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My friend has a different problem everyday!
Sophie is one of my good friends. Everytime I log onto MSN shes like "omg guess what oi" and then shes either really angry at someone or really upset. So I try to help her out in everyway possible like friends should. Trying to make her feel better and all sorts. But she never helps me out when I have a problem. Shes just like "dont worry about it, hes just a **** or somethng" and I care for her when she needs my help. I help her throught all her problems and everything and then i was angry about something one time and shes just like "you can be angry IM angry" and i was like woahhh settle down. I dont know what to do about her. And i cant get angry at her or in a fight because shes one of those people that you.. tell all your secrets to and if you get in a fight she will tell EVERYONE about EVERYTHING and my secrets cannot be told without me getting the biggest smash... what do I do ??? PLEASE HELP. sorry its long ! :P
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That entire description about your friend makes her sound very selfish and mean. If this is true, you need to approach this girl and tell her exactly what your really feeling. My opinion would not be to really talk to her but actually be aquaintances. I've been in the same exact situation with this girl. She started drama out of nothing, and always had something to talk about, which was even more drama. She always knew how to turn everything around and make it sound like you were to blame. I know your nervous and scared she will tell your secrets, and on the negative side she probably would, because that might be her character. (Which is by the way not a good friend at all) I just broke off the friendship with this girl only just a few days ago, and sometimes I wish though it was more civil. Try to slowly drift apart if this girl starts to show signs of selfish behavior. It sounds to me she has a lot of drama on her hand, and someday, she's going to get everyone really annoyed with it. I'm sorry i've been so blunt, but honestly I would talk to her first, and if nothing changes, I say just drift away.
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ohhhh i so know how you feel.i was in a situation like this back in school.i didnt wanna get in an arguement because shed tell everyone my secrets and tell everyone she hates me and try to turn everyone against me.there no simpler way to do it but this is what i did.i stayed her friend and listened to her problems,stoped telling her my secrets,found another friend on the side did this till school finished then grdually drifted apart from her.so like pretend everythign is fine and just gradually drift apart from her but still be friends so that she doesnt tell people your secrets.suck it up till the end of the year because theres actually no better way of sorting this out.trust me iv been where you have!its a messy situation to get into if you argue with her or show your upset.just be strong about it and be good to her and gradually just slip away from her.
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Dude, I have a friend like this, too. Most likely, she comes to you with a different problem every day just to get attention, and if you are like me, you don't tolerate it for long. There's really nothing you can do, unless you do the same thing she's doing to you. Just say "Oh yea...he's just a ****" Hope i helped?
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