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Had sex while drunk with a friend
So I'm in college and I got drunk and ended up having sex with a guy that I have feelings for who was also drunk. I haven't known him very long and although I know he's a bit of a player I still want him. We already had a thing and had kissed but never had sex. The problem is that we have the same friends which means that I'll see him again within the week. I don't know what's going to happen and I don't know if he'll want to again or if we'll still be friends or if it'll be awkward. I haven't talked to him since the incident last night so I don't really know where we stand. How should I handle this situation? I don't want him to think I'm needy or that he can use me whenever but part of me wishes that we'll be able to do this again sometime. And I'm not sure how he feels about me either. Please help.
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You should approach him; tell him exactly what you just said to us. Also, he probably feels the same as you, and doesn't want to feel needy towards you? As, you said, you've kissed before, just being drunk encouraged the sex..So, maybe that means you never intended on doing but now that it's done, I guess both yours and his feelings towards each other have changed...But, that doesn't mean that he wouldn't want to do it again.
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