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Gender: Female
Location: Dallas, TX
Occupation: Sonic Carhop!
Age: 16
Member Since: July 21, 2010
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Last Update: September 7, 2010
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
First of all, don't play games with him and hint. Just come right out and say how you feel, everything should be open in a relationship. If he keeps denying, you don't need to prove him anything, especially if he is hiding it. Leave him! Buttttt then again if it's private from you, ask if it is private from everyone else and if so, it's like a personal journal and if that's okay, you can work it out. I hope I helped, dollface.


so my hair kind of looks like hers http://content.foto.mail.ru/mail/darina_m_88/_blogs/i-1299.jpg
and i wanna dye it a bit colourful like pink/red/purple. and the colours are more pastel-like and not all bright (i dont wanna look punk-ish) lol
but i'm not quite sure how. i definetely dont want all of my hair to be coloured xD
but does anyone have any ideas/pictures??? (link)
You can just bleach strips that you want to color and dye them what you want, maybe like this:
http://i249.photobucket.com/albums/gg216/o0_luvtosing_0o/hair1.jpg

http://i768.photobucket.com/albums/xx322/photosmknz/Edits%20and%20Photography%20by%20MKNZ/rainbowstreaks.jpg

I know these might not be the color/cut you want, but you get the picture, light streaks placed randomly in the hair.
Hope I helped! C:


I am so upset right now! I am tired of feeling like I am never good enough for him. I never do anything right and he always has to tell me. It hurts so bad, why can't fathers just love their children, and not have to make them feel like no matter how hard they try I fail. (link)
My dad is the exact same way, and it's even worse because I have younger siblings whom he hugs and praises all of the time, but you just have to tell him and let him know.

I finally got through to my dad and we have a much better relationship. But after you break through, it takes patience to get where you want to be.


I mastuerbated to internet porn and i feel ashamed like i have cheated on my girlfreind. would you consider this as cheating on her i love her soooo much! please help
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No way, it's actually very encouraged so you don't cheat and go crazy on someone other than your girlfriend! Don't worry, pal.


is your eye doctor supposed to tell you which contact solution to use or can you use whatever you want?? (link)
No way, you can buy whatever you want. I've had contacts for about 3 years and usually stick to Alcon's Opti-Free solution, which has worked significantly better than other brands I have tried. You can find contact solution in any Walmart, CVS, Walgreens, etcetera.


16/f

hi so i have really sweaty palms and i really can't stand it anymore. i was researching on ways to fix my problem and came across http://www.curemysweatypalms.com/ and im considering buying it. my question is if iontophoresis works or not. im desperate, please help me. thanks. (link)
Well, my aunt has this problem, but has not done anything to relieve it in her 21 years. I've heard a lot of people say getting botox injected relieves it. But oen piece of advice would be to Google "curemysweatypalms.com scam" and see what comes up, just to be safe.


hi im 10 and i was wonder how old you have to be to babysit. (link)
By the state of Texas, where I live, you have to be at least 12 to stay home alone by yourself. To stay alone and take care of others at at least the age of 12, you must have a lot of experience, or wait until I'd say 14.


Alright well this guy ask me to come over, and im 13, and then when i got there we went to his room , and layed down were not goin out , and were watching grudge. then he turned me over and we started to make out, he started to feel me up over clothes, then under my bra, he also fingerd me. Were still not dating, did he use me? he also wants to hang again should i ? HELP ME (link)
You can do whatever you want, no one can judge you. You can do it again and might feel bad about yourself and ashamed, or you can let go and have fun. It's your choice.


im 19/m and gay, me and my ex broke up almost two years ago. i dont understand this feeling i have. if i said i love him i feel empty inside i dont really feel like i do but if i said i dont love him i feel like im lying to myself about it i want this feeling to end

whats wrong with me (link)
Maybe you truly do not love him, but you wish you did and therefore feel like you are lying. I was in that position towards the end of my recent relationship, he perfectly fit into my life plan and I wanted it to work out so badly I drug out the breakup.


I am 17 years old and have only had sex with my boyfriend of over two years. We have had sex more times than i can count but I've never "had my cherry popped". Is there something wrong with me? My friends have joked around and said "oh he must be too small" Could that be true? I read before that some girls just never have that happen to them that its nothing different but you cant always believe everything you read on the internet... (link)
I was in the same situation. You are definitely not a virgin. Be thankful it didn't hurt, I was! Lol. But I agree with the latter advicenators, yo ucan break your hymen earlier in life or just not have one.


how can i sexually,satisfy my girl when she is on her period
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I'm always much more horny on my period. My ex and I tried it once and it was a little gross and not really worth it. My aunt doesn't do it because of the smell.


Do spacers hurt more than braces? (link)
Spacers hurt a slight bit more for me than the braces did, but I would get a bit of a headache every time I would get my braces tightened. Not a big deal at all, just keep some Tylenol around.




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