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broke up the being mean


Question Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 4:52 pm

so i dumped this guy and now he is calling me stupid telling people i am dating these ugly guys and calling me gay in the bad way but i wish he meant happy i don't even like him anymore so i need you help on what to do any advice would be nice thanks! i love typing lol but also please help!

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 16 2014, 10:50 pm:
He is doing what he is doing because he is immature and this is his way of acting out a tantrum like a little child. He is mad that he didn't get what he wants, you, regardless if you have anything in common or any chemistry together. Now that you see his true colors, be happy you are no longer dating him.

Ignore him. If you talk to him regarding what he is saying or ask him to stop, you give him the satisfaction of having upset you or bugged you. If you do not react, then there will be no reason for him to continue. If he does go on for a while, perhaps he has a mental illness as well, and then its doubly good you're not with him any more.

Any friends and fellow students who are mature and true friends will never listen to him anyways.

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sillyrob answered Wednesday November 12 2014, 7:52 pm:
I would ask him how you're gay if you're dating ugly guys. Then,as he tries (and fails) to find an answer that makes sense, kinda ask him to stop being a child. If he doesn't, then I guess ignore him and feel good that you got away from that relationship.

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sunshine1232 answered Wednesday November 12 2014, 2:58 pm:
Even though you broke up with him you need to confront him and tell him to stop saying making things up about you that aren't true if you ignore what's he's doing he'll continue to do it and that won't get you anywhere you need to speak up and tell him to stop he isn't a mind reader can't read your mind i really think he's acting childish breakup's happen all the time they aren't anything new he needs to get
over it and move on

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