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I'm a female and I wanted to ask to see if anyone knew of some exercises to tighten my vaginal area. (link)
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it is long and agonizing process. and really, your vagina will be considered tight enough if your partner's penis have some force preventing it from stretching you out.
you can try to use a toy, insert it into your vagina, then squeezing it as hard as you can, and do this repeatedly. this will strength the muscle around your hips.
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What is a painless way to do anal sex? (link)
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personally i find the best way to ease the pain during anal sex is to do a pre-insertion with lots of lubrications. if you know you will be having anal sex, use your hands or a toy and gently give yourself a massage and slowly insert the toy inside your anus. it is much easier time if the muscle has been pre-stretched, giving you more focus on the pleasure.
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is it wrong to be fingered at age thirteen? (link)
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it is very normal to have a curious mind at the age of thirteen. i remember i was a rather curious teenager when i was 13 or 14. so long that you don't experiment inserting things into yourself, you do not want to break your hymen at that age. and most definitely never let anyone else touch you, as it is very unsanitary and rumors can easily arise from it.
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Alright well this guy ask me to come over, and im 13, and then when i got there we went to his room , and layed down were not goin out , and were watching grudge. then he turned me over and we started to make out, he started to feel me up over clothes, then under my bra, he also fingerd me. Were still not dating, did he use me? he also wants to hang again should i ? HELP ME (link)
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no you are not a slut. although i don't think you should "hang" with him again until he ask you out on a date. then you can get to know him a little better and decide if you want to have this relationship. "grudge" is not exactly a romance flick, so he probably planned to sleep with you. so until you know you can trust him, don't hang with him again.
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What's your opinion and why? (link)
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it's ok as long as you know what you are doing or about to do. if it is with just with one guy or girl, and you believe both of you will get some fun out of it, then why not? as long as you are not making a habit out of this, and have sex with a different guy each day, then it's not a big deal.
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Okay so, This school year I met this guy and we were really good friends. We would walk everywhere together and we had the best inside jokes. We even stayed up until 5 o'clock in the morning just to help each other out, or just to talk. We were around each other so much that people started making rumors about how we were going out, even though we weren't. Every time we looked at each other we would smile, and there's not one time I can remember when we were mad at each other or unhappy together. I really like him, and I think he likes me back. From what is said up there ^^^ do you think I have a chance with him? (link)
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you definitely have a chance with him. a good one too.
however, liking someone could be two things. one being friendship, and other love obsession. if he likes you as a friend, it may take you slightly longer to get into a relationship, but you guys may very likely end up being married. if it's a teenage love thing, that relationship will come way sooner, and chances are you will have a lot of fun before you get married.
either way, you have an awesome chance at an awesome relationship =)
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I've known this girl (Kylie) since I was a kid. She's nice and we're pretty close and I would have said we were best friends until a few days ago. The other day we were talking to our other group of friends about being best friends and asking who was their best friend in the group. I know, odd discussion probably. Anyways, Kylie says she use to be bestfriends with this other girl from another school but isn't any more because she went around her school bragging to people that she fingered Kylie when they had sleepovers. Kylie is like, "That's what best friends do though! OMG!" and went on about how the other girl was being cold and cruel and how it totally made her not want to be friends with the girl anymore.
Nobody in the group seemed to be freaked out about it. I know two girls in the group made out before but I never thought about this sort of thing happening because we're ALL straight. Is this normal? For best friends to finger each other? I've never done this...am I weird, missing something, or...? :\ (link)
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no you are definitely not weird or missing out. i can only assume that your friends are still curious teenagers, and they were trying things out and possibly got addicted. i mean i sleep in the same bed with my best friends all the time when we do sleepovers. we may accidentally rub against each other and everything, but it's never meant to be sexual. perhaps your friends are bisexual or lesbians, and you are totally straight. so you feel weird not participating in those acts.
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This guy asked me out last week and I didn't really know what to say. I DO want to go out with him but does that mean I should say, "YES," or what? I don't want to sound stupid or like a total dork when it comes to this. I fumbled around until we just laughed it off and I think I gave him the wrong impression because he hasn't called since. The next time something like this happens and a guy says, "Hey, you want to go out this weekend or some time?" what do I say back?! (link)
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if you know the guy really wants to go out with you, then you can probably play around with him a bit. like "sorry i can't go this weekend, how about next weekend?" this shows that you also want to go out with him, but at the same time you have control over your own life. however don't just say "how about another time". make sure you give him a date, or else it'll sound like you are dumping him.
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I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy? (link)
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being married for 5 years and sexually active throughout this time, i don't think creepy is a concern. crazy? that's what you need to make things fun. i think you could have a nice night together, watch a few sex flicks where sleeping sex is involved. then you could casually point out that it is an interesting thing to try. if he agrees, then there you go.
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what is fingering? (link)
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fingering is a sexual act where you pleasure/excite yourself or others by using your fingers. generally you stick your fingers, however many, inside your (or someone else) vagina or ass.
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19/f, Do most girls not like giving blow jobs? I am really just curious because I love love love LOVE to give my boyfriend head, so I cant relate. I am just wondering exactly how lucky is my boyfriend? :P (link)
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i wouldn't say most girls "like" it. some just don't mind it. if you absolutely love it, then your boyfriend is quite lucky because he knows that you will do the best to spice up your relationships.
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He cuts me down and treats me like a little kid. Nothing I do is right. He play fights with me in front of his friends but is super rough almost like he enjoys hurting me. When he does that and yell me if I cry he'll just call me a baby.I'm not super annoying either, I try to help him in school so he wont fail and all he does is want to copy my work and he talks about other girls around me. He started doing this when we got in the tenth grade. Idk what to think? (link)
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sorry to say but your boyfriend is using you. it's kind of obvious that he is using your looks to show off in front of his friends. kind of like he's in control type of thing. also, the whole copying your work thing is no where near affection. more like using you to get by school. talking about other girls in front of you also shows that he really does not care much about the relationship. so...time to tell him to grow up and find a new boyfriend
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can i have sex with 2 men at the same time? (link)
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well it is possible to have sex with 6 men at the same time. (mouth, 2 hands, vagina, anus, feet) so 2 is a definite yes.
however remember that having sex with more than 1 guy could be potentially painful. especially if you double penetrate. i would not say it's a good idea unless you know the 2 guys care for you and would not wreck your body. also remember that rumors arise from these things. so make sure you fully trust these 2 guys and that they do not carry any sexual transmittable diseases.
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my boyfriend and i were having sex for about thirty minutes and i got tired and just had to finish him off oral-ly. even after i did that, it took another hour-hour and a half for him to finish. A) why is he taking so freaking long? B) how can he NOT take so long? any ideas?
this fact is keeping me from wanting to sleep with him that much, and its taking a toll on our relationship. (link)
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from personal experiences, your marathon sex could mean 2 things.
1. you are not giving him enough sensations for him to finish.
2. for a lack of explanation, he has a lot more control over himself. he may want a long sex run, and he is one of the rare guys who can control themselves.
when you ride him, squeeze really hard. run your finger nail down his penis. when you give him a hand job, try twisting a bit. also some guys can't resist when you lick him from the tip to the bottom.
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i am 14 female and this is embarrassing but i want to use a cucumber as a dildo because i finger myself sometimes but only for like 5 mins. and it feels good but not really good, so i want to use a cucumber. first of all, can i get a disease from it? and how do you disinfect the cucumber to use it? and i can't fit more than one finger in my vagina (im a virgin) and the cucumber is much larger. will it hurt really bad? will it stretch me out? please answer thank you :) (link)
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well i definitely would not recommend you to use that cucumber, for your sake and for the sake of that poor cucumber =)
however i have tried it before, but at the time i was no longer a virgin, so i had little to lose. my suggestion to you would be to use an english cucumber, it's a lot smoother than a regular cucumber. disinfect with 70% ethanol first (normal hand disinfectant). your vagina is kind of elastic, so you wouldn't be permanently stretched. also i wouldn't worry about disease too much. as long as you clean them that is...
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Okay... since I broke up with my bf I am sooo horny. Haha. Before him, I had never masturbated but while we were dating he started fingering me and I kind of relied on it haha. Well now were done but I'm like soooo horny. And I don't know what to do. I really don't want to masturbate... But what else is there?? (link)
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remember that masturbate is normal, and fun =) if you don't feel like fingering yourself, there are sex toys which you can buy, or improvise something to help you get the similar sensation as you would get during sex.
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Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
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honestly? your question is far from believable. a 13 years old who has yet to reach puberty has had sex with hmm...12 guys already? give me a break! first of all you are underage, which would put your dad's friend and the other 4 guys under statuary rape. and if you are really mentally challenged enough to have sex with 4 guys at the same time, you might as well be working the streets. next time you make a fake question...at least try and make it reasonable?
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