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Best friend?


Question Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 5:25 pm

Ive been friends with this girl for 6 years.She has always been so nice and really sweet..Then she like tunred into this rude thing..Like pushing people. Calling them names.And being a whore. She told me that all my friends hate me and i am not the girl to take that from people..So what do i do.Be like bye for good.Or what.Ive already sat down and talked to her. SHe still doesnt get it.& no one really likes her. SO yeh

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Alilash answered Sunday January 24 2010, 12:18 am:
First off, this girl is dealing with her own problems and is definitely taking a lot of it out on you. Second off, your opinion about your friendship with her should be defined on how she treats you, not what people think of her* If you've been friends with her for six years, she knows how to push your buttons and by saying your friends hate you definitely triggers something. Before you shut out the friendship completely, try just talking to her one more time. Not so much you the focus, but her. Something might really be going on in her life that may result in her doing this. Family issues, insecurities, etc. Your friend might really need you most, so don't shut her out completely. But if you do try and nothing results, rethink the friendship and decide if its really worth it.

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Bronx7 answered Monday January 18 2010, 2:26 pm:
1st find out whats really wrong with her because something really bad must have happened to her for her to be that way.And if thats her new way to be leave her because thats probly why she's being that way.You dont want to be with a rude mean person all the time that might just get you upset most the time

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ask_lily answered Wednesday January 13 2010, 2:10 am:
if i was you i would really think about if you want to be with a person like her and what would be batter for her

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valerieesuee answered Wednesday January 13 2010, 12:34 am:
This is one of those situations where you need to talk away before your self esteem gets too damaged to repair. Shes obviouisly not worthy to be your friend and maybe by you walking a way it will be red flag that shes doing something wrong.. people will change if they realize they need too. I wish you the best of luck, but just stay strong and push through this crisis!

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