Well at the beginning of the year me and my friend liked the same guy so me and some kids from school went out to eat and he was there so my friend likes to seduce people...i went to go get something to drink and when i came back they were KISSING!!! Now i feel like i can't trust her. How can i stop holding a grudge against her about this situation?Also everyone including her brother,sister, and cousin told her that she was wrong for doing that to me
ConsueloBabyy answered Monday March 1 2010, 9:59 pm: I've dealt withh this mannnyy times.
Don't hold a grudge over a boy. it's not worth it trust me. && youu should understandd that youu guys BOTH likedd him. Youu probablyy wouldd have done the same to herr. Justt get overr it. guyss come && go, It's not worthh losingg a friendshipp (: [ ConsueloBabyy's advice column | Ask ConsueloBabyy A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Monday January 18 2010, 2:56 pm: Is your friendship worth losing over something so trivial? If the answer is anything other than NO you can bet it wasn't stable to begin with. Talk with her about your feelings and why you feel like you do.
Maybe she wasn't aware that you liked him or was dared to. It doesn't matter if GOD told her she was wrong or not much less your friends. It has to come from you and you need to work it out for yourself with her.
If she and the guy moved on long ago than move on as it's not going to help you to fight about it now. Anger is like drinking a bottle of liquid bleach every time you become that way. It hurts you inside and NOT her.
Let go of it. You're like a monkey with its hand stuck in a jar of honey unwilling to let go of his fist to get his hand out. This isn't worth fuming about any longer. Either talk to her or forget about it and move on. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
Bronx7 answered Monday January 18 2010, 2:43 pm: You both should have just talked and said you 2 wasn't going to try to even get with him because you both have a crush on him.You should just talk to her and tell her how you feel since you are best friends.If she really is she would understand but as a bestfriend since that already happend an she tells you she really likes him and want to be with him you should say thats ok with me just dont do nothing like that again and that your their for her [ Bronx7's advice column | Ask Bronx7 A Question ]
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