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This Saturday(Jan 23) i have my first date with a girl. We're goin to see a movie, and i need any advice for my first date, this will be her second date as she went out with some other guy. Neither of us has kissed anyone.
So any advice would be great thanks :) (link)
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Dont rush anything
Make her laugh as much as you can and be polite.Hold her hands when you guys are walkin buh make sure you go for it first
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I need hope & help getting my old life back due to a bit of setbacks.
-i took lessons starting three years ago. Guitar & clarinet lessons for over a year and taught myself piano. i could play nearly anything on guitar or clarinet, and alot on piano and I wrote a lott of good songs. The thing is I’m so jealous of my past?? i try & try yet i suck, i cant understand any guitar or piano notes but i can do tab slowly, and suck at writing songs they don’t flow. i was in track&field and cheerleading and was very social and with friends everyday but now i don’t talk really and only go out with my boyfriend and if friends pick me up and make me come with them yet I constantly need to be doing something either shopping or muay thai or painting just something. My life revolved around friends and arts of all kinds I want that back.
-I hit a very hard point in my life and pretty much dropped everything I had going for me. Doctors called it rape, the guys didn’t go in me though I broke free but I did suffer a lot and was hurt in many ways. I was hospitalized and had and somewhat still have severe ptsd, trauma pain, and lost touch with life. With 7 months of failed treatments they diagnosed me as schizophrenic and i was treated like it and rehabilitized. Doctors fucked up my memory, brain and I have no trust in anyone. i got the hell out a there and without records transferred switched to doctors who don’t have a clue about my past and have been doing unimaginably better and its down to two a month doctor visits. :)
-I’m trying to get going again, iv been trying all I miss but I just suck I cant do anything anymore not even act like I used to. I’m lost involving music and art. My paintings, stories and drawings suck and I can’t play music anymore but I’m diein to. I want my life back! I finally am willing to give it my all. So any ideas on how to get skill back or knowledge even social skills? Positive or negative let me hear it I want change. Help? almost 16/f (link)
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U just needa have a positive additude and 1 person you can trust to expand your horizons.That 1 person you trust will put hope and joy back in your life and thats going to be the KEY to get your skills back.
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i have to get a drug test in exactly 7 days for a job. i have never done drugs or smoked pot before but im around it all the time and yesterday people were blowing the smoke in my face and stuff so i felt a little high. but i was just wondering if that would stay in your system? (link)
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Sometimes it does but if they take your hair instead of your piss your going to fail the drug test
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Me and this guy,joe have been talking for about a month. We chilled every weekend atleast once except this weekend.We chilled during the week too and at school he would accompany me to my locker ,to lunch,to class and kiss me before class.Friday we made plans but he told me his brother was coming down and it was his bro's birthday so he couldn't chill.He texted me the next day,just to talk but it wasn't for very long.Then he texted me again later that night just to talk as well.His brother left the next day but he told me he had a formal party to go to that night (which is true because another one of my friends was there and saw him) and so he couldn't chill but he said after the party ,he could hangout.He never called me after the party and it's been a whole day since he's texted me.Am I being crazy? I'll see him at school tomorrow for sure because I have a class with him.But is he just busy this weekend? or is he trying to brush me off?We were going so good and last weekend he told me he really liked me .Nothing bad happened between us either!Also,if he does continue to talk to me at school,should i confront him about it? or will he just think im nagging? I guess we aren't going out,so i don't really have the right to be mad but I'm worried! (link)
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He was just busy this weekend and you had proof.But you should comfront him about it and see whats good between ya 2.See if he wanna be with you if thats what you want 100% and know it.And no your not being crazy you like him n he likes you you have the right to act that way considering the fact you 2 been talking for a lil bit
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ok im a fourteen year old girl and i need to find a good alternative school and or a good homeschooling kind of program. i hate the public school where i live and i want to move to my moms so i want to find a good alternative school. If you put down the kirchner st school or ninth grade center, its of no use because ive already looked at those so dont waste my time. I dont want to go to school with juvees either and i wantto go to a good college so i want a genuinely good school.HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP (link)
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FLVS.NET its from home and you get started asap
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so my and my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up like 2 months ago. we hung out once like about a month after we broke up and everything went well, or so it seemed. he texted me and we were still good friends. i liked it. now he doesn't text me anymore and he rarely texts me back so i texted him saying "i need to ask you something" i want to ask him if were done being friends so i can just give up and move on with my life...problem is he didn't answer me. i know he loses his phone alot but i don't want to make myself seem desperate. i'm fine without a relationship with him but he still means something to me and i want to be friends and i want to know if i'm wasting my time...i don't just want to randomly stop talking to him cause that just brings awkwardness and i really don't want to do that. what should i do? (link)
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Just stop textin him and see if he still wants to be your friend because if he really does he'll text you and not ignore you
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hiya....well i split up with my ex a few months ago..and on new year i met a guy that i liked...he asked for my number and i made the mistake of bringing him home with me that night...he seemed different to other guys, he went home the next day and said that he would give me a text..he text me a few days later saying thanks for letting him stay and that did i have a good year we texted each other abit and that was the end of the txts...i got a text from him a couple of days ago saying that he was in my town and if he could come round with his friend..i said ok so he came round and i was with my mate who i live with...so their was 2 guys and me and my mate...me and this guy ended up going to bed while my mate and his mate were downstairs...we came downstairs a few hours later and then they both went home(but not straight away) he said that he would give me a text and he did the nest day..my mate and his mate got on really well and he said that he likes her and basically wants to get to know her nothing happened between them....im just wondering now does he actually like me or am i just a booty call? he does seem genuine and a nice guy...his mate says he is going to see if he likes me but i dont now what goes on in mens heads!!...do u think he actually likes me????? xx (link)
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It seems like your a booty call.He texts you days at a time and see's you when he wants something from you
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Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help! (link)
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Ask him how he would feel about having a kid right now.After he answers that u'll know what to say
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Okay Im a 19 year old female. I just moved in with my boyfriend (who still lives with his parents) in july and im pregnant. We live in a small town there is nothing to do and I dont know anybody here but his family. I dont work because there isnt any jobs around here and my boyfriend doesn't want me to because Im pregnant. He does work and his brothers go to school and everybody takes off everyday and im here at home by myself everyday with no car and nothing to do. I've been getting really depressed lately i cry for no reason and I think Im homesick. I miss my family but I don't want to hurt his feelings please help is it something i'll get over or am i depressed I don't want to be and i've heard it's not good for the baby..any advice will help thank you. (link)
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If your homesick you must go home its best for you and the baby.He shuld understand that if he really loves you.And crying and stuff is normal its your moods switching around because your pregnant.But try just laying in warm water and cuddling with your boyfriend for now.It should help you a lot
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I just had my period and I know I should tell my mom but I don't want to be embarrassed. I cannot find the right words to tell her that I've started. It wouldn't be a problem but my mom doesn't have periods right now and doesn't keep any pads or tampons in the house because of that. I can't just stuff toilet paper in my panties. My friend gave me a few pads but I can't keep asking her for them. How do I tell my mom about my period and not feel stupid? I don't want her to make this into a big deal... (link)
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Mothers always make it into a big deal because they say their baby is growing up.Just tell her to give you pads or go to the store with her and get pads and hopefully she dnt make a scene in public
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so there is this guy i just met and we have been talking on facebook but we never really have any conversations because there is nothing to talk about. we just say whats up and tell each other what were doing and then the conversation stops.
how do i get conversations going with him??
it's also kind of hard because i only met him once so there's not much to talk about and i don't know him too well. (link)
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ask hime where he live at wat he likes to do and try n tell some jokes or something
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Okayy so first off I am 17 and a female. And please don't say that I'm too young to be havin sex or whatever. Anyways my last period ended like January 10th and me and my boyfriend had sex on the 12th. We used a condom but we only did it for literally like 5 seconds cause we heard his mom coming upstairs. But when he pulled it out we noticed the condom was broken. He said that he was not even close to cuming and he didn't feel Any pre cum come out but I'm still really paranoid that like there could have been pre cum before he put he condom on or something. Idk I'm just paranoid right now cause I have to wait like 20 days for my next period. Do you think I could be pregnant ? (link)
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No not at all cause the only way to get pregnant is on your ovulation time which you wasn;t on.Dont wrry though buh be aware that stress can make your period late 2
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I've had sex 2 or 3 times now and each time i bleed. the first time it was dark red and alot. then the next day when i didn't have sex it was pink. and then i had sex a week later and i woke up and i had some light pink blood. is this normal... or is it STILLL just my cherry, i don't get it. (link)
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Its just your cherry trust me.Some people it takes the 1st time and they wont bleed or the 7th time and they wont bleed anymore.Thats normal
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For the first time my bf asked me to finger myself to (entertain him and I've neva fingered myself so had no idea what I was doing) i used 2 fingers and it didn't hurt but got a strange feeling(sensation)
Then afterwards there was a lot of blood on my fingers and also later on it hurt to sit and walk and at first I thought it I had cut myself cause my fingers were long but when he got me 2 do it again later it happnd again.and it was close to my period is it possible it culd of triggered my period? Or jst cut myself cause I jst did anything had no idea wat to do. and I have already had sex before and neva bleed.culd it be infection? (link)
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Your suppost to bleed when "your cherry is popped" which means your not a virgen no more or your period came thats it.But u didn;t cut yourself or have an infection and it probly hurt because you went ruff or the fact you didnt know what you were doing
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hey there,
i have a weird tongue..
it is white and yellowish at the top and i have this SUPER deep cut in the lower middle.. i've had that for a while, a couple of years.
i have sores on the sides of my lower tongue.. i have no idea what is happening!
some advice would be great thanks!
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All i culd say is go to the dentist or doctors to get your mouth checked
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Well at the beginning of the year me and my friend liked the same guy so me and some kids from school went out to eat and he was there so my friend likes to seduce people...i went to go get something to drink and when i came back they were KISSING!!! Now i feel like i can't trust her. How can i stop holding a grudge against her about this situation?Also everyone including her brother,sister, and cousin told her that she was wrong for doing that to me (link)
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You both should have just talked and said you 2 wasn't going to try to even get with him because you both have a crush on him.You should just talk to her and tell her how you feel since you are best friends.If she really is she would understand but as a bestfriend since that already happend an she tells you she really likes him and want to be with him you should say thats ok with me just dont do nothing like that again and that your their for her
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Me and this guy have been talking for about 3 weeks and we hungout the last two weekends and during the week and at school and stuff and we kissed in school and he bought me a drink and held me ,etc.We kinda made plans to chill on the weekend but not officially.His brother (who he considers his best friend) came down from college for the weekend and it was his birthday, so he called me on friday and said he couldnt hangout because of that.Then he didnt text me the rest of the night until the next day and he just texted me to talk and he was still spending time with his brother. He texted me really late at night and was drunk and we talked for a bit and made plans to hangout the next night.He texted me a little bit but then i asked him to hangout and he said he was going to a sweet sixteen and he could chill after 12am ...and he never called me.I don't know if he's just been busy this weekend or if he doesn't like me anymore.When he was texting me ,he was doing smiley faces and talking so idk what the deal is.Should i be concerned? (link)
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Not at all! His just busy i bet next weekend his not going to be busy so you 2 can see eachother.Dont be negative about it,its nothing ;)
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Ive been friends with this girl for 6 years.She has always been so nice and really sweet..Then she like tunred into this rude thing..Like pushing people. Calling them names.And being a whore. She told me that all my friends hate me and i am not the girl to take that from people..So what do i do.Be like bye for good.Or what.Ive already sat down and talked to her. SHe still doesnt get it.& no one really likes her. SO yeh (link)
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1st find out whats really wrong with her because something really bad must have happened to her for her to be that way.And if thats her new way to be leave her because thats probly why she's being that way.You dont want to be with a rude mean person all the time that might just get you upset most the time
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I like this boy but am scared to tell him that i like him to his face...so i have decided to slip love notes into his locker until valentines day then tell him that i was the one who wrote them...Is this a good idea? Does anyone think it is cute and that he would like this? Thnx in advance!!14/F (link)
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Dat is so cute like for real.I hope everything goes right for you ;)
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Hey guys. Sorry about the title got a little into it haha. So I'm really heartbroken becuase I was starting to get to know this really cute guy and we were kind of messing around (we only made out) and stuff and I really liked him until I found out he had a girlfriend. I started to make a lot of illusions with this kid so I'm so hurt and always think about him. So do you guys know anysongs about a guy who is a cheater, or someone yÓu thought was different, or someone that was hurt by someone else? But please let it be in the pop/rock/acoustic style. Please no rap or hiphop or the type of pop britney sings haha. Thanks so much! - katelyn, 17 (link)
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Halo by haley james
(it was in one tree hill)
No Good by kate voegele
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