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boyfriend takes waaaaaay too long in bed
my boyfriend and i were having sex for about thirty minutes and i got tired and just had to finish him off oral-ly. even after i did that, it took another hour-hour and a half for him to finish. A) why is he taking so freaking long? B) how can he NOT take so long? any ideas?
this fact is keeping me from wanting to sleep with him that much, and its taking a toll on our relationship.
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from personal experiences, your marathon sex could mean 2 things.
1. you are not giving him enough sensations for him to finish.
2. for a lack of explanation, he has a lot more control over himself. he may want a long sex run, and he is one of the rare guys who can control themselves.
when you ride him, squeeze really hard. run your finger nail down his penis. when you give him a hand job, try twisting a bit. also some guys can't resist when you lick him from the tip to the bottom.
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perhaps he knows that your not enjoying it and thats all hes thinking about is trying to rush for his girl. you try getting off thinking of how you have to do piles of laundry. if you show that your into it he might have more pleasure and at any rate dont you want your boyfriend to last a while your lucky. if you do the same positions then look it up and try new ones talk dirty play with him tease him. dont make sex a chore he knows how you feel about it and its taking him longer to finish.
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i don't mean to sound rude, but the sex might just be boring for him. so it's hard for him to finish. you need to ask him what turns him on, or what he likes during sex.
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you have to make it more intense for him he will finish faster that way.. thats about all you can do
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