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Hi! I'm not sure what to give my girlfriend for Christmas this year. I already got her boots and a ukulele for her birthday and anniversary, but I am stuck on what to give her for Christmas!!! I was thinking of giving her a Build-A-Bear because I think it would be cute (something for a change because I always get her practical things), but I asked my sister what she thought, and she said she wouldn't like really care for it if she got it for Christmas. So now, I'm really discouraged about getting it. What do you guys think? Thanks.
My girlfriend is 20 btw, she likes playing the guitar, and she's really into cooking. Maybe that will help. (link)
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Hello ! I am a girl and I don't currently have a boyfriend but if I did I know what I would want. If I were you I would give her a necklace with a key on it, the key to your heart. Like perferably a gold one with a heart key. It shows that you love her & that you think of her. Have a merry christmas & i'm sure she'll love whatever you give her :)
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how do i leave my life
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suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem . you dont want to leave your life . get a therapist and talk to someone .
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I'm 25/f.
My boyfriend physically and emotionally abused me after knowing one another for years as friends, then dating for months before moving in together. The last thing he did to me before I left was pick me up by my throat. His biggest problem was always that he couldn't control himself, and I thought he was going to kill me...This kind of abuse escalated from fights during which he would come within inches of my face and scream at me. In response to this, I once slapped him, and I felt terrible, and kept apologizing...does this mean I'm abusive, too? Did I bring this upon myself by responding that way?
I got a protection order against him, but true to character, he's denying that he abused me, and got a hearing to try to get the order lifted. It's coming up, we both have lawyers, but I'm so nervous I can barely function. I'm terrified to be in the same room as him.
Does anyone have any thoughts? Any advice?
-Thanks :( (link)
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Hello. Physical abuse is a very serious crime and its something that makes my stomach turn. Ive witnessed domestic violence and it is not pretty. To put your hands on a girl and hurt them means that there is something wrong in your head. The most common cause of it is most likely drugs. Maybe he is doing some kind of pills or something? I am not trying to scare you or anything but the guy who was your best friend, and who you thought you loved, is a monster. If you have witnesses to what he did to you, then have them talk to officers because he cannot just get away with physically hurting you. You do not have to feel terrible or appologize for slapping him because the truth is, he deserves it. Does he feel terrible for hurting you? Probably not. There is something wrong with him. Just stay away from him try to get him locked up for his wrong doings. Your are a great person, and don't let his actions make you think otherwise. I hope I've helped a little :)
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