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boyfriend and weed =/
my boyfriend used to smoke alot of weed his freshman and sophomore year (hes a senior now) he hasn't done it since but today he told me he did. when i told him that i didn't like it and he knows that he told me not to worry and that he won't become a pothead. but idk...like i don't want to be the pushy gf that yells at him for doing it...then he's gonna feel like he has to hide it from me...but idk i just don't want my boyfriend to do that then me having to kiss him...what should i do?
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Weed is not as addictive as everyone says. It's been legalized as medicine in California, for goodness sake.
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I think that if he told you he's stoped and than started again he's not an honest guy..ya he told you he did it again but he probably wont stop because he'll probably get hooked right back on it. If I were you I'd tell him...either drugs or me, give him that choice becuase if you dont wanna guy that does that, you'll know by the end of the day what you really want...hope that helps
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If he told you not to worry and that he won't become a pothead then you should trust him and believe him being in a relationship means being able to trust one another i don't think he'd lie to you he'd be honest things may change and he may stop completely be patient and wait see what
happens hopefully he'll stop since you said to him
that you didn't like him doing it :)
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honestly, i think if he says hes not gonna become a pothead, then jus let him have a little fun once in a while. just tell him not to do it on a day when he'll see you. obviously he's been there done that with the pothead stage, so he prolly wont go back to it.. just relax.
if it really bothers you then break up with him, because he shouldnt be told what to do, because most likely you wouldnt like it.
good luck ,
x sweeethoney
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