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when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
when ur 18 or ovr


im going out with this girl but nothing really seems the same from what we started outwith.who do i know if she still likes me? because i really like her. sometimes she acts cold she sometimes dosent want to talk to me and durring our conversations online i ask 2 many questions and she getts annoyed really fast and i think that she is starting to not like me bacouse woe used to talk every night she'd call me but now she dosent and i dont want to call her bacouse the past 2 weeks shes been really sick and i think that thats the problem can you help me and tell me if she is acting like that bacouse she is sick or beacouse she dont like me anymore (link)
It could b PMS but most likley she needs space. Leav her alone a little while, but mak it clear u still lik her. Hte key is 2 giv a little space but not 2 much. Let her im u sumtimes and let her say hi 2 u. But u gotta b careful u don't stop tlaking altogether. Talk it out with her. Ask her if shes mad at u


one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help (link)
He's done this b/c sumthin in his life is bothering him and he needs to talk about it. Ask himw ut's wrong and y he is doing it.


i came to school today thinking i dont have friends anymore and that id have nobody toturn to if anything happened well i found out different except i still find somethings are wrong and stuff... for a while like an hour today i kept thinking of killing myself... i know it sounds serious but i dont think i would have really done it... should i get conseuling or just leave it alone... i think im in control of how i feel so it really wouldnt matter this was the first time i ever thought fo doing this... i also thought of cutting but im not the kind of person that wears sweaters and stuff so everybody would know and that whould get my friends not tlking to me... they would kill me so whatever... but is this something i need to tlk to somebody about? i think it just might be that i need some more sleep because i know i wake up tired and im tired for most of the day... like i am now. but im pretty sure i got over the killing myself thing. (link)
i feel this way constatnly. u dont need counseling just think of all the things u do hav and wut u hav to liv 4. or want u want to do in the future


Ok so I am 13 years old and I want to start babysitting. I'm not sure if there are laws on how old you have to be (I live in England.) Is 13 old enough? How would I go about it? (link)
ther r no laws! b 13 is a fine age


Okay I asked the question about being 13/f and my breasts hurting size 38c. Well today i was noticing that my right breast kinda feels like it has lumps in it. I think I might have breast cancer. But I am confused. If I do I don't know how to ask my mom to take me to the doctor to find out or even tell her that I think I do. (link)
its normal. evry1 has them. it jsut means ther growin


Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you. (link)
i do it b/c it takes emotional pain and makes it physical easier to deal with. It makes u think about the cut. I do it when i hav overwhelmign depression and u dont no wut else to do.


well, my dog(german shepherd) just had 5 puppies(sadly 1 died) anyways, three of them are totally black and only one of them looks like her mother(black and tan). i was wondering if anybody could come up with some cool and unique names for my puppies, i have some ideas already, but i want more. thanx alot!! (link)
Roxy, Frankie, Tiora ( pronounced Tee ora) and Brody


My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that. (link)
tell him ur not ready and that if he cant respect that u cant b together. tell him ir would mak things akward in ur relationship


` ok im startin a diet tomorrow and my goal is to lose 100 pounds by next school year! how long would it take if i do all this..and do u think its a good idea/goal and what else can i do.

30 sit ups
30 squats
i jog and play football in gym and we do warm ups
i take walks after dinner
(( i do 30 sit ups and squats after each meal ))


- i dont eat pasta/noodles

what else can i do that might help me??

oh and i dont eat lunch and i drink diet pop and water.
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u need to eat lunch! just take like a salad and fat free dressing! and cut out the pop ! lots of calories! jsut juice and water


oK: so i have kinda oily skin... and whatever i do... its still oily! what can i use/do to make my complextion shine free? thanx! (link)
clean n clear oil removing pads and if u want to hide it use powder


my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do? (link)
when she said this she really meant it was akward 4 me and u were 2 forward or that now thers no spice. u should jsut not b 2 forward and tak things slower and mayb lik hug her or peck kiss or hug or tickle ehr. do things to suprise her. mayb just b lik i wanna count ur ribs and feel her up but nto 2 much




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