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Hiya im Kizman im better than I thought at answering questions but I also ask alot. I'm a very romantic person, but im dating someone at the moment. I love my besties to death! Im gunna go to a new school in september wish me luck. My bestest friends are my entire life. And I'll do my best to help you with your problems.


Thats pretty much me!

Love ya,



-Shaunee
E-mail: shauneekat@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Muskegon MI
Occupation: summer
Age: 13
Yahoo: shauneekat@yahoo.com
Member Since: June 6, 2010
Answers: 23
Last Update: February 13, 2011
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rainbowcherrie
So, my girlfriend is extremely hot. Im not kidding. Recently she's really been pissing me off and i have considered on several occasions to just break up with her. But that means no more sex with this babe. I dont know what the hell to do. (link)
you are practicaly using her you bastard


I have a Wii, so I could get either one and be okay. I just don't know which one is better. Most everyone says the Wii version is a bit better, but the controls worry me.

Many say the Wii's controls are so awesome and you'll never go back, yet they also say the montion-sensitivity can cause issues at times, seeing as how the wrong movement can cause something completely off to happen. Say, you might want to bash someone with your shield but instead you do a spin attack.

I don't really care about graphics differences, as the only game I've ever played and completed is LoZ: Ocarina of Time.

If I got the GC version, would I need to buy a memory card or would it be stored on the Wii? (link)
hey ive played both versions and i think gc is the best cuz its so much easier


what are song good country love songs? (link)
taylor swift
back to december
haunted
breath
the way i loved you
speak now
sparks fly
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darius rucker
come back song
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colbie calait(sp?)
i never told you(pop and country song)
realize
bubbly
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carrie underwood
before he cheats
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kelly pickler
makin me fall in love again
best days of your life
red high heels
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rascal flatts
prayin for daylight
movin on
these days
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Okay we'll my boyfriend told me that one of his friend who was really good with computers and things did him a favor and somehow got on the internet and tapped into my phone and had all my calls by a certain person forwarded to his house phone that way when they called he could pick up and listen in. I want to know if this is actually possible and if so how do I stop it. Also he said my tetxs were sent to his email. I know he sounds crazy. But I'm just curious to know if this is possible. (link)
I think the best way to deal with this is to
#1. BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!
#2. get a new phone


In general, I feel SO weird. Ever since Saturday night. I've been getting sore arms, muscles, joints. My legs have been pinkish red whenever i get light headed. I got light headed today and that happened. I get this really annoying headache behind each eye randomly. (I have tmj in my jaw so idk if that has to do with it) My chest randomly feels tight ( i have allergy enduced asthma so idk if thats it) and it feels like i have to burp randomly in my chest and i can;t let it out. My throat has been sore since Saturday and I've been extremely tired.. what symptoms are these? btw, i haven't been getting the best sleep. East five points. My mom doesn't think it's serious enough to go c a dr. my cheeks on my face also randomly hurt. (link)
i think that is VERY SERIOUS i mean for all you knoww you could be having a very serious alergic reaction to one of your medication you need to see someone NOW!!!!!


when you have sex for the first time but he didnt pop your cherry does it mean yor still a virgin ? (link)
nope =•)


heyy!
i need some romantic new love songs to dedicate to my man.I want the music style to be similar to we the kings and avril lavigne and stuff like that ^.^
thanks (link)
crazy bout ya - mercadies and master p
suffocate - j holiday
thank god i found you, always be my baby - mariah cary
thing ill never say - avril lavigne
sex on fire - we the kings


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
thanks for inboxing
you should tell him you know and if any of you friends are in the group get the proof from them and this isnt what you want to hear but he isnt a good boyfriend if hes hiding stuff from you
thanks your my first inbox ever and wish you luck :]


for nearly 2years i had been gettin depressed cause of people treating my like shit then i eventually got over it and just managed not to care anymore about anyone apart from my two horses as i just hate people who stab you in the back i am 16 so if i die my horses would have people to look after them no matter what so i can not find any real reason to keep going on like this the depression just keeps coming back i have people i talk to who call me a "friend" but i just find that only ones i care about are my 2 horses i have tryed a couple of times to wrap a cord round my neck but just couldn't bring myself to do it i just feel hate all around me cause people who call me their "freind" will also treat me like shit at the first chance they get and i just want to find a quick and easy way to kill myself can someone plz help me and tell me how? (link)
call this number and talk to someone please its not worth it
suicide hotline 1-800-784-2433


Hello ,

So okay , show story is me and this guy hung out we met up after 1-2 years and so , we did things got phsyical. And I went down on him and his thing was hanging out while I went up to kiss him and it was on me , but the thing is I haven't gotten' my period yet , am I pregnant?

Please help:(
Thank you ,
Betty (link)
you did not say the penis went in the vagina if it didnt then your good you are not prego :]


What does it mean when a guy says he loves your innocence and fresh view life? Does it mean he likes me or not? (link)
I think it means he really loves your personality and hes happy that your his friend or somthing


i am 13 and i have not got my period yet and i realy want it how can i get it and how will i know if i am going to get it (link)
Trust me you do not want your period. The cramps are killer and you might not get it until your 15 you could get get it anywhere from 9 to 15 hope i helped


Hello ,
Okay I have a huge problem. I have fallen for this one guy so much , i've never fallen for a guy like this before. So , okay we have known eachother for around about 3 years now and we just met up and we were patient all that time and we finally met up and we had a blast. He was such a gentlemen and everything and we did some phsyical things and he dropped me home and waited for me till I went inside. So , we talked after and he said he had a great time , and so did I. But , the problem is he goes away for a couple months to play sports in the States , and we live a bit apart. Is it worth it?

I really don't want to get hurt , but I have really fallen for him. (link)
Okay the long distance thing might work and it might not. but the best thing you could do is try it out for all you know you might have found your soul mate. love ALWAYS works the way its supposed to. I might not of helped the way i planed to but i hope i helped:]


So, this is my first relationship with a guy and I really like him. Problem is, I'm really uncomfortable with doing things around him. Like, I'm even scared to touch him on my own. I feel like I'll do it wrong and then he'd judge me in a negative way. I'm trying to open up slowly to him. He knows that I'm uncomfortable at doing certain things with him too but he says he understands and that it takes time. I know that if I stay like this, he wouldn't like it and I don't want to be like this either. How do I loosen myself up around him to make things between us more enjoyable? (link)
dont be scared to do anything around him if he understands how you feel then you really have no reason to be scared around him i used to be like that and it was soo bad i couldnt even talk to him without someone with me so i understand how you are but just let your self feel safe when your in his arms or holding his hand. hope i helped :]


what does this mean...if she looks like a duck, talks like a duck, walks like a duck, then she must be a duck. someone in my family said that about my gf and i have no idea what it means. (link)
shes obviously a hoe



He cuts me down and treats me like a little kid. Nothing I do is right. He play fights with me in front of his friends but is super rough almost like he enjoys hurting me. When he does that and yell me if I cry he'll just call me a baby.I'm not super annoying either, I try to help him in school so he wont fail and all he does is want to copy my work and he talks about other girls around me. He started doing this when we got in the tenth grade. Idk what to think? (link)
im sorry hun but the best way to get through this is to breakup with him sorry is probably not what you want to hear but its the truth -_-


13/f

Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.

I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.

It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.

I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.

((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
Seriosly im 13 to you should NOT be having sex at that age 7 guys? really? and your dads friend GET HELP!!!!! your boobs grow bigger at there own pace hun and they get bigger WHEN YOU GET PREGNANT!!!!!! who ever told you must have misunderstood! tell your parents whats going on now! AND GET HELP!!!!


My bestfriend never talks to me anymore. Like i'll go up to her and ask her if she wants to sit by me she'll just snuff me all the time. I'm almost 16 and I'm a female. If someone could please give me advice that would be nice.
Thx (link)
mabey she has somthing to tell you and shes to scared to tell you, or somone is spreding rumors about you.


Well at the beginning of the year me and my friend liked the same guy so me and some kids from school went out to eat and he was there so my friend likes to seduce people...i went to go get something to drink and when i came back they were KISSING!!! Now i feel like i can't trust her. How can i stop holding a grudge against her about this situation?Also everyone including her brother,sister, and cousin told her that she was wrong for doing that to me (link)
go back and tell her how you feel and she'll understand if she is TRUELY a bestfriend if she does it again you cant trust her whatsoever


love forever shaunee


16/f
My bf is so asking for it,I don't know what to do...Every time we're on a date we both get turned on like crazy and it's been like this for a while.We want to have sex soon and it's gonna be my first time,but I'm a bit scared.I told him that and he said he'll be gentle and careful with me...I really love this guy but I'm quite insecure and indecisive about this.Should I have sex with him if I feel like it?I know only I can decide when's the right time for me to do it.Still there are so many dilemmas,like,what if the condom breaks? that causes insecurity...what should I do? I really want him and can't hold back anymore.
(link)
im 13 and think you shount cuz if you have any doubts about it then your not ready




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