boys, and their unfamiliar antics. !17/f, this guy that i sort of like is a sophomore at my school he is supposed to be a junior, i think he's 16...he has a girlfriend, and she lives in a town close to ours but she is going to college. she also will not let me talk to him or hang out with him alone. honestly, yeah i like him but id NEVER let anyone cheat on anyone else with me, and i was just learning to play the drums from him. he told me he doesnt feel comfortable hanging out with me alone because he doesnt want to chance it, and i told him theres nothing to worry about because id never want to hurt someone the way ive been hurt...(my first love cheated on me) and he said fine, he asked his girlfriend if he could hang out with me and she said no. so now im stuck with him not being a friend and he barley event texts me anymore..i didnt do anything wrong, what is up? he swears bekka (his girlfriend) is the one. i totally understand but why doesnt he want to be my friend?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Daintree answered Thursday October 1 2009, 9:55 pm: Bekka is not convinced you won't cheat I believe you won't because people who have been cheated on all understand the pain too well to ever inflict it onto another. The boyfriend can't fully trust himself with you either. I suspect that the boyfriend may even get a tad henpicked for anything out of her order. Sad for everyone. To gain trust you have to prove it but they are not giving you that chance so maybe you best move on to someone else as a friend. These 2 don't sound like they diserve you. Good luck [ Daintree's advice column | Ask Daintree A Question ]
angie248 answered Thursday October 1 2009, 6:32 pm: the reason why he doesnt want to talk to you or text you is because of his girlfriend.he probably doesnt want to have problems with her so he is trying to kinda keep a distance from you.i know how this feels because i been thru it even now.remnber its not his fault its because if his gir she is jealous and dont want you next to him , because she thinks your going to take him away from her.
-hope i helped . [ angie248's advice column | Ask angie248 A Question ]
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