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BOyfriend trouble and sex talk .....
Hi, Recentally me and my boyfriend had sex.. We have been together for 9 months now and hes never pressured me for sex but then we decided that we should.. Last time we had sex he asked me if i would like him to 'cum' in me..
I didn't know what to say so i pretended i didn't hear him.. Now its bothering me.. and i don't know if i should let him or not...
any advice ?... please...
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Hi,
My boyfirend always use condam so we don't have such problem. If in this case I can't allow him to cum inside. I think it also depands on our mind set at that moment. Don't get upset just enjoy every moment of sex with your boyfriend.
Good Luck!
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You were already nervous about it to begin with. Dont let him pressure you. I dont think you should because you're REALLY running the risk of pregnancy but if you can handle it, then go for it. lol
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This is somewhat of an awkward question to answer as there is some information missing. If I assume you are both teenagers, make that young teenagers. Then I must also assume you had unprotected sex.
If I go with my assumptions and I use your statement; "I didn't know what to say so i pretended i didn't hear him.. Now its bothering me.. and i don't know if i should let him or not...". Then my concern is that not if you should have let him "cum" in you, but are you fully aware of the consequences of unprotected sex.
Definition of unprotected sex: No condom and you're not on birth control.
If you were having unprotected sex at that point it was a mute question as to whether or not he should "cum" in you the damage was already done. His pre cum has enough sperm in it to cause a pregnancy.
So the questions I have are:
1. Are you to young to be having adult sex?
2. Are you on birth control?
3. How old are you?
4. Just how much knowledge and sexual education do you have?
I'm not trying to belittle you with my questions. Without knowing the answers to these questions I'm not even sure the question you asked is the right question. Not knowing that I can't begin to answer your question and I am hard pressed to see how any one else could give you a good intelligent answer.
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Honestly, I dont think that you're reaady for that, if you were your mind would already be made up. ALso, you do know there are risks about unprotected sex such as sexually transmitted diseases and or pregnancy, if any of the above were to happen would you and your boyfriend be ready to handle it? Hope i helped!
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