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how deep the penis can enter into vagina
wen I tried to enjoy the sex with my boy friend he inserted his penis into my vagina but it was not entered completely but only 4inches n bloodcame out due to hymen break n later he tried but not entered more n he said that it wont enter more deep n disappointed n I felt depressed with that thing but later when I tried to finger, my finger entered for only 3 inches and some tng inside stopped me to enter deep n blood oozed all over my finger I was afraid plz tell is there any problem with me am I not eligible for sexlife
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Have you ever used tampons or had difficulty getting them to go in? Or tried using a dildo and had same problem? The reason I ask is that some females can have what is called a septate hymen. Basically, instead of the extra hymen tissue running the circumferance of the vagina, in a very few females, it is a strip of flesh going right down the middle, attached firmly at each end and it thus creates two much smaller openings. In one case I read of a girl who forced a tampon in with much pain. When she was ready to remove it, she couldn't and Mom couldn't removed it either It took seeing the Dr. and having that strip of skin cut away. Its a simple procedure and girls who've had it done say there is no discomfort After. If you're a teen who doesnt want mom to know whats going on, either call and see if they can help at Planned Parenthood, they handle many things to do with your reproductive organs and sex. Or if you've had difficulty with tampons, tell mom and let her know you've heard about hymen causing two smaller entrances that then will rip and bleed. It would heal but rip again each time you try to fit something in and a removal at a Drs office is the right thing for this.You don't have to be having sex to have this problem, keep that in mind if talking to mom.
As far as any other possible reason he couldnt fit, if its not septate hymen, but just a regualr rip, that has nothing to do with a guy being able to fit all the way where he's bumping into your cervix. A female when not aroused is a shorter length than when fully aroused, such as having been given orgasms first before penetration with penis.j Her body pulls the womb higher up inside creating a longer vagina. But even so, from experience, I can say, I found there is a maximum length in a guy I can take when aroused, anything beyond is painful for me and he can't fit in all the way if my aroused length is shorter than his aroused length. I dont believe this to be the case as you mentioned lots of bleeding with him and later just with your fingers. Don't worry, you will heal if it was torn. But if it's septate, it will keep being re injured without a guy able to fully get in until taken care of by a doctor.
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You're totally fine! It was your first time so you were nervous and probably very stiff.
Some women bleed a few times after their first time and it can be very hard for him to push through the first time. Especially when your body is stiff.
So when you try again, try to relax. Nothing is wrong with you! Tell him to take it slow and start out with his fingers. Remind him that this is your first time and to be gentle with you. There really is no rush.
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