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My (ex)boyfriend broke up with me
ok this might be long.My (ex)boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago.The day after he broke up with me he started dating my cousin! He has done confessed that they had sex before he broke up with me. The bad thing is...even though he does these stuff, i still love him. He told me that i should keep everything he gave me.He gave me a hoodie and said the person he will always love will have his hoodie. He gave to me to me a week ago and just a few min ago he told me to keep it even though he is dating jennifer , he will still love me. I have been crying my eyes bout this ever since this happen. I know you guys are thinking hes awful right know but i need help. Can you help me win him back? What can i say to him so that he will want me again?
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He's fucking your cousin. He was previously fucking your cousin while you were still dating. He does not love you, and didn't love you when he gave you his hoodie. It was complete bullshit, and I know because I've thrown out that line too. He wants you to keep it so that when his cousin won't let him fuck her anymore, he can go back to you so he doesn't have to be alone. Any man who truly loves a woman does not keep any strings attached to any other woman that can be used as a sort of back-up plan should things go awry. If I were to become suddenly single tomorrow, I don't have a potential female friend I could date, in any capacity, nor do I have a number in my phone for a booty call. There's a reason for that.
Give him his hoodie back and tell him to fuck off. You'll be all the better for it.
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I am not going to say he is awful, even though I'm thinking it. I don't know him, so I'm not going to judge him over something he did to you. My honest opinion is you don't need to win him back! I believe in once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. He could cheat on you at anytime, considering the fact that he knows you still love him, and that you'll take him back after everything he has done. I will admit that you are very strong for dealing with this, but you shouldn't cry. Talk to him and tell him that you will always love him, and that he was your first love (if he was). But tell him that it is best for the both of you to move on, even though it's going to be hard. He hurt you and keeping his things and looking at them everyday is just going to hurt you worse. You're strong enough to handle this situation that he put on you, so be strong enough to move on.
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i think this guy is awful. how can you want him back after he broke up with you and started dating your cusin? what type of guy is this? if he is dating your cusin he dosen't cares about your feelings,& that hoody he gaved you i think you should throw it away because its only going to bring you memories. if he really loved you like he said he wouldn't be dating your cusin & also he would be with you right now. & your cusin didnt do the correct thing on going out with your ex. hunny move and and leave those people in the past. you can do wayy better then that. i be your still young and have a future infront of you. dont sweat this cus you are better then that. if a guy left you for someone else he will do it the second time. good luck & dont stress it. always stay positive :)
- Good bye .
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honestly i think you should move on and find someone bettter. personally i think he doesnt love you, and personally i think you deserve better. i say trash the hoodie or burn it and move on to someone who really loves you.
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