about

I'm Sarah. I decided to do this advice thingy one night while hearing from multiple people about me giving them and everyone else good advice. I am willing to give ANYONE the best advice I can give to their question/situation. Ask away! I'm always here.

advice

i shaved my eye brows and the top right corener has no hair and my left does what do i do

Lol, I've done this plenty of time when trimming my eyebrows. It's horrible at first, but once you get it covered up and unnoticeable you'll look back on it and think of how funny it looked. An eyebrow pencil or an eyebrow combing brush is the easiest way to fix it up!

[view]


i wanna take my old clothes to platos closet, but i have some questions:
do my clothes have to be a certain age? cause i have some that are maybe a year or two old. would they take them? and also, would they take clothes that are just from walmart or target? how does this whole process work? do i get a certain amount for each item? or what?

thanks a bunch(:

I've never been to Plato's before but I'm pretty certain that they'll take anything, It doesn't matter how old, where it's from, or what not. But do make sure it's in good condition. The condition matters on how much you get for your clothes.

[view]


This morning my phone fell in the toilet...it happened before too and I had to get a whole new one. Luckily, this time my phone still works. However, the screens to my Env3 looks like they still have water in them. The front screen even has the color fadding in at the bottum. I was just wondering if the water will either dry up and go away or this is permanent damage?

Put it in a bag of rice, I've never done this before, but my friends have ... & trust me it works!

[view]


16/F so this might be a dumb question, i dont know, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and we had had sex earlier but he didn't go inside me or anything but than later i gave him a hand job and it went every where and i was on top of him and some could have gone in me... so i don't know if that could be bad. but i am on birth control. so could you help?

I doubt you're pregnant. Don't worry/stress about it. Birth Control will most likely take care of everything if any did get in you. Next time be careful, and heads up ... If you don't know how to protect yourself, then DON'T do it.

[view]


Alright well this guy ask me to come over, and im 13, and then when i got there we went to his room , and layed down were not goin out , and were watching grudge. then he turned me over and we started to make out, he started to feel me up over clothes, then under my bra, he also fingerd me. Were still not dating, did he use me? he also wants to hang again should i ? HELP ME

How old is this guy? The age matters in this kinda situation. If he's around your age he is most likely not using you, but if he is older ... then in most cases YEAH, he is using you. You're not a slut for doing this with a guy and not dating him. I know how it feels. I used to be in a "relationship" like this. I felt regret after we had done everything and never went out. So if that's how you feel END IT! Tell him that you have class and don't do this with guys that that you aren't involved with. If he tries to make things work then he really is in it for you, if not then you know what he really wanted. Good luck, Wish you the best & Hope you make the right decision.

[view]


my boyfriend wont let me near his phone. he gets paranoid if i ask to see it and watches my every move. he sleeps with it in his pocket or under his pillow. should i be worried?

Most the time I'd say not to worry. But yeah, I would be worried. But not as much as I'd be hurt. To me that's him saying he doesn't trust you, and I've got something to hide. The best way to handle it is maturally. Sit down with him and ask him what's up with the whole phone thing. If he keeps doing it tell him that it hurts you and you want this relationship to work with trustworthiness and honesty, and RESPECT!

[view]


Hi,i'm 13 female and i weight around 168 ibs...Yes i know i'm really fat but i want to lose some weight before i reach 16,so can anyone give me some advice how to lose weight effectively since i am doing all sorts of exercise and none of them show results...So any advice?

I've been in your shoes before, it sucks being young and chubby. Eventually you may grow out of it, I did ... thank god. But it's good that you want to do something about it. Most people these days just lay around and eat the pain away. Hints why their the way they are. First of all you can't just exercise, you have to eat healthy also. NOT a major diet, but just watch what you eat, and make sure you proportion your meals right. Fast food, greasy foods, and fried things are something you deff. want to stay away from. & Sweets. Watching what you eat and working out is a great way to show improvements. & The good thing about it is that you don't have to workout everyday. Set a schedule up and workout for 30 mins. or so. Eating healthy and working out will make you feel great about yourself, and give you lots of energy! Good Luck

[view]


13/f

Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.

I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.

It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.

I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.

((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.))

I'm having a hard time believing this question! But if it's true, honey you need some help, honest to god truth. I'm not here to judge, but honestly ... Having sex to make your boobs bigger? Wow. The way your boobs grow are in your genes, NOT how many guys you have sex with. IF you really had sex with your dad's buddy, does he know about this? I doubt he'd be happy, that is if he's a good father. That "buddy" of his who had "sex" with his 13 year old daughter will deff. do at least 20 years for having sex with you. You're 13 & have had sex with like 12 guys just to make your boobs bigger?! .... you must be desperate. If this question is made up, please don't post any more stuff like this ... seriously, it's immature, and it's weird that someone would even come up with an idea like this. GET HELP, please!

[view]


so basically my laptop is only a year and abit old but it keeps over heating and then shuting down for ages, how can i stop this happening ?

Make sure the fan is working. Clean it out. and it should deff. help it from over heating.

[view]


my boyfriend has kissed 5 girls but was only together with 2 of them, what kind of guy does that make him?

It doesn't make him anything. He's with you, and only kissing you. Don't question that, and don't make him feel bad because of that.

[view]


Hello i have a question. I have started growing as of you know and I am about turn 13 i havent got my period yet alot of my friends say thats unnormal is that true??? And I dont like talking to my mom about it it makes me feel un comfertable so i need help thanks alot

Everyone grows at different speeds! & it's not abnormal, so don't feel bad about it. I'm just 15 and I'm still wearing a B cup! Hahah. It's crazy, but EVERYONE grows differently, so don't sweat it.

[view]


ive heard things that if you fight with your friend once in your whole friendship then you arent realy friends is that true cause my bfftltgst(bffltgst)
and like 1 or 2 minutes later we make up were us ment to be friends because i love her like a sister and i would hate if we were not friends i would hate that please tell me the answer

Everyone fights, and makes up right after wards. That is not true! You are still friends even though you fight. Fighting actually brings friendships closer. You'll grow out of the fighting sooner or later. Trust me you guys are still friends, no matter how many fights you get into!

[view]


ok this might be long.My (ex)boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago.The day after he broke up with me he started dating my cousin! He has done confessed that they had sex before he broke up with me. The bad thing is...even though he does these stuff, i still love him. He told me that i should keep everything he gave me.He gave me a hoodie and said the person he will always love will have his hoodie. He gave to me to me a week ago and just a few min ago he told me to keep it even though he is dating jennifer , he will still love me. I have been crying my eyes bout this ever since this happen. I know you guys are thinking hes awful right know but i need help. Can you help me win him back? What can i say to him so that he will want me again?

I am not going to say he is awful, even though I'm thinking it. I don't know him, so I'm not going to judge him over something he did to you. My honest opinion is you don't need to win him back! I believe in once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. He could cheat on you at anytime, considering the fact that he knows you still love him, and that you'll take him back after everything he has done. I will admit that you are very strong for dealing with this, but you shouldn't cry. Talk to him and tell him that you will always love him, and that he was your first love (if he was). But tell him that it is best for the both of you to move on, even though it's going to be hard. He hurt you and keeping his things and looking at them everyday is just going to hurt you worse. You're strong enough to handle this situation that he put on you, so be strong enough to move on.

[view]


So my boyfriend wants me to learn how to cook but i kinda don't want to, it takes to long to cook. I don't know what to do.. Should I learn? And if so, where can I learn??

Yes you should learn. I'm not saying that because he wants you too, but eventually you're going to have to cook at least once in your life, so why not start now?! If you have family members that can teach you that'd be cool. But if not then get cooking tips offline, and on TV, in books, magazines. Basically everywhere.

[view]


I was at a party about a week ago and we were drinking. It was a fun time and there was this guy that was flirting with me all night. He asked me if I wanted to hookup and I said yes.

We ended up having sex that night. I didn't say no or anything but I WAS DRUNK. He had been drinking too but I don't think he was as drunk as I was.

Is this considered rape? I mean, I was drunk so I wasn't in my sound mind or whatever...

16/f

It all depends on how old he is. If he's of age then no it's not rape. If not then yes it was rape. THINK before you do something.

[view]


I acquired a sunburn tan, meaning that my skin burned first and turned into a tan. Now, the skin is very dark and doesn't feel natural. It has a soft leather feel. Will this eventually go away? Because I have to say that I don't really like the look or feel.

**I am unable to use the sunscreen that we purchased because it makes my skin irritated and I have yet to purchase sunscreen meant for sensitive skin.

Lotion will help for sure. It'll eventually go away. You may just need to peel.

[view]


What are some ways I can show my boyfriend I love him and care about him. Please no cutesy romantic stuff because he won't like that. And preferably nothing involving calling him or texting him.

Men LOVE food! Make him dinner. It doesn't have to be romantic or anything, but do put the thought of caring in the scene/meal. Make him feel special and that he is the only one in your life.

[view]


I Honestly think I am in love!! I know most people say it's an UNDESCRIBABLE feeling! But if you can describe you perspective of love to me, PLEASE do

To me be in love is feeling so good about yourself when you're with that person. Like the happiest you've EVER been. When you catch yourself thinking about them all the time, and then randomly smiling. When you guys go out, and have a wonderful time together, and he doesn't pressure you to do things that you wouldn't normally do. If you're in love or think you are maybe you should talk to your boy/girl to see how they feel also.

[view]


how do u know if a girl want to kiss u

Us girls can be rather confusing. But we know what we want. Usually you can tell if a girl wants to kiss by her leaning in, playing with your hand, and flirting like crazy with you. Some girls like if you ASK before you do it. It's mostly better if you ask before you try to suck her face off though. You don't want to get rejected from a kiss, and you don't want her to feel uncomfortable.

[view]


You know when you have a baby, I was wondering what traits they get, like hair, eyes ect. from the partners. So far my mom tells me that the guys jeans are more dominate than the girls, is that really true? =O

Yes, the guy's genes are stronger then the females. The guy's genes actually picks the gender of the baby. It's pretty cool.

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker