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sunshine1232
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So last night me and my boyfriend were having sex. It was just missionary style -he was on top. It was all fine until I felt like I had to go to the bathroom, but not go pee but poop. So embarrassing right! Or it also felt like I could fart, I was trying to hold it in. The thing is that when we were done ...I didn't have that feeling anymore. Do you think I really had to poop/fart or was it just something that he did that made me feel like this? Ahh I don't want this to happen again! I kept having this feeling like I had to hold it in so i wouldn't do it.
Sorry this may be too graphic or something but I just want to know if I really had to go or if it had something to do with us having sex. (link)
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Omg!! that has happened to me too. He was on top of me and i felt like i had to fart..I told him to stop because i didn't wanted to fart in front of him , but the weird thing was that when he we were done I didn't had that feeling anymore.! I don't know this is just weird. i thought i was the only one, apparently no.
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Want to do incest with my elder sister, NEHA........
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ok?? this is a little bit creepy , first of all you shouldnt do that!! its ILLEGAL!
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This guy asked me out last week and I didn't really know what to say. I DO want to go out with him but does that mean I should say, "YES," or what? I don't want to sound stupid or like a total dork when it comes to this. I fumbled around until we just laughed it off and I think I gave him the wrong impression because he hasn't called since. The next time something like this happens and a guy says, "Hey, you want to go out this weekend or some time?" what do I say back?! (link)
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if you enjoy being around him the you can say yes. but dont act childish when it comes to this because guys like womens that are serious and know what their doing. think about it reallly good so next time when he askes you to go out you say yes. but thats all on you.
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ok this might be long.My (ex)boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago.The day after he broke up with me he started dating my cousin! He has done confessed that they had sex before he broke up with me. The bad thing is...even though he does these stuff, i still love him. He told me that i should keep everything he gave me.He gave me a hoodie and said the person he will always love will have his hoodie. He gave to me to me a week ago and just a few min ago he told me to keep it even though he is dating jennifer , he will still love me. I have been crying my eyes bout this ever since this happen. I know you guys are thinking hes awful right know but i need help. Can you help me win him back? What can i say to him so that he will want me again?
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i think this guy is awful. how can you want him back after he broke up with you and started dating your cusin? what type of guy is this? if he is dating your cusin he dosen't cares about your feelings,& that hoody he gaved you i think you should throw it away because its only going to bring you memories. if he really loved you like he said he wouldn't be dating your cusin & also he would be with you right now. & your cusin didnt do the correct thing on going out with your ex. hunny move and and leave those people in the past. you can do wayy better then that. i be your still young and have a future infront of you. dont sweat this cus you are better then that. if a guy left you for someone else he will do it the second time. good luck & dont stress it. always stay positive :)
- Good bye .
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OK so me and my ex have started to talk again and now we have a thing. i guess friends with benefits. we went out for 5 months two years again and iv had feelings for him ever since. we've talked about hooking up and stuff and we're gonna. but the other night we went to the movies and sat in the back. me and him were holding hands and flirting and teasing each other. he would slip his fingers down my pants and pull them out and so forth and i would tease him and i would slip my fingers down his pants and i undid his belt and the zipper and everything. the movies was about to end so i figured i wouldn't give him a hand job. so for the rest of the movie i was just rubbing his inner thigh and i could tell he was rock hard. (undid his jeans cause i heard its painful for guys to get a boner in jeans). i slowly move my hand towards his penis and was stroking it on the undersideee. i guess i just would like to know other ways of turning a guy on. what feels good. what helps you guys get hard and so forthhh. thanks:) (link)
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Hi :) well there are alot of things to turn on a guy. hunny ist's not good to be friend with benefit because at the end someone always end up getting hurt. just like you mention "now you guys have a thing" i think you guys should hook up first before any oral sex or sex. guys this days just want one thing and is "sex" so just make sure he aint tricking you into getting with you just so you could give him a piece of cake because it sounds like. you should ask him if he only wants to hook up for this . and also that you want something serious because you really like him, tell him hunny dont be afraid. trust me hunny on this one. but this is my advice , if you need something else just contact me :)
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Hey 18/F
Me and my boyfriend have been dating a while and lately have been talking bout exploring things more sexually. We have been taking it slow but think it's time. My question is if he fingers me or something will he be freaked out about how wet I am? He turns me on a lot and I really can't help it but I get really really wet and want to know if that will freak him out or be a turn off since we are both very inexperienced and it would be our first time with anything like this. Thanks!! (link)
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of cource not hunny. this is 100% normal for a girl to be wet down there, and your boyfriend should understand this. trust me on this one i'am sure he wont be freaked out. and i dont think that at that moment he will be looking down there to see if you are wet its your first time so just relax and let the moment pass :) enjoy your time. oh and remember its not only you that will get wet because remember boys tend to spill their sperm out and if he tells you something about you being wet remind him of his sperm. hope this helps huny. have fun and enjoy yourself. dont worry about that little thing because then you wont enjoy nothing and you will just be embarraesd and i dont think you want this. forget about it because almost all girls are like that. hope i helped :D
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so there is this guy. we were cool and everything. he showed interest in me. like he would look at me all the time and turn around quickly. we would look at each other. he would get into my conversations. and so i started showing interest in him back. but then i guess he figured out i liked him because he told my friends. and one of my friend was like i kinda think she does like u and he was like yeah i think so too. well when i talk to him he would just look at me and dont say anything back. but then he will talk to me sometimes and its okay but if i say something its like he is ignoring me. so im like confused. he is like younger than me and he doesnt date alot so maybe thats probably but its not like i was trying to date him. i dont know im just confused (link)
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probably he is shy. some boys dont like showing their feelings towards the girl they like. just talk to him hunny and ask him wats going on. if he likes you or not. trust me on this one because at the end you dont wanna end up hurt by this boy. just go and have a nice talk with him . it will help alot. just ask him if he likes you so then at the end you dont end up getting hurt with your feelings. :( just remember words unspoken can leave a heart broken. good luck hunny :)
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how can you get your ex back ?! (link)
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everything happens for a reason , if he is not with you there must be a reason. god will give put you who you truly need by your side. if you and your ex were meant to be then yu guys will find a way to be together. i go by this quote "if you love something let it go if it comes back to you then it was meant to be" just give it time i know how it feels but if he wants to come back he will come back. but right now go out and have some fun with your friend :)
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I was fingered recently and it was my second time being fingered. It hurts really bad and i dont enjot it at all. How do i get more enjoyment out of this? (link)
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just keep going slowly start with 1 finger then after a while 2 then 3 and so on you will loosen up after awhile make sure to think about something that turns you. make sure you are giving attention to your clitoris.
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Is their any websites or something that can help me with spanish? I know some spanish, but not very much. Or if you want to help me and you can speak fluently that would be great! If you want to do that just answer this question saying so and I'll comment you back with my e-mail adress! I do have friends that speak spanish and can help me with pronounciation, but they told me to go learn more spanish before they will help me. So, I am not worried about pronounciation at the moment. I do know how to sound the words and read and write in spanish so thats not a problem. If you want to help me then do as I said email me and I will email you back what I know. (link)
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this is a really good website to learn spanish. just click where it says "free spanish cource"
http://www.mansionspanish.com/
- Also my main language is spanish. If you ever need help with spanish you can contact me,i would be glad to help.
hope this helped :)
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On facebook or myspace is there any way to see someone's status when their profile is private? Any way at all?
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Hey! you know what you should do ? make a fake myspace or facebook with somebody else's picture and add them :)
hope it helps :)
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i'm 17/f, and on saturday, 3 of my friends and i were arrested. the two girls and me were taken to juvi, and the other guy was taken to jail, since he's 19. the girls that were with me were both 15.
i have to appear at court on the 10th of february and i have a few questions about it. since i'm a minor and this was my first offense, my mom thinks that the judge will drop the case. see, the cops saw us riding around two motels, stopping a few times, parking, circling around, and got suspicious, searched the car, (that wasn't even ours), and searched us. they found cigarettes and a xanax bar on me and that plus curfew is why i got arrested. so, from hearing all this, can anyone tell me what the chances are that this will be dropped? and also, would anyone know what the court fee would be? my parents said i have to pay it, which is fair, i guess. but i only have so much money. like, would it be any more than 200-300? thank you to anyone who can answer my questions. (link)
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you dont have to pay anything because you didnt stoled anything . if you would of stolen something then yea you had to pay for it . and about the judge it just all depends .this is your first time . what they will probably tell you is to do community service so your record could be cleaned up . you do 12 hours of community service and you have nothing to worry about . but if the car was stolen then there you are in big trouble . just tell the judge the car was not yours and that the xanga bar was not yours either. tell him it was your friend . trust me you dont wanna be in more trouble. having a criminal record sucks and it will be harder for you to get into college and get a good job in the future , so please just watch out with who you are hanging around with because if one person does something bad the rest pays for it too "/ good luck and tell me how everything turns out .if you need something else feel free to message me . :D
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My myspace makes me enter people's emails when I try to add them. I know that they have it set differently to where I don't have to write down their last names or emails but for some reason every time I try and add anyone it says I need their email.
This happened to me once before also.
Does anyone know why, or what I can do to change it? (link)
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its a profile safety setting that she/he has set.. so random strangers cant try to add her/him with that feature the friend requests she gets are from people she knows just message her and ask her to add you if you dont know her email..also it depends how old you are..sometimes if you are over 18 they probably have their myspace set up so people over 18 need to know they e-mail..but just ask them!! hope i helped :]
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boys, and their unfamiliar antics. !17/f, this guy that i sort of like is a sophomore at my school he is supposed to be a junior, i think he's 16...he has a girlfriend, and she lives in a town close to ours but she is going to college. she also will not let me talk to him or hang out with him alone. honestly, yeah i like him but id NEVER let anyone cheat on anyone else with me, and i was just learning to play the drums from him. he told me he doesnt feel comfortable hanging out with me alone because he doesnt want to chance it, and i told him theres nothing to worry about because id never want to hurt someone the way ive been hurt...(my first love cheated on me) and he said fine, he asked his girlfriend if he could hang out with me and she said no. so now im stuck with him not being a friend and he barley event texts me anymore..i didnt do anything wrong, what is up? he swears bekka (his girlfriend) is the one. i totally understand but why doesnt he want to be my friend? (link)
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the reason why he doesnt want to talk to you or text you is because of his girlfriend.he probably doesnt want to have problems with her so he is trying to kinda keep a distance from you.i know how this feels because i been thru it even now.remnber its not his fault its because if his gir she is jealous and dont want you next to him , because she thinks your going to take him away from her.
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