He cuts me down and treats me like a little kid. Nothing I do is right. He play fights with me in front of his friends but is super rough almost like he enjoys hurting me. When he does that and yell me if I cry he'll just call me a baby.I'm not super annoying either, I try to help him in school so he wont fail and all he does is want to copy my work and he talks about other girls around me. He started doing this when we got in the tenth grade. Idk what to think?
BeePeeTee answered Saturday July 24 2010, 10:56 am: Your boyfriend is being very mean and inconsiderate of your feelings. I suggest that you listen to OhMyLucyDarling and move on. You sound like a fairly good person only trying to do the right thing. I know that you don't want him to fail, but he needs to learn that his actions have an equal and opposite reaction. While you grow up to have a successful life, he could possibly... have a different turn out.
Becca answered Saturday July 24 2010, 1:15 am: sorry to say but your boyfriend is using you. it's kind of obvious that he is using your looks to show off in front of his friends. kind of like he's in control type of thing. also, the whole copying your work thing is no where near affection. more like using you to get by school. talking about other girls in front of you also shows that he really does not care much about the relationship. so...time to tell him to grow up and find a new boyfriend [ Becca's advice column | Ask Becca A Question ]
Shaunee answered Friday July 23 2010, 10:21 pm: im sorry hun but the best way to get through this is to breakup with him sorry is probably not what you want to hear but its the truth -_- [ Shaunee's advice column | Ask Shaunee A Question ]
iwantthetruth answered Friday July 23 2010, 7:22 pm: Hello.
I don't know the best way to say this, but why are you still with your boyfriend? You say that there are many problems in the relationship and that he hurts you and disrespects you. Don't you think that you deserve to be with someone who shows you love? Maybe your boyfriend is nice to you sometimes but you need to be with someone who will be kind to you at all times. Please don't stay with him. I know that it might be impossible to see your life without him but it is necessary that you get yourself out of this situation. High school should be fun and relationships should be enjoyable. I really hope that you break up with this guy. Your life will be so much better once you do.
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