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I wanna move out
Hey , I'm 18 years old ,male, i live in NY , and my parents are divorced.Recently i went to live with my dad who i didn't see for 11 years.i fucking hate him , he is being all bossy on me , he is a old fuck head who has diabetes and a lot of diseases.I wanna move out to Texas to live with my girlfriend.i got a job , its a internship program , but i wont make enough money , like $370 2 weeks.i don't know what to do , i cant go back to my mother due to unusual circumstances.I'm thinking about killing my dad to be honest , maybe by poisoning him or stabbing him and hiding the body or i don't know , i need to plan it out .
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Oh dear, I totally understand where you're coming from.Now you see here, a couple of years back I thought I had hit rock bottom.Family drama is just a small term to define what Ive been through, and just like you, I was far too young and inexperienced to move out.What Ive done, is *As miss Glamazon said* build myself up from the very bottom *knowing that my family were on welfare, couldn't get any worse than that!* I know living with people that don't understand your pain can be horrible, but in order to save yourself, you truly do need to get started on something that will help you gain independence! Work experience and educational experience will go a very, VERY long way, for you will have what it takes to depend on yourself fully!The worst thing you can do for yourself is get yourself in trouble with the police. You are an 18 year old, mature adult man, and I do believe that if you were able to face previous turmoils in life (since you said you've been through family divorce problems), and that you have been able to withstand all of that, that you are truly a fighter and that you CAN make it through so much more =). When one day you find yourself successful, independent and living the happy life you have always wished for, you will have so much pride in yourself knowing that you did this ALL.BY.YOUR.SELF! =)))
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First of all, I want you to reflect on your last sentence. I want you to think long and hard about it. I don't want you to concentrate too long on the fact that you're thinking about killing your father, you're young and young people can be rash about things.
No, I want you to realize what you just did. You just posted on the internet, that you are thinking about killing your father. A place right out in the open, where anyone can see it, and you're not that hard to trace, especially when you display your email. Not to mention you could get the owner of this site involved too.
Then, after you've thought long and hard about how stupid you are for typing that out, you can come back to Advicenators and we can actually help you with the mundane task of finding a second job and working your ass off to save up some money to move to Texas.
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Ok look, killing or stabbing your father will get you no closer to making more money or living with your girlfriend.What it will cause, is for you to get locked up in jail, and you can say goodbye to these plans you have set for yourself!I believe you should get started on your job, save up as much money as possible, and once you have the required money and job experience, get a better job with a better salary and move out if your father is causing you that much turmoil.Do not let a moment of anger be the reason for a lifetime of pain and regret,because when you find yourself locked up for life, you will wish you haven't taken such actions in moments of anger.I have a friend who was facing similar circumstances and what he did was work on himself (as in work and educational experience, knowing that his mother wouldn't financially support him) and once he gained stability and independence , he moved out and now hes living a better life than you can imagine!Be your own hero, not a victim :).
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