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Relationships how to get over a guy!!!
how do you get over a guy that you fell deeply in love with and you can't stop crying about him no matter how many times you tell yourself that he is worthless and to forget about him!!!
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You have a right to be sad and upset. It isn't ever easy to get over a guy (or girl). He, whoever he is, was not worthless, otherwise you would not be this upset over everything. You had what you had with him, and now that it's over, you are understandably really sad.
Your options are to continue crying, put your life on hold, wallow away in your sadness. Or, you can just give yourself the time to heal, and deal with the pain constructively.
First off, give yourself time to get over the relationship- how much time you need depends on your situation. You have a right to feel in despair; let it out. Then, remind yourself that these things happen. It has nothing to do with you, or him..just the situation. Move onto things that make you feel good about yourself, whether it's painting, exercising, writing, listening to music...whatever. Talk to a good, trusted friend. Let out your feelings, get some words of advice, go have fun. Don't sit around pitying yourself, it can only make your feel worse. In time, you will get over this. It isn't easy, but it is entirely possible. It may hurt now, but you will be alright if you remind yourself of your strength, and other things that you are grateful for.
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Almost everyone has been through that before. Here's a philosophy I was told growing up: The guy you love isn't worth your tears, because the guy you actuall love won't make you cry. You are going to have to get over him, or take a risk of your friendship. Good luck, Kelsi.
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hi..
i have been there also...the main thing u need to think about is..
like you said.."u fell deeply in love with him"..
but you cry ??
u need to think about :if he makes you cry.. did you really fall in love with him?or do you really love him?.. or are you just use to him, and you cant get away from him cuz you "think"you love him..??
write me back if you can--- Storm
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You just need time it may seem like you will never get over him but give it a amount of time and yuo will. You could need a a month a year who know's but just give it time and you will move on. Do something to keep your mind off of him. Spend a day shopping or just sitting at home with your best friend anything will help trust me!
Hoped I Helped!ZS
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Try to meet new people, not nessacarily boys, just new people to hang out with and do different things with and itll keep your mind off of him. And youll start to have fun and realize that you dont need him in your life to make you happy.
- Hope I helped.
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ive gone through the same exact thing this past year, and now im ok, and you will be too! its so hard but you can do it. remember that life will go on after him and that eventually everything will be ok. There is nothing wrong with crying. Alot of people cry and that helps them let out all their pain.
honestily only you yourself can get over him. nothing anybody else says or does can make you get over him, but alot of times it can help make things better. try and convince yourself that your over him even if your not, just keep telling yourself that you are. another thing that can help is if you just flirt around for a while. i dont mean like be a slut or anything, but just flirt, it never did anybody harm. i know how hard it is but you will be ok. one day you will find someone who you can love that will love you back.
Dont let him take over your life. everything will turn out the way its suppose to,
and one day you'll relize that you dont need him to define you, you dont need him in your life and your better off without him
I really really hope i helped =]
good luck!!!!
I wish you the best.
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Unfortunately, time is not your friend right now. It hurts to even be awake at times, I know. However, it is going to take time to heal. Just remember that everyday someone gets their heartbroken, and you are not alone. If you can, take up a hobby to try and get him out of your mind. I know it's not easy, but at least giving it an effort may make all the difference in the world. Just keep your head high, and tell yourself that even though this is tough right now, you will find someone that you love and loves you, and you will be eternally blissful. Good Luck!!
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