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Sex Makes Your Boobs Grow Bigger

Question Posted Monday July 19 2010, 3:35 pm


Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.

I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.

It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.

I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.

((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.))

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SmartyMel answered Wednesday May 28 2014, 6:58 pm:
Okay sweetie,you haven't reached you peek body growth yet, alright. Your body is still growing, when it seems like you want your body to respond to your commands, you will start to stress it out. Stress is very bad for the body, it can also cause delay in periods. Just because you've never had your period, doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. Women ovulate before they get their period. Getting pregnant is related to ovulation. Because a girl can ovulate before having her first period, it is possible to become pregnant.Are you using any type of protection? It's easy to contract an STD with various partners. And your dad's friend, is a pedophile, whom you should report, since you are a minor and he was taking advantage of you. And for future reference, abstinence is key.

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ferretmom answered Tuesday August 6 2013, 12:42 am:
Sweetheart I know this question was posted back some time ago, but maybe someone else is asking the same question! NO THE ANSWER IS NO!!!!!!!!! This is not true! Sex in no way increases your breast size! The older guys that are having sex with minors out there are called PEDOPHILES and they are committing a serious crime! They will tell you that it's ok and that you shouldn't tell anyone! They are predators and should be taken off the street before they do this to someone else! I never believed guys that said that to me! It's a serious crock and I have the smarts about me to know it's not true! Sex if for someone you love not for someone to lie to you to get it! I don't mean it mean, but whoever was to actually believe this is a fresh new kind of stupid! I hope this does come out to the local police department! I'm actually going to forward the link of the post to the sheriff's office for them to investigate into this if possible! So if this isn't true, this girl may get someone a lot of time in jail for something he didn't do. However, if he did commit the crime, then I hope to hell that they get a new jail built just for them and they are housed so far under it that they will never get out to see the light of day again!

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Tut answered Sunday January 13 2013, 9:52 pm:
Oh my God, sweetheart this is NOTHING but a myth that men use to tease girls into getting in the bed with them.

I understand that you are 13, and that is a tough age. I know, I was 13 once and it was extremely hard. There was so much pressure on me in high school. So, I do understand wanting to be pretty and yes having bigger breasts. BUT, I waited. You are still growing and your body will continue to grow until you are 21. Your breast size is genetically determined so look at your mothers breasts and your aunts, and you'll be able to get an idea of how big they will grow. It just takes patience.

Now, having sex with all of these men is ridiculous. I promise they are just using you and more than likely laughing about you behind your back. I know you may not want to hear this, but your friends will NEVER respect you if you keep this up. Guys will start to treat you like dirt because you have no respect for yourself by having sex with any and everyone! And your dads friend deserves to be locked up for LIFE. He took advantage of you by tricking you into having sex with him. That is wrong sweetheart and he should not have done that to you. If you felt even a little bad afterwards, it's because your conscience was speaking to you. And if he told you to never tell anyone then it is because he knew that what he did was wrong and that he would be arrested and registered as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

Take my advice, woman to woman, you will grow TRUST ME. I had the same issue as you when I was 13 and by the time I was 16, I had C cups. I'm very small and slender so for my height they stood out. I never believed that stupid myth that sex would make my body change and you shouldn't either! Have more respect for yourself and stop believing in something that is just making you look very horrible. You mentioned that you understand you can get pregnant, but what about a sexually transmitted disease??? You don't know that people that you're having sex with, you don't know who they're having sex with, and who those people are having sex with and so on. ANYONE can contract an STD. My best friend thought it would never happen to her when she was young and then it did. Now she has a disease that can't be cured. I'm telling you this because you deserve to know that what you're doing is VERY dangerous!!! You can get hurt by these men and you can even contract something you can't get rid of! Did you also know that having sex at such a young age can result in cervical cancer? Yes! You can be exposed expose to HPV ( Human Papilloma Virus) and develop cervical cancer from having sex at your age and multiple sex problems. You can even develop a nasty case of bacterial vaginosis which can be extremly uncomfortable. Bacterial Vaginosis is also caused by having multiple sex partners and results in an itchy, painful, and smelly (fishy) vaginal odor. If not treated, you can become sterile and it can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease.

So, what you're doing may seem harmless and fun at the moment. BUT IT'S NOT. It is reckless and very dangerous. Like, I said before sweetheart, wait on your body to grow at it's on pace. If you don't want to do that then I know of natural herbs you can use to make you breasts fuller. You can even massage your breasts daily for 10-15 minutes and this is proven to stimulate breasts growth.

There are more effective and safer ways to get the results you would like. Let me know if you would like to learn more. Stay Safe!

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Chane11y answered Tuesday April 3 2012, 4:48 am:
Wow... you're so gullible. I cant believe that you had sex with your dads mate but better yet how stupid you are to actually believe him. Gosh you got sucked in good and made an easy target that's for sure!

Btw its best to google things before guys google over you dumbass

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RaeRae79 answered Friday March 30 2012, 11:22 am:
First of all, sex isn't supposed to be used as a "boob growth method." it's an intimate bond between two people. Second, having sex with an adult when you're a minor is illegal. Third, if you haven't started your period yet you can still grow big boobs! I've had my period for 4 years, I was a 32-34 A until a few months ago they grew up to a 34C! Massaging with lotion or oil helps stimulate the cells and help them grow. If your boobs are sore or itchy they're growing. Honestly, having sex doesn't make your boobs grow. I've had sex with ONE guy EVER and I'm 3 years older than you.. The sex didn't make my boobs grow, his love and caring makes me feel better about my body and I couldn't care less if I had boobs or not. Don't get caught up in today's "mainstream" airbrushed culture. Those boobs you see in magazines and tv are edited or fake. Guys don't like fake boobs. Honestly, guys don't care about your breast size. I know having boobs boosts your self esteem but honestly, you just need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize you're beautiful without DD's. All the people I know with big boobs hate it. But if you want to be known as easy, go ahead. This is just advice, live your life however you want. <3

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krankee answered Saturday March 10 2012, 4:15 am:
LOLLLL I was amused for a second even though it's a bogus story.
Anyway, I hit my puberty stage in 6th grade but my boobs didn't didnt grow until the start of my high school year (I am a C now btw :D) and there was no sexual practices involved to achieve this.
My dream boob size wouldn't be a DD. I wouldn't even know why you would want that size unless you really want a career as a porn star.
Sadly, I do know little kids that are too sexually active for their age. Why would you would want to live your teenage life as a slut with std's when your supposed to be having fun or doing something worthwhile with your life.

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StarlightRinz answered Monday September 5 2011, 11:02 pm:
I know this is like really late, but what the fuck is wrong with u? I'm 13 and I never had sex in my life, and especially dont wanna have sex just to get my boobs bigger. Like srsly, who does that?? PREGNANCY is gonna get your boobs bigger, not getting raped by like old men! And omg you had sex with like 12 guys? Um whore? If you were like, i dunno 16 or older that's sorta more reasonable but still insane. I bet you have STD. This better be a fake question because a girl that didn't have her period sleeping with like 20 guys is just WRONG. before my period hit my chest was flat. So how about, stop have sex before you really do get preg. Because condoms and stuff aren't 100% protective.

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LoLL-i-PoP answered Thursday August 5 2010, 9:04 pm:
uhm... you haven't started your period... therefore you haven't hit puberty... you don't get boobs till you hit puberty... wow. and how does a thirteen year old girl get twelve guys to sleep with her...? hmm. hard to believe

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Musix4life96 answered Tuesday July 27 2010, 4:22 pm:
Ok, look having sex with anyone will defiantly NOT make your breasts bigger in ANY way. The safest way to get larger breasts is..,,Birth control. Which causes your body to think its pregnant. And even if you haven't started your period yet YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT. Sex is a very serious thing that should only be done if you are ready and know what you are doing. Your friends where WRONG when they told you that and your dads friend is just disgusting. He used you. What you are doing is unsafe and will not help you at all. Your 13 EVERYONE is different. that size is normal for you. DD is way to large for a young girl. but if you would like to boost up your size then talk to your parents about birth control. Hope I helped!(;

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SuperAlice098 answered Monday July 26 2010, 10:27 am:
im sorry to say you had sex with all those boys and that man that was your dad's friend but having sex DOES NOT make your boobs grow you just have to be patient and all those guys who say they want to help you are using you to have sex sorry
hope this helps

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saruh16 answered Saturday July 24 2010, 6:21 pm:
I'm having a hard time believing this question! But if it's true, honey you need some help, honest to god truth. I'm not here to judge, but honestly ... Having sex to make your boobs bigger? Wow. The way your boobs grow are in your genes, NOT how many guys you have sex with. IF you really had sex with your dad's buddy, does he know about this? I doubt he'd be happy, that is if he's a good father. That "buddy" of his who had "sex" with his 13 year old daughter will deff. do at least 20 years for having sex with you. You're 13 & have had sex with like 12 guys just to make your boobs bigger?! .... you must be desperate. If this question is made up, please don't post any more stuff like this ... seriously, it's immature, and it's weird that someone would even come up with an idea like this. GET HELP, please!

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Becca answered Wednesday July 21 2010, 9:58 pm:
honestly? your question is far from believable. a 13 years old who has yet to reach puberty has had sex with hmm...12 guys already? give me a break! first of all you are underage, which would put your dad's friend and the other 4 guys under statuary rape. and if you are really mentally challenged enough to have sex with 4 guys at the same time, you might as well be working the streets. next time you make a fake least try and make it reasonable?

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BeePeeTee answered Wednesday July 21 2010, 7:02 pm:
wow, i have to agree with sweetascandy7634. If this question is real, I grieve for you and I hope that you have better judgement in the future because, your father's friend took complete control of you and it's very sad and disheartening. Also, you might want to have yourself checked for an STD, since there is a great chance that youve gotten one and maybe even gave one out along the way. I think you have acted completely ignorant and i hope you gain some common sense.

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sweetascandy7364 answered Tuesday July 20 2010, 9:11 pm:
First of all having sex does not have any effect on the size of your boobs. Birth control on the other hand could effect the size. At 13 years you should not be having sex at all. Especially with 7 guys...and a older man...your dads friend. You believing your dads friend that your boobs will grow when you sleep with him, you doing it, and being only concerned with the fact that your boobs are still small is a ridiculous scenario. I don't see how anyone could do this...and believe this. This is obviously a fake question or you have some serious issues.

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BMH0987 answered Tuesday July 20 2010, 2:32 pm:
Whoever told you your boobs grow from having sex is an idiot. your boobs grow from puberty, you're thirteen, give it some time. I didn't start getting boobs until I was 14 almost 15. everyones body is different. Theres ZERO connection between body growth, and sexual activity. It is true that some people start having sex around the time those changes take place. So they may think that having sex causes the changes, but it is just coincidence. However, pregnancy (which results from having sex) does cause changes in a womans body.
You can still get pregnant, from ovulation, which occurs BEFORE you start your period. Being as you've never had one, you wouldn't know when you're ovulating.
Just think the bigger boobs you have the bigger the back problems. So dont worry about the size of them. They are just boobs, im sure there is so much more better features about you then your boobs. Honestly, guys don't care what size your boobs are they seriously love all boobs. lol Hope i Helped :)

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Shaunee answered Tuesday July 20 2010, 3:19 am:
Seriosly im 13 to you should NOT be having sex at that age 7 guys? really? and your dads friend GET HELP!!!!! your boobs grow bigger at there own pace hun and they get bigger WHEN YOU GET PREGNANT!!!!!! who ever told you must have misunderstood! tell your parents whats going on now! AND GET HELP!!!!

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MissYMelisS answered Tuesday July 20 2010, 12:56 am:
First off, wow good job making a fake question. I dont believe this is a true question at all, and because of that you get this answer. Your stupid. Your boobs will grow as you go through puberty. Stop being a whore.

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sml111992 answered Tuesday July 20 2010, 12:38 am:
wow ok to start your boobs grow when they want to you have not gone through puberty yet so your boobs wont grow till you go through that process ie.. YOUR PERIOD! you can still get pregnant from all those guys and not to mention STDS and did you think of the reputation your going to have now. that is disgusting! basically youve been raped by your dads friend and any other guy who told you that your boobs would grow if you had sex with them you need to stop now how about you tell your parents what your doing and talk to them about sex. puberity and how everything works. i hope this is a joke i really do. if not hunny i pray that you dont grow up regretting all of this its not right. its also illegal to have sex with guys older than you i mean who are over the age of 18 or 16. you need to go to a gyno a doctor or the emergency room pronto to get help. i hope you know your facts before you go doing things next time google something if you have a question and or ask your parents. please get the help that you need.

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Matt answered Monday July 19 2010, 11:57 pm:
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frangipani answered Monday July 19 2010, 9:43 pm:
WTF??????? ur 13! you've barely started sex ed in school! that is a myth. sex DOES NOT make ur boobs grow. having sex with guys alot older then you! sheesh. you better stop now or you will be miserable for the rest of your life. sex is called making love for a reason. you make love with someone you LOVE not any random horny sick bastard who wants to play. sorry but its true.

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Lilz answered Monday July 19 2010, 9:03 pm:
I read all the other people so you should know what Im going to say. but you can get pregnant before you get your period so take that into consideration too.


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Jackieee answered Monday July 19 2010, 8:18 pm:
Ok, I usually don't answer questions, and I am not a mean person at all but your ignorance is absurd and what I'm about to tell you is going to make it seem like I'm cruel. However, clearly, uneducated people need to hear the truth, no matter how brutal it is.

13 year olds know nothing about sex. Just letting you know. If you believed your friends when they told you your breasts would grow if you had sex, you're just as gullible as they are when they believed whoever told them.

You had sex with 7 guys? Good, I hope you're gonna take pride when people start calling you a whore as you age, if you don't get called so already.

You also had sex with your dad's friend? Are you aware that if he's 18 or older, which he more than likely is, that it's illegal? You probably didn't, since you believed something as rediculous as you having sex with older guys to make your breasts grow.

You're gonna have a sad reputation. And when your breats remain the same size, you're going to feel like a fool. Because that's exactly what happened to you, you got fooled. Big time.

Have fun living your life in regret.

Best wishes to you, God knows you need them.

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chichi12 answered Monday July 19 2010, 7:44 pm:
I advise you get mental help. RIGHT AWAY.

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babydoll9898 answered Monday July 19 2010, 7:30 pm:
OMG! your 13 and your already having sex. no offense but WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! you should let your body do what it needs to do. and just to let you know, sex does not make your boobs grow. that is just a mith. all these guys are just having sex with you just to have it. trust me, i'm 15 and i'm a virgin. you should just leave your body alone and it will do what it needs to at the right times. it always has and it always will.

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Monday July 19 2010, 5:21 pm:
Stop having sex with so many "boys", You are ONLY 13 years old and you are growing a reputation and not a good one, A very bad one. Whoever told you having sex makes your breast grow is a liar. 13 years old kids no nothing about sex, There is a hell of alot more than just getting aroused and having sex. If you have to ask a dumb question like that then obviously you aren't ready nor should you be having sex. You are still a child and will be for another few years, You are not legally an adult until you hit the age of 18. I advice you NOT to have sex, If you think you should go around whoring yourself because you think it makes your breast growing bigger then hunny I'm worry for you if you were to ever become pregnant. Use your brain....If you have one.

Also, Read up on sexual education cause obviously you aren't very educated...

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Razhie answered Monday July 19 2010, 5:04 pm:
Having sex doesn't make your breasts grow.

It never has and it never will.

If this is that important to you start saving for breast enlargement surgery now and when are a young adult you can pursue that. That is the ONLY way to get what you want. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to you.

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MAK answered Monday July 19 2010, 4:44 pm:
Please explain the point of asking fake questions.

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