationship, you should be able to ask him anything...even awkward things. just be honest and talk to him about it. i hope i helped a little :)
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I would really start to question is sexuality. I mean when you guys do that again ask him it may seem werid and if he say's no then ask him about it. These maybe hard questions but if you don't ask them then who will!! just a suggestion though!!
HOPED THAT HELPED!! ZS!
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It could be that your boyfriend is not "well endowed" down there. I find it hard to believe that he is not aroused and enjoying the relationship that the two of you have. I mean when he gets you aroused, and your are enjoying yourself, and when you have an orgasm, he HAS to be aroused or he is not human. Boys are real jerks about the size of their penis. He may not have a large one, but I am sure that whatever he has, it is aroused and hard. I don't know of any way for you to find this out until you two are completely intimate, or naked in private. You may want to give this some thought to see how you would feel about it if that is the case. If you really believe that you would still love him no matter what, if you can somehow let him know, he will be more comfortable about being open with you. And honey, if he makes sure that you are satisfied, that is what really counts. There are many guys who are very large, who only think about themselves and don't care if their girlfriends are satisfied. That is one selfish guy. Your boyfriend sounds very nice.
Michele
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Hun, if you are straddling him and letting him perform oral sex on you, I don't think this guy likes you because of your prudish ways...
I'm not calling you a slut! Not at all. Just pointing out that this guy seems to like you and is comfortable with your sexuality. You shouldn't worry about 'looking like a slut'. You should worry about being honest and happy.
So, ask the boy if you get him hard! Yes, it's a little embaressing, but so what. At worst you'll learn something new about HIS sexuality and at best you'll feel a whole lot better.
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