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Popping Your Cherry
I am 17 years old and have only had sex with my boyfriend of over two years. We have had sex more times than i can count but I've never "had my cherry popped". Is there something wrong with me? My friends have joked around and said "oh he must be too small" Could that be true? I read before that some girls just never have that happen to them that its nothing different but you cant always believe everything you read on the internet...
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I was in the same situation. You are definitely not a virgin. Be thankful it didn't hurt, I was! Lol. But I agree with the latter advicenators, yo ucan break your hymen earlier in life or just not have one.
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No, that is not true. Some girls aren't even born with hymens but if you are it is possible that it could have been broken when you were a kid. NOT saying that you were sexual assaulted as a child, but just saying that sometimes if you feel too hard to rode a bike etc. they can break.
When I first had sex I didn't feel any pain either, but it wasn't because he was too small...believe me. It was because my hymen was already broken or maybe I didn't have one to begin with.
Don't listen to your friends, they obviously have no idea what they are talking about and don't let it bother you. Just have fun and be safe.
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Many women do not have a "cherry". There are many who do that never experience pain the first time they have sex, they don't have a lot of heavy bleeding etc..The hymen, or "cherry" is simply a very thin (in most cases) skin covering the entrance to the vagina. If you have ever used tampons without a problem inserting them...you most likely have a broken hymen already. Here are
pictures of what one looks like. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
So, if you and your boyfriend have had sex even once, you are not a virgin. Your cherry, if there was one has been "popped". Now, go give the jokers
some facts. :)
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